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nikkinu has 56 days to go and is now in week 32
	Age: 26 Country: NewZealand Province/region: City: Partner: Karl Children: Yes, 1 Pregnant: Yes Due date: 03 Jan ,2010 Occupation: Mummy
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04-7-2009 - Worried

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So im kinda quite worried about how on earth i will cope with two babies. Karl works lots and is only home 3 nights out of 7 the rest he gets home so late im asleep. So i dont get much help with dinners and bath time and it is stressfull with one child and soon i will have two! What if i cant cope with it all its really worrying me, maybe i should just try and be positive and hope or the best.

Does anyone else worry about this?

Hope everyone is well and happy x x x

5 Comments on Worried

simmone - Friday, 10 Jul
We will do fine hun!!! Before Cohen came along i didnt know if i could cope with him, but we always find a way and just make things work.........

xx

lovemyboys - Monday, 6 Jul
We’re both on the same boat. I’m freaking out about raising one still. My son can really push my buttons now I have 2 to deal with….OMG what was I thinking??? LOL I’m getting a lot of feedback from other mommies saying it’s not as bad as I think. Especially since the siblings will be close in age. The first 6 months but be a little more demanding (from the first time around) but once the baby gets bigger it’s like play dates all the time. They’re not as bored since they have each other which I’m praying will happen. LOL These are definitely normal feelings, but you can do it!!!! It’s good to vent, then you get all these amazing ideas from experienced mommies. I don’t know what I would have done without this website. Just keep asking and maybe posting comments on the toddler site as well. Hugs

sfrizzell1 - Sunday, 5 Jul
I dont worry about this as my kids are spaced out. I have an 11 year old, 6 year old, of coarse the baby on the way. However my sister had 3 kids in diapers at one point. She was never freaked out or worried. I think I worried enough for her. LOL! As mothers we find a way to cope and handle situations especially taking care of our kids. I'm sure everything will be fine. Stay positive!!

kiwimum - Saturday, 4 Jul
I worry about it too. Jim is away for 2 weeks at a time and I'm here on my own and the closest family are 5 hours away.
Then I remember that toby will be a bit older and will be a bit more self sufficent. I still freeze all his meals and will do for a while yet. I also cook big batches of food and freeze meals for me to.....good habits to get into for later down the track.
It'll all be fine, I'm just not looking forward to the sleepless nights and not being able to go back to bed lol

LGK616 - Saturday, 4 Jul
I have the same worries! I only have the 1 right now - an 8 1/2 month old daughter and would like a 2nd. One is difficult as I don't have any help - I live in Greece and all of my family and friends are back home in Canada. My husband works long hours, 6 days a week and it's just so hard to function. But, we will get it done won't we? Think of the modern conveniences we have these days where as 100 years ago they didn't - and they had families of 5 and 6!!! I think we're too spoiled at times - but I am sending you some strength and hope that you find the way!!!! Good luck to you!!! xox

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