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29-4-2009 - Drama

My mood while writing this blog: sad

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The past few weeks have been hard. Things have been really stressful. First my sister in law called to ask what to do about my brother. They have been together 11 years but only married for less than a year. They have a neighbor that is a single mother. She would constantly ask my brother to come over help her fix things or move things and stuff like that. She even invited herself to our family thanksgiving. Finally my SIL had enough. She told my brother its her or me. That caused some fighting. But things were looking up. Well then this girl called my sil and told her that she and my brother had messed around a few times. After much fighting and almost ending things my SIL decided to try to work things out and they are doing ok now.
While this was all going on, my husband decided to call my brother and tell him whats what. well this made me angry because he does the same stuff. my husband will go to single womens houses to do things for them all the time. or to just be there for them. we have a friend who is pregnant and he went out in the middle of the night to get her tums....when i was on bedrest he wouldnt even pick up the trash in the house. he would tell me to get up and do the dishes. so we got in a huge fight about it. he ended up changing his phone number so these women cannot call him anymore and we are working things out. we are even thinking about marriage counseling. my biggest complaint is that he refuses to help with timmy. he has changed less that 10 diapers and given exactly 4 bottles and timmy is 6 months old. his favorite thing to do is say hey timmy do you want to go see mommy?
then well this is the worst news i have today. our beloved cat buddy passed away last night. he was an indoor/outdoor cat and he was out for a few days. when he came home he wouldnt come inside at first. when he did he wouldnt eat, and was vomiting a few times a day. he would just lay in our shower and only get up to use his litter box or get a drink of water. we got paid yesterday so we thought lets take him to the vet. well at about 11 last night my husband went to the bathroom pet him and he let out this weird meow. i went in there and my husband said lets give him a bath for when he goes to the vet. we turned on the water, buddy stood up meowed and just layed back down. if you know cats you know that is NOT normal. i turned the water off and we pulled him up. my husband was rubbing him with a towel and he just kind of seized and then stopped breathing. i actually had to call my MIL to come and help out. i was crying and my husband was upset. we both felt bad i turned the water on and my husband was the one that suggested it. but in the back of our minds we knew buddy was weak and he didnt have much longer anyway. if it wasnt that night it would have been soon. buddy was the best cat. he layed with me the whole time i was pregnant. he would jump into your arms when you came into the house. he was awesome and everyone loved him.

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