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30-12-2008 - Car Accident HurtingMy mood while writing this blog:
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After a very hectic Christmas Eve and Day, I went back to work today with anticipation of a short work week. On my way home, for some reason, there was a lot of traffic, and the highway was stopped. Well, the person behind me kept going, slammed into me (I saw him coming and could do nothing about it!), and that made me hit the lady in front of me, which made her hit the truck in front of her. So 4 vehicles involved all together. I immediately started to freak out and cry uncontrolably and I was shaking. I tried so hard not to hit the steering wheel with my belly, but not like I can hide it, I hit it pretty good. Thank goodness, the airbag, for some unknown reason, didn't deploy. I stayed in my car until the ambulance got there. I didn't even see the damage on the front or the back of my car. I called my husband at work, (crying and yelling at the idiot who answered the phone) and he drove over 20 miles to sit with me until the ambulance took me away. The EMT lady tried to get an IV into me because I was having cramping, and then I started to get pains all over my abdomen. Lets just say she was very unsuccessful. Blood dripping down my arm, it's like she didn't know what the heck she was doing. But she was real nice, so I didn't complain. I got to the hospital, and they check his heartbeat which was 160. So a big sigh of relief there. About an hour later I finally had clearance to go up to labor and delivery, and they tied 2 monitors on me, for his heartrate and a contraction monitor. I was having no contractions, and he had the hicups! They doctor came in and did an ultrasound to check my placenta. It's on the back wall of my uterus, which is the pefect place to be in the event of an accident, we don't need that to start to separate! And the baby had plenty of fluid, he's in the head down position, knees bent, quickly running out of room. Baby Michael got a clean bill of health!!!!! Thank you god....that's all I've got to say.

I'm hurting today, tho. My back is very sore, as well as my stomach. I'm getting pains on the lower part of my belly, and they said that was to be expected. I have Sciatica starting on my right side, going to my right leg...lovely. A whopper of a headache, because I did get hit from both ends, my neck keeps cracking. ::sigh:: Whatever, my baby is doing OK, so that's all that really matters to me at the moment. The lady from the insurance company of the guy who hit me was completely rude! She won't let me get a rental car, so I have no clue how I'm supposed to get to my doctor's appt on Friday, or work which is 35 miles away. I'm out for the rest of the week with a doctor's note, but could she be any more ignorant? She wants to come by my house next week to do a personal assessment of my injuries, never heard of that before, and she wants me to take a taxi to wherever I need to go. yeah OK...no!!!!! #1 the cab drivers around here are dirty and dingy and are totally not trustworthy #2 her client hit me, why am I being inconvenienced? So now I have another headache that Tylenol just isn't touching. 2008 is definitely going out with a bang :o(




16 Comments on Car Accident


jaidamommy - Thursday, 8 Jan
Ugh what a nightmare. Glad you are safe and baby is doing well. Hang in there...

us2girls - Monday, 5 Jan
i am so glad you and the baby are okay!! Sorry that had to happen to you. I would have totally freaked out too. Actually getting in a car wreck has been one of my biggest fears lately - especially on the freeways getting to work. HUGS to you and may god bless you and baby and continue to keep you both safe :)

denyze - Thursday, 1 Jan
Thank god you and baby are okay. Don't worry about the little things the most important thing is that your lil one is okay and staying in there a little longer. The guy that hit u is an idiot!! I'm mad!

smc - Wednesday, 31 Dec
Wow. Talk about a scary moment. Thank goodness both you and the baby are fine. Try not to stress to much dealing with the whole aftermath. I'd make sure your insurance compnay knows that his is acting weird. I've never heard of them wanting to come and assess how you are doing. They are certainly not qualified to do so. Be careful with that. Here's hoping the new year rolls in quietly for you. You've had more than enough excitement to end the old one. Hope you feel better soon.

BTW, saw you are from MA. Where about? I grew up in Worcester. Heard you'll be getting snow today. Stay warm. :)


TinyBabySteps - Wednesday, 31 Dec
I'm so glad that you and baby Michael are ok, I'm sorry such a horrible thing had to happen to you. Accidents take quite a while to shake and even longer if you are pregnant at the time. You must have been so scared. I'm so sorry you had to go through that. Please try to take it ease and not stress over no car for a while. Get a friend to bring you to your appt., you should be resting anyway. Everything will work out! take care of yourself and your little one! Lots of hugs!! Take care!

Becs - Wednesday, 31 Dec
you poor girl! what a terrible thing to happen. i'm so glad that, apart from being a little sore, you + baby are well. take care of yourself + get plenty of rest xxx

tinag - Wednesday, 31 Dec
OMG,,,,,,,,, THANK GOD YOU AND YOUR BABBY ARE OKAY....................... I am so sorry that happened to you. What jerks at that insurance company. What about your insurance company ?? How are they ? Oddly enough I was in a car accident too not long ago. I went through a green light and some lady ran a red and t-boned me thank god on the passenger side. I immediately freaked and started to cry and shake too. People all came running to my car and I said right away I am pregnant. Got taking by the ambulance. Anyways. Other then being very sore like U my baby and I were fine. BUT, my insurance comany told me not to even talk to the ladies insurance company. That that's what they were there for and they would deal with her insurance company. So I say don't even talk to them or talk to your company first before you do anything. Fortunetly her company had to pay for a rental. I had a rental car for 29 days and she was charged with carelss driving, running a red light and speeding.
Anyways, my point. Talk to your insurance company before you talk to hers.
SO GLAD YOU AND YOUR BABY ARE OKAY. Take it easy. Put your feet up and relax. Take care of yourself :)
xxxxx


SunnyMom - Wednesday, 31 Dec
Oh honey...how awful! My eyes filled with tears reading your blog....I would have been totally hysterical. I am SO relieved that your little baby is OK, thank goodness. You had a guardian angel watching you. Sorry that you have to go through all this stress and added pain. Lots of hugs to you, Sunny

LeLe0307 - Wednesday, 31 Dec
I just can't even believe all of this! I was soo worried about you!!!! I am SOOOOO freaking HAPPY that Baby Michael is okay. I am SOOO sorry that you are hurting and having to suffer with this guys insurance.. It's just like insurance people (no offense to anyone that works in insurance) to be SOOO insensitive. They don't care that you are pregnant.. They are trying to do as little as possible to be pay anything out of pocket! That's not RIGHT! I would start screaming on the phone with them.. Demand a Rental and tell her you will send her pictures of your injuries.. Where is the faith any more?! I am so mad at the other driver for you!!! GRRRRR!!! I would call that lady and tell her that you better see her or a representative on Friday to pick you up and take you to your doctor's appointment.. that you are NOT taking a freaking TAXI!!!! I wish I could call them for you!!! Again, I am SOOOO sorry you have had such bad luck.. I hope that at the very second the clock strikes Midnight tonight.. that everything will change you will start having good luck!!!! Write me later! Let me know how your doing! Try to take it easy!

JanetN - Wednesday, 31 Dec
I am so glad you and baby are ok. I had a car wreck when I was 15 weeks pregnant. All turned out ok. My airbags didnt come out either. The women that caused the accident, her insurance was wonderful to me. I got a nice rental car, 2009 model. They are paying my ER bill. So sorry you are going through this, I pray 2009 will be a great year for you.

mummy23 - Wednesday, 31 Dec
Im glad that you and baby are ok!! just take it seay and dont stress xx

1st time again - Wednesday, 31 Dec
Look at the brightside, you are ok, baby Michael's ok & he's healthy with the hiccups! =>
Nothing worse than seeing it happen in your rear mirror, especially when you are pregnant. Now you can focus on taking care of you & recovering for the rest of the week.
I have never heard of them REFUSING a rental car when it wasn't your fault. Especially when you are pregnant! Forget the agent, ask to speak to her supervisor or better yet go down there & scream bloody murder. The last thing they want is a scene in front of new clients. Bring out all your pregnancy emotions & unleash them on the poor devil until you get satisfaction. Then after they give you the rental car, ask for reimbursement on the taxi that you had to take to get to their office.
Leave with a smile on your face & celebrate with bubbly cider. So long 2008, HELLO 2009! This is your year honey!


JulianasMommy - Wednesday, 31 Dec
Thank god you and your baby are fine! I hope you feel better soon!!

metsmom - Wednesday, 31 Dec
Everything Babydel said ....I second! Glad you both are ok though momma. But yes demand a rental car and sue their asses!

DulcianasMom - Wednesday, 31 Dec
Praise God everything is ok with the baby! I hope you feel better soon, how scary!! I cant even imagine!! You poor girl:( I hope your Christmas went oK and i hope you have a relaxing and restful new years!!! Take care sweetie:)

MommaDel - Wednesday, 31 Dec
DEMAND a rental car! They HAVE to get you one. Even if it's not on his policy. They will bill him for it. I would sue, not that know anything about it but for God's sake you're 30 weeks pregnant. I would be a MAD woman right now! You're much stronger than I am. However, I'm so happy that the baby is fine and that you're only damage is soreness. Take care of yourself.... and call those asses back and demand a rental.... or check with your insurance.
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