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08-10-2009 - stressed and upset!!

My mood while writing this blog: sad

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Well after a massive argument with my ex over support with the older kids, i am left feeling sad alone and frightened and like i still have to answer to him, i know can say i am gonna be on my own in labour and will have no one for support when i need it most after he said he will be there all along for me at the birth hes just told me yesterday that he cant as he has no emotional feelings towards me and cant be there, i feel sad and alone and why me!!! i know i can do this though i am a strong person and the fact that i am managing now been this pregnant on my own with 3 boys to look after and doing everything anyway on my own the school run the kids the house the full lot i am sure the labour will be something i can do, i just hoped that i would have someone there,i really hate him he judt has no feelings or emotion he cheated on me when i was 9 months preg with my last boy i should of left then but here i am again pregnant, as if he would ever change really!!! just glad i have my own home now and not with him.........i can and will do this i promise my self i will and i will show how strong i am!!!

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5 Comments on stressed and upset!!


natalie fisher - Tuesday, 13 Oct
Thanks girls for all yr nice comments,i am sure i will be fine and as long as my boys are all ok i am doing summat rite xxxx love to u all xxxxxx

dueinnovember - Thursday, 8 Oct
Thats right girl! You will,and you will do it for your children. You can do it. You dont need him,nor do your children. He dont care,and he does NOT deserve you or them. I wish you the best of everything. Hang in there,everything will be just fine. I know how hard it is to be a single mom. Dont let him knock you down. Get rid of his sorry butt,and move on to better things. Good luck,and God bless.

frosty - Thursday, 8 Oct
I have no doubt in my mind that you will get through this. You seem to be such an independant woman, and if some good has come out of this you have learnt that you don't need a man to lean on, you already have 3 gorgeous little boys and another addition on the way. One thing is for sure you will never let another man treat you like this again.Hun stay strong, there will be light at the end of your tunnel, and one day you will look back and think that its him that has missed out and not you. Take care. Big hugs xx

natalie fisher - Thursday, 8 Oct
Thank u hun xxx and yr rite its him that needs the help if he cant see his baby be born and or hep out with his other children then he is a sad man and needs all the prays he can get xxx thanks again for yr kind words i need them rite now x

cupcake28 - Thursday, 8 Oct
i know this has got to be very hard for you. I can't imagine going through something like this. But as women, God has made us strong enough to bare children so I know you are going to be just fine. Pain will be there but you have to pray for God to give you a peace of mind! ALL things are possible through him. if he comes back around ( WHICH HE WILL) you now know what to expect. Pray for him because he will need it more than you for acting the way he is. Keep your head up you have your boys that love you! We are strong women! You might bend a little but show him that he can't break you!!;.)