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20-1-2009 - FEMALE NEIGHBOR WANNA GO OFF BUT I WONTMy mood while writing this blog:
WANNA GO OFF BUT I WONT



HELLO LADIES,

TELL ME WHAT YOU LADIES THINK OF THIS. I HAVE A NEIGHBOR THAT LIVES UNDER ME, WHEN I FIRST MOVED IN HERE WE WERE FRIENDS. I WOULD BABYSIT FOR HER VERY OFTEN. THEN SHE WOULD HAVE DAYS WERE SHE WOULD JUST TRIP ON ME AND FOR NO REASON AND THEN THE NEXT DAY SHE WOULD THINK EVERYTHING IS OKAY. OKAY FRO EXAMPLE MY HUBBY AND MY DAUGHTER HAVE ASTHMA AND THEY HAVE A BREATHING MACHINE, SHE CAME TO MY APT ONE NIGHT TO BORROW IT BECAUSE ONE OF HER TWIN BOYS NEEDED IT (NOW MIND YOU SHE'S AN R.N. WORKING A KAISER AND CAN GET THIS MACHINE FOR FREE) SO SHE TELLS ME I WILL BRING IT BACK TOMORROW WHICH WAS A FRIDAY, SO FRIDAY COMES AND SHE DOSEN'T BRING IT BACK AND I DON'T TRIP SATURDAY COMES AND I DON'T TRIP BUT SUNDAY CAME AND MY HUBBY NEED TO GIVE HIMSELF A TREATMENT SO I SENT MY DON'T TO GO AND GET IT AND SHE CALLS ME WITH THIS STANK ATTITUDE AND GONE TELL WHY U TAKING THE MACHINE AND DO I REALLY NEED IT I TOLD YES, I NEED MY MACHINE CAUSE MY HUBBY CANT BREATHE NOT THAT I HAVE TO EXPLAIN TO YOU WHY I AM TAKING IT BACK THEN SHE WAS LIKE WHATEVER THANK YOU ANYWAY AND HUNG UP IN MY FACE. THEN SHE CALLS ME ON MY BIRTHDAY AND TELLS ME I CAM CALLING TO SAY HAPPY BIRTHDAY AND I TOLD MYSELF I WASN'T FUCKING WITH YOU NO MORE ( SORRY FOR THE LANGUAGE ) I TOLD HER THANK YOU AND YOU DON'T HAVE TO BE MY FRIEND IT'S OKAY I WILL BE ALRIGHT. THEN IN OCTOBER WE HAD A TENANT MEETING AND SHE WAS SITTING IN THE MEETING WITH ANOTHER NEIGHBOR AND SOON AS I WALKED IN SHE SAID (LOUD ENOUGH FOR ME TO HEAR HER) I CANT STAND THAT BITCH SHE ACT LIKE SHE CANT SPEAK TO ME AND SHE CONTINUED TO TALK ABOUT ME FOR A GOOD 20 MINUTES. NOW, HER PROBLEM IS SHE CANT FIGURE OUT WHY I WONT TALK TO HER SO ONE DAY SHE TAKES IS UPON HERSELF TO QUESTION MY HUBBY ( AND IN THE BACK OF MY MIND THE DEVIL WAS LIKE CUSS HER OUT FOR QUESTIONING YOUR HUBBY) BUT I DIDNT AND MY HUBBY WAS GOOD ABOUT IT CAUSE HE TOLD HER IS YOU WANNA KNOW ANYTHING ABOUT MY WIFE CALL HER AND ASK HER. MY HUBBY SAID SHE MISSES MY FRIENDSHIP AND THAT I NEED TO TALK TO HER BUT I AM SO COOL ON HER BECAUSE ALL SHE IS GOING TO DO IS TRIP ON ME ALL OVER AGAIN IF I BECOME HER FRIEND. TODAY ANOTHER NEIGHBOR COMES TO ME AND SHE WAS LIKE CHEYENNE ( THE LADY UNDER ME) KEEPS ASKING ME WHY YOU WONT TALK TO HER AND I TOLD THIS NEIGHBOR DON'T DISCUSS ME IF Y'ALL WANNA KNOW SOMETHING Y'ALL KNOW WHERE I LIVE COME ASK ME. THIS HAS BEEN GOING ON SINCE LAST YEAR AND I AM TIRED OF IT I HAVE OTHER WOMEN INT HE BUILDING WHO DON'T LIKE ME OR TALK TO ME BUT I CAN CARE LESS BECAUSE THEY DON,T PAY MY BILLS. BUT, I NEED TO KNOW FROM YOU LADIES HOW SHOULD I APPROACH CHEYENNE WITHOUT CUSSING HER OUT. THE FUNNY THING IS, IS THAT OUR B-DAYS ARE A DAY APART AND WE ARE BOTH CANCERS. BUT, I FEEL LIKE ONCE YOU HAVE HURT ME TOO MANY TIMES I AM DONE WITH YOU FOR GOOD.
ALL THIS DRAMA IS BECAUSE I GOT A HUSBAND. BECAUSE I THINK I AM TOO GOOD CAUSE I GOT A HUSBAND THATS WHAT IT ALL BOILS DOWN TOO.




14 Comments on FEMALE NEIGHBOR


3 Is Good - Friday, 23 Jan
Hater/ By Maya Angelou

A hater is someone who is jealous and envious and spends all their
time trying to make you look small so they can look tall.
They are very negative people to say the least. Nothing is ever
good enough!

When you make your mark, you will always attract some haters...

That's why you have to be careful with whom you share your
blessings and your dreams, because some folk can't handle seeing
you blessed...

It's dangerous to be like somebody else... If God wanted you to be
like somebody else, He would have given you what He gave them! Right?

You never know what people have gone through to get what they
have...

The problem I have with haters is that they see my glory, but they
don't know my story...

If the grass looks greener on the other side of the fence, you
can rest assured that the water bill is higher there too!

We've all got some haters among us!

Some people envy you because you can:
a) Have a relationship with God
b) Light up a room when you walk in
c) Start your own business
d) Tell a man / woman to hit the curb
(if he / she isn't about the right thing)

e) Raise your children without both parents being
in the home

Haters can't stand to see you happy.
Haters will never want to see you succeed.
Most of our haters are people who are supposed to be
on our side.

How do you handle your undercover haters?
You can handle these haters by:

1. Knowing who you are & who your true friends are
*(VERY IMPORTANT!!)

2. Having a purpose to your life: Purpose does not
mean having a job. You can have a job and still be
unfulfilled.

A purpose is having a clear sense of what God has called you to be.
Your purpose is not defined by what others think about you.

3. By remembering what you have is by divine
prerogative and not human manipulation.

Fulfill your dreams! You only have one life to live...when its your
time to leave this earth, you 'want' to be able to say, 'I've lived my
life and fulfilled 'my' dreams,... Now I'm ready to go HOME!

When God gives you favor, you can tell your haters, 'Don't look at
me...Look at Who is in charge of me...'

Pass this to all of your family & friends who y ou know are
not hating on you including the person who sent it to you.

If you don't get it back, maybe you called somebody out!
Don't worry about it, it's not your problem, it's theirs..
Just pray for them, that their life can be as fulfilled as
yours! Watch out for Haters...BUT most of all don't become
a HATER!

'A woman's heart should be so hidden in Christ that a man
should have to seek Him first to find her.'


dolo22 - Thursday, 22 Jan
Great article. Check it out...

http://www.aolhealth.com/healthy-living/relationships/bad-friendships


silentchic - Thursday, 22 Jan
Shake it off mama sometimes the best thing for us to do is distance our selves from certain people. We can't be everyone friend she will continue to chat behind your back and say you do because friends with her ask yourself is this the type of person that is loyal? and if you can't answer that question then she aint worth the time of day. Now me saying this doesn't mean that you can't keep her on a hi and bye basis but let it just be that continue to be friendly but keep her at a distance... I HOPE THAT LIL BIT OF ADVICE HELPS

God Sent - Wednesday, 21 Jan
If her actions have proven that over and over again that she is a yo-yo then eventually she will leave it alone. She is trying to start something thru other people to get you to talk to her. If she has nothing of yours and via versa then I would let that 15 minutes of fame die on its own. I would speak if she speaks but leave it to that. It will go away. And tell your husband to not go back and forth on this, meaning men get sucked in because he wants it to end and also to make you happy. Tell him to speak and keep it moving. Killing her with kindness!

dolo22 - Wednesday, 21 Jan
I say cut the negativity. That is not a friend. Love thy neighbor, yes but you need not have her in your life like that. This sounds very toxic to you and your family. live your life and be happy. No need to tell her anything. Birthdays close together mean nothing.

baileymama - Wednesday, 21 Jan
misery loves company!! don't even mess with her, too much stress on your pregnancy anyways... you have all of us here for you!!

prettybrowngirl - Wednesday, 21 Jan
lol- she is a hoodrat! i am going thru something very similar- ppl ae jealous of what they cant achieve so forget her - SHE"S A HATER!!!

msray88 - Wednesday, 21 Jan
girl im with u, if u dnt want to f*** wit her like dat no mo..then dnt. People always say im mean cuz once i cut u lose dats it, well if u dnt like me then F*** U! So if she keep bein childish n 2faced then leave her alone, dnt entertain the devil n his company because thats all she seem to be.

firsttimemom8122 - Wednesday, 21 Jan
Can you say drama??? Girl I wouldn't approach her, you'll are women that have your own life, now if we was teenagers I could give you advice, but since we're adults the best advice would be to live your life for you and your family.

2Qu33nz1King - Wednesday, 21 Jan
whoa i would whip her ass
how she gonna try and take over YOUR
machine i would of charged her for using my shit
she got some nerves there is no reason to approach her
but if u do but like u want no involvement with her n u do not need her talking about u at all.


oh-baby-baby - Wednesday, 21 Jan
That is hater-ism at it's finest! You have and she doesn't.. You're happy and she's not. Don't let it stress you, you have a new addition on the way and in no way should put the health and well being of your unborn child on the line for some 8th gradeish "crap" (you know what I really wanted to say...lol) Brush ya shoulders off, kick your feet up and enjoy the rest of your pregnancy!

kingsmommii - Wednesday, 21 Jan
its sad she had to go and disrespect u..yet you are not giving her the time of day..it just shows how childish and jealous people can really be...i say keep doing what u been doing staying to yourself...in the end she is the one hurting cuz she wants your friendship..let her suffer girl!

ashleynicole83@gmail.cm - Wednesday, 21 Jan
you don't need drama in ur life.. it seems to me that this young lady is extremely childish and immature... and its sad a grown woman has to act sooo silly.. I say cut your losses.. and keep it moving shawty..... =)

shanidm - Wednesday, 21 Jan
WOW......DRAMA!! You are right! Shake the haters! You cant be friends with everyone, and if she cant respect your things, then why bother. You dont need ppl like that in your life... Well as Katt Williams says, you do need the haters, as motivation! The other option would be to be associates, just social, not involved. Cant let other ppls issues effect you and yours! Feel me! Have a good evening!
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