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05-11-2011 - husband doesnt understand

My mood while writing this blog: upset, frustrated and angry

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Kinda sucks that this is my first blog and here i am about to unload about my husband. cause we really do have a pretty happy marriage, but it is new and we are still learning a lot. So, today my goal was to get up early and deep clean the house.....and to have him help me. i want to get a jump start on this before winter and go through closets and stuff and just organize things...and being pregnant is just giving me more reason to get it done. well, i didnt sleep well last night. i could not get comfortable in bed. so i slept on the couch...that didnt do much good either and i was really tired. so i finally passed out and woke up at about 8, feeling ok but could tell i didnt sleep well, at the same time however i couldnt fall back asleep. so i went and ran my errands and let my husband sleep in till about 930. got home and he was of course on his fantasy football. took me 45 min to get him off of there to start cleaning. once i did, he did help out which was great. we went out for lunch and looked at a couple places for a new bed. then i just started to get really tired. i told him i wanted to go home. " no babe lets go to a few more places it wont take long" he says. i explained to him again that i did not sleep well and i am really tired, after putting up a fight over it we finally head home. i said we could go back later but i needed a nap. so we walk in the house and i sat down on the couch on the computer and he says "i think you should go lay down in the bedroom" i say "why? cause you want to look at your fantasy football for 2 hours?" he said "yeah actually i do" i say " well it would be nice if you could scrub the kitchen floor with bleach so i dont have to..(we have pets and the grout is white so it looks nasty and needs to be cleaned) "UGH, you would say that....your just being bossy cause your pregnant, using the im tired excuse to get me to do it." ARE YOU KIDDING ME!!! i was so upset, " no actually im not" i said " i didnt sleep well, this needs to be done, i am tired, dont feel good and probably shouldnt be breathing that crap in cause im PREGNANT" so we get in this huge argument and basically im just really upset because i am not looking forward to 9 months of him thinking i am using this as an excuse. he is so naive when it comes to things and thinks he knows everything. well then maybe go pick up a pregnancy book and read it and tell me i am the only pregnant woman who is tired and moody and experiencing weird things and emotions at this early part of my pregnancy cause im pretty sure im not. what a jerk. he doesnt ever want to clean or get stuff done around the house unless i am doing it with him. like when i need a break he takes a break when im don hes done, ok mark youre a big boy can you take it upon yourself to just do it without me by your side for once??? makes me mad cause he has no problem going out of his way for everyone else...especially his mom. whom i love, but i am his wife and he would rather help her out than me. ugh, thank goodness for a place for me to write this all down!! anyways, anyone have a good website for a man to learn about the experience a woman goes through when she is pregnant? he needs to prepare himself just as much as i do or its going to be hard for us to enjoy this time together.....alright time for a nap!!

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4 Comments on husband doesnt understand


blueberie_123@hotmail.com - Tuesday, 13 Mar
that's men for you my partner works rotating shifts so some times he works right through to 2am + but when he has 3days off in a row he'll sleep in till around lunch time get up be cranky sit down have coffee for an hour and then wander around and slowly do things, and I'm 31 1/2 weeks pregnant lol...! they never understand because their males they don't know what been pregnant is like :) i just ignore him when he says something like what your said and just laugh it off because if men had to do what we do when pregnant I'm sure they would put themselves on peremint bed rest.

air - Monday, 7 Nov
UGH, I know exactly how you feel.. Men are such fucktards sometimes! Excuse my language but it's true.. They always think it's our "job" to do shit around the house and EVERYTHING for them, while they just sit on their asses n play video games or watch tv.. My husband was acting the same way this weekend, dk wtf got into him.. he was being SUCH A JERK, more jerkier then I've ever seen him b4, to the point where he was MAKING FUN OF ME while I was balling my eyes out, I wanted to choke slam his ass! Don't feel bad, you're not alone.. I think they're just PMS'n.. Mine applogized to me this morning after being a dick the ENTIRE WEEKED.. Hope yours will appologize too! If you ever need to vent, hit me up! I'm all ears, always here to listen! :)

ladyone (pink) - Saturday, 5 Nov
All men are the same...mine tells me that i use pregnancy as an excuse for everything.. Ive learned to ignore it as this is my second pregnancy so i just ignore it and tell him it is how it is :)

liibii**PINK** - Saturday, 5 Nov
well hunny i completely feel you. i am 19 years old and pregnant with number 2.but yet again me and my husband have been married for 3 years. there are moments that i feel the same way. i normally do the cleaning once a week, every sat. to be exact. and since he works on sats. i do it by myselff so your lucky that atleast he tries to help out. a man is a man. they are like our "children" when they are hungry who needs to make the something the wife, when he is sick who takes care of 'em the wife. and the list goes on and on. and they rarely have consideration about everything we do. and let me tell you something hun... if you are tired now just wait 2 to 3 more weeks you WILL NEED A NAP EVERYDAY!!! jajaja but it shouldn't hurt you about him watching some tv... atleast you can take that as an excuse and go get yourself pampered one of these days :)

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