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mrsnewz519
Age: 30
Country: USA
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City: Paterson
Partner: Mike
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27-10-2008 - SOME WOMEN JUS DONT APPRECIATE A GOOD MAN REALLY UPSETMy mood while writing this blog:
REALLY UPSET



Hello all. This Saturday me an the hubby threw his son a birthday party ..we had been planning this for the past few weeks now. We spent a little over $300..we werent planning on asking anyone to help out or buy anything..but on Friday the hubby askd his baby mother if she can jus buy some chicken so that we can fry that for the party also..well she refused and blew the whole thing out of proportion!! She then said "he had his party already i took him an his sister to Chuck E Cheese on Monday"...As if his father doesnt need to have a party for him too...mind you she is saying all this the day before the party after we sent invites out all ready. Anyways i guess the two of them got into a little argument! But they always go back an forth but never involve the kids in thier bickering. However its now Saturday..Party time..she's not answering her cell phon ..AT ALL!!..kids not here...an they're nowhere to be found!! Suddenly he gets a text.." the next time you will see your kids is in court"..So here we are food cooked (baked ziti, fried chicken and rice), house decorated so nice, big ass cake displayed on the table...guest arriving..and NO BIRTHDAY BOY!!!...My hubby was so hurt he was really looking forward to Saturday...thats all he was talkin about for the whole week...and over a freaking few bags of chicken this b*tch had to be on some ignorant sh*t...i felt sooooo bad!! We had all these ppl over here and no birthday boy!! Everytime i looked at him i wanted to jus cry!! My baby shower is nex month so he's like this money couldv went to that or even to buy stuff for his unborn son...He's still really upset about this ( he jus called me from work)...Some women jus dont appreciate it when they have a man in there life that wants to be there for his kids. And he takes good care of his..mon..wed..fri..and every other weekend he has them and whenever they need something he gets it..So why is she taking him to court???

JUS HAD TO VENT LADIES!!




6 Comments on SOME WOMEN JUS DONT APPRECIATE A GOOD MAN


tjones - Monday, 26 Jan
So what was the outcome? Did she take him to court? I bet she didn't because she probably realized how much he does.

Beauti - Tuesday, 28 Oct
That is just sad.
I guess, she's not thinking how this affects her SON...it really isn't about her!!! I am sorry that happened especially since certain times SOME fathers really don't give a shit!!!

*smoochies*
~Beauti


Aimey - Tuesday, 28 Oct
hey i read your blog and honestly that is something that as women we have to go through because now he is with you and you and your hubby are starting a new family and women jealousy is a big thing and mostly when you have a good man next to you. Trust me i feel you I dont have that issue because my babies father and I are still together but recently i had a little issue with some gurl but then i notice one thing and is that no matter what he would come back to me i gave and choice and he notice that here is where he wants to be and to be honest their are really few man that would take care of their kids so that makes women jealous but always keep in mind that the kids have nothing to do about it..And God dont like ugly

ReRe78 - Monday, 27 Oct
that was really messy of her and uncalled for...she didnt hurt nobody but her own child and to me that is dirty>>i'm sorry ya'll gotta put up with that pettyness, but hopefully his son knows what he did and planned for him and that he did this with good intentions...

JMBrown - Monday, 27 Oct
I think that she is a nasty bitter person because he has found a new love and sharing the most amazing thing with you and that is your unborn baby. I know it sucks and you can't take the hurt from your husband, but I would not tell her anything or ask her for anything else and if it was his day to have his children and she failed to give them to him I would take her ass to court. I hate people like her she is selfish. Keep your eye open for this stupid trick because she sounds like trouble for you and him for along time to come. Good luck girl and I am really, really sorry.

Julianna - Monday, 27 Oct
Do they already have a custody agreement in the court system? She's just jealous because you're having his baby!
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