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mumofsix
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25-6-2008 - The things no one tells you no.27 Breast feeding takes practice OkMy mood while writing this blog:
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After speaking with a few of my friends who have just had their first babies, I decided to write this blog. I love breast feeding and recommend it if you are able.

There is an idea that we have as first time mothers, that after baby is born we will pop out the breast, baby will find it, open its mouth and latch itself onto the proper position. This is far from the truth.

Although breast feeding is a very natural thing to do, it is not always easy. You may feel awkward getting baby in the correct position, baby may not open its mouth very wide making it hard to latch baby on. Each of my babies have been different and my 4h baby has been the hardest to start off with.

Here are a couple of things that have helped me. Pillows, pillows and more pillows. I am small breasted so I need to prop baby up to be level with me. It is no good stooping down to meet baby as your back will soon start to really hurt and the baby will drag down on your nipple causing sore nipples.




There are a variety of holds for breast feeding. Find what is most comfortable for you:



The next thing that is important is to get baby to open its mouth wide before latching on. It is easy to fall into the trap of putting the nipple into a partially opened mouth. Sometimes baby is upset and all you want to do is get baby latched on, so you get that nipple in there no matter how wide the mouth is open. The problem with this is that the baby sucks the end of the nipple and needs as much of the areola ( brown part around the nipple) as he can get. You will end up with very sore cracked nipples and it is not nice. Believe me when I say I cried and dreading feeding my first baby because my nipples were so sore due to bad positioning and latching. Take the time to learn how to get baby to open its mouth.

So how do you get baby to open its mouth wide? There are a few things you can do:

* Make sure your baby’s nose is opposite your nipple
* Move your baby close to you and stroke his mouth or cheek with your finger or nipple. He should respond by opening his mouth and turning towards the stimulus. This is the rooting reflex


If baby is sleepy he may not open wide. In this case, strip baby off, or expose feet and give a little tickle. My 4th baby was very lazy at opening his mouth, I just couldn't get him to open wide. My midwife came to visit, watched what was happening, took him from me, stripped him naked and held him by a cold open window briefly. I did not like seeing her do it but when she returned him to me he had the biggest mouth you could imagine and we never looked back.
Once the mouth is wide open move your baby towards you so he can take the breast. He should take as much as possible, so that your nipple rests against his upper palate and his tongue is underneath. If the nipple is far enough back in his mouth, it won’t move during the feed, and shouldn’t get sore

I always look for a good K shape of the mouth like this picture:


Look for the following evidence of a good latch:

* Open mouth, with bottom lip curled back
* Baby’s chin touching your breast
* Mouth and jaw movement
* Tops of ears wiggling slightly as he sucks
Most of the areola (the pigmented area of skin around the nipple) in the baby’s mouth

He isn’t well latched on if:

You can hear a clicking noise
You can see his cheeks are sucked in
You feel pain throughout the feed rather than a slight initial soreness

In this case. Slip your finger gently into down side of breast and into baby’s mouth until suction releases then start over again.




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Daya (1996) Danielle (1998) Samara (2000) Caleb (2003) Levi (2005) Jaxon-Brian-Storm (2008)

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