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28-6-2010 - Family

My mood while writing this blog:
irritated

WOW havent written on here in awhile!!!

And here i am writing to vent! ha ha..... Me and my boyfriend have been doing really well lately doing things as a family and what not. We still do not live together but im dealing with that im saving money but i need to get his butt into gear. So the reason im writing is because lately i can NOT stand his damn family!!!!! i have never felt this strongly about them and in such a negative way. His brothers are all the same have girlfriends and kids yet like to party and mess around.They all still live at home with their mom (including my man) and some got away scott free from rent! They seem to all have an opinion on our relationship when they need to worry about their screwed up situations. They say i have him whooped because he is with us alot more than his brothers spend time with their kids and gf's and also because he listens to my opinions rather than brush them off like im stupid (most of the time lol). Its no wonder he acts the way he does sometimes. i feel they pressure him to be an ass and out there doing god knows what with them.They are constantly talking crap cuz he doesnt go out like he used to HELLO he has a family now!?!?! they say its cuz i dont let him which is bull he pretty much does everything he used to before the boys except go partying on the weekends. To me thats a sacrifice u make for family and when its time to GROW UP! and this comes from a brother thats older than him!! I know he needs to have his own mind but i feel they r the reason hes holding off on moving out with us because he would really get crap from them then. its to the point i cant even stand the sight of them!

so i guess my question is how do you guys deal with family like this???

5 Comments on Family

newmommyx2 - Wednesday, 30 Jun
ya when it comes to the brothers i speak my mind which is probably why they dont like me much :) and recently i have become the same way with his mom... Threatening i have done and continue to do because i always hear its going to change which it does but SOME things go back to being the same. not sure how much i can take anymore either :(

Alesia - Tuesday, 29 Jun
sorry to hear that you are going though that. i am in the same situation. how i deal is that i threaten my man, if he does not change his ways to be more about family meaning me and his 7 month old daughter then pretty soon he can kiss us good by because i don't know how much longer i can take it when you act a certain way. so maybe that is what you should do scar him into realizing that he could lose you guys if he does not get his priorities straightened out. And for the in laws i feel the same way, my mother in law is very over bearing. She acts like she is the mother instead of me. what i do is just do thing the way i want things to be done and ignore her. I know with the brothers it's not that simple but i would of gone off on them a long time ago. and put them in their place.

newmommyx2 - Monday, 28 Jun
i tell him ALL the time! to move with us but he says we dont have the money to. i have also told him if i end up moving out on my own (we rent a place w/my mom) im done with him because there is no point after that... as for THEM we get into it all the time. he doesnt like the confrontation with them and i really can care less. Like i say they arent my family.

~ I luv my boyz ~ - Monday, 28 Jun
sadly he needs to choose you or them he needs to mve in with you and grow up your not in the wrong at all hun give him the choice.Telll him you will be okay either way that way the ball is in his court oh and the inlaws tell them to fuck themselves seriously its none of their business!

m2b - Monday, 28 Jun
The problem is that they are now in your life forever!! i am sorry for your situation!! It sux that sometimes people can not stick up for what is right for them and not worry how other people would react, family is family but he now has a beautifil famlily that he needs to worry about. Hopefully he will come around!! Your question is how do you deal with family like that??? well I guess you just do!! Stick up to them and tell them to go fly a kite!! He is a big boy now and maybe his parents need to let him be a big boy!! Altermadeums (spelling??) are not always the answer but maybe in this case you will have to give hime one! Hope it all works out for you!! :)

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