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Who do my boobs belong to?????? This is a question once baby is born and an issue you need to be ready to face. It's a strange feeling but your breast can become a bone of contention between you, baby and hubby. Husbands can become jealous of the competition. For a long time they have been just yours, then, yours and hubby's and then a third party comes on the scene and the battle begins.
Feelings towards your own breast change from being a womanly attribute or sexual thing to a milk production center. I sometimes found it hard changing between the two. You just finish feeding baby and he has gone off to sleep, then hubby gives you the look, you know the look, the come on babe look. You have just finished your day of having a baby sucking your breast every 3 hours and then you need to share them again in a totally different way and sometimes I just didn't feel like sharing them again, not because I was not attracted towards my husband but that I seem to be sharing my body all the time.
That all said, it's a balance and something that needs communication. Husbands can very quickly feel sidelined when baby comes and it is important not to make them feel pushed aside.
It's worth being ready for this feeling and even discussing it with your hubby before baby comes.
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Cher1108 - Thursday, 8 May
Funny. I enjoyed this one.
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Who do my boobs belong to?????? This is a question once baby is born and an issue you need to be ready to face. It's a strange feeling but your breast can become a bone of contention between you, baby and hubby. Husbands can become jealous of the competition. For a long time they have been just yours, then, yours and hubby's and then a third party comes on the scene and the battle begins.
Feelings towards your own breast change from being a womanly attribute or sexual thing to a milk production center. I sometimes found it hard changing between the two. You just finish feeding baby and he has gone off to sleep, then hubby gives you the look, you know the look, the come on babe look. You have just finished your day of having a baby sucking your breast every 3 hours and then you need to share them again in a totally different way and sometimes I just didn't feel like sharing them again, not because I was not attracted towards my husband but that I seem to be sharing my body all the time.
That all said, it's a balance and something that needs communication. Husbands can very quickly feel sidelined when baby comes and it is important not to make them feel pushed aside.
It's worth being ready for this feeling and even discussing it with your hubby before baby comes.
1 Comments on The things no one tells you no.15 Who do my Boobs belong to.
Cher1108 - Thursday, 8 May
Funny. I enjoyed this one.
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