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natty1982 has 73 days to go and is now in week 29
	Age: 25 Country: US Province/region: Louisiana City: New orleans Partner: Salvadore Children: Yes, 2 Pregnant: Yes Due date: 13 Feb ,2009 Occupation: Receptionist
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29-9-2008 - Some people

My mood while writing this blog:
hurt

I accidentally intercepted an email between the other 2 girls I work with (we share desks) It was from fri after my doc appt. I was on the phone with one of them explaining what was going on and this is what was sent between the 2 of them...

recept 1: You ok? why you not answering?

recept 2: on the phone with nat

recept 1: oh lord! she must be upset as usual

recept 2: not at all. she's pretty calm

rercept 1: oh well that's different lol

WHAT THE F*&$. And let me tell you this isn't the first time she has made a comment about me and the baby or me being upset over him. No I haven't been the picture of joy. And yes I ahve been high strung and nervous and scared. I cry everyday. It's un-nerving to have them tell you "your baby is goinmg to die" then he's not and now he "could" I AM ON AN EMOTIONAL ROLLER COASTER. Did I say nasty little things about her when she was out for 3 MONTHS because of her mother being ill????????? NO. I felt for her. It hurts my feelings. I thought I had made friends with this woman. Apparently I am wrong. But I guess I have learned that I can not share the details or concern for my son with certain people. It was just nasty. I hate office politics. I hate that I feel like she doesn't care.

And it's not just her. Sal says to me "the baby. that's all you ever talk about" My mom isn't interested in hearing about it anymore she cutsme off when I call. No one has time to listen. And yes it's the same story over and over again but I am scared and I feel alone. I hate today.

10 Comments on Some people

JOY2B - Wednesday, 1 Oct
I appologize for the rude person you work with. That shouldnt be how friends treat you. you know? you wouldnt do that to her. She sounds like she just needs attention or something. Things should get better!

webb211 - Wednesday, 1 Oct
Natty,

I just posted on your previous blog - but come and have a look at our support group for tricuspid atresia - you are welcome to say anything you want there - and will only ever find support and friendship. There are nearly 500 members who know exactly what you are going through. You will never feel out of place there - I promise. My son was initially diagnosed at 18 weeks pregnancy - I was told it was really bad and advised to terminate. I searched everywhere for help & advice. This group was not around then, but thankfully 1 year later it was formed by another mom in a situation the same as ours. It has been a godsend to me ever since.

Heart hugs

Dawn

Our website is:

www.hypoplasticrighthearts.org

daranbabymama - Tuesday, 30 Sep
I am sorry to hear everything that you are going through. Um i find my self always talking about my baby as well i just cant wait until she is born and i can hold her and see her. I really can care less who is tired of hearing about my child and if they are they dont let me know. i talk to my self about my baby or write it in a journal. But you know you have us to talk to we understand what you are going through. i will keep you and your baby in my prayers.

Take care and don't let people stress you out because they dont matter.

shelybelly - Tuesday, 30 Sep
Screw them!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! The good thing about co workers is they don't really matter!!!! He he!!!

taelynnzmommy - Tuesday, 30 Sep
What your going through is very tough and they probably dont understand that. and as for ur co-worker she obviously is no friend at all she should be there for u and try to be understanding. and as for ur husband oh boy thats a man's fave saying. Walt says that too me all the time and it hurts my feelings. Of course ur going to worry thats ur child that ur carrying and have a strong bond with already! Men dont really understand that i guess since they arent carrying the child and feeling the movements and kicks. If u have nobody too talk too u can always talk too us on here! I totally feel what ur going thru and who wouldnt be scared in ur situation?? U deserve a happy healthy lil boy and god is going too give u that :):)

TanyaT - Monday, 29 Sep
I am really sorry to hear what happened at work...what nasty , hurtful women....I believe what comes around goes around...you reap what you sow....You seem like such a sweet and caring person and you don't deserve to be treated that way. I wonder how THEY would deal with it if it were them going through the same thing. Anyway...just know there are people out there who care about you and your baby...I wish you all the best and am keeping you in my prayers:)

lp - Monday, 29 Sep
im so sorry that you have people like that around you. wait until they are pregnant and have a life to worry about other than their own. your baby will be a good person and you can talk to he/she about anything you want.

megan5579 - Monday, 29 Sep
I am sorry that you read something so cruel and hurtful - especially given recent events with the doctors. Just know that there ARE people that do understand, and if you ever need to vent I'm here! As for your coworkers - they sound like a couple of real witches! I'd steer clear of them, most definitely.

missbunny - Monday, 29 Sep
to put it bluntly and not so nicely...what a bitch! She doesn't deserve the time of day...I'm sure if she had to deal with what you have she might not be acting like such a cow. Sorry you had to deal with that :(

mistyns - Monday, 29 Sep
Well, I think you are completely justified in how you feel. It is disheartening that others can't relate to you when you need the support of friends and loved ones, the most. Things will get better for you, I know it.

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