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nikkinu has 42 days to go and is now in week 34
	Age: 26 Country: NewZealand Province/region: City: Partner: Karl Children: Yes, 1 Pregnant: Yes Due date: 03 Jan ,2010 Occupation: Mummy
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27-7-2009 - Am i a bad Mummy

My mood while writing this blog:
worried

Sometime i get so Angry at Finn i feel like i could smack him. Is this normal? does anyone else feel like this? Tonight i got so mad at him i yelled at him and then i walked out and slammed the door like i was the child. Poor Finn doesnt deserve that! Am i going insane? Normaly i handel it well even if im feeling angry but latley i have just lost my normal way of handeling the situation.

What should i do? does anyone else feel like this?

Also he spent the day with his Nana today and he is always so naughty when he gets back from her place is anyone elses child like this?

Am i a really bad mummy? I feel terrible its hard work being a parent (well a good one)

9 Comments on Am i a bad Mummy

simmone - Saturday, 12 Sep
No wayyyyyyyyyy hun!!!Gah every mum feels like that at one time or another wether they admit it or not.... plus you have all those pregnancy hormones mking you crazy hahahaha.....I soooooooo know what you mean about the grandparents thing...... Grrrrrrrrrr, because they dont leave them alone for 5 minutes so they expect 100% attention when they get home and its untrealistic!! My partners parents didnt even let him nap last couple of times so he was right little shit head!!!Its deff hard trying to do everything right!! Instead of just half assing parenthood, but its well worth it!!Hope ya feeling better!! xx

staceyp - Tuesday, 28 Jul
hay nik! totally normal too get like this i do it all the time, gettin annoyed! I try ignore it or sumtimes i do yell at him too. Being a parent to a child is very hard work!

kiwimum - Tuesday, 28 Jul
You are a totally normal mum. Kids can push all the right buttons and drive you to the edge.
You are not alone at all. At least you have only thought of smacking. Toby has had a few taps on the hand.......I feel like a law breaker and a total crim.
I blame it on hormones but also there age, they are learning about boundries and that is tuff for everyone envolved especially when they do think they are the centre of the universe.
Don't report me. Bloody sue will be around to put me in handcuffs lol

sfrizzell1 - Tuesday, 28 Jul
I get the same way. It's all hormones and although we try to keep our cool at times it's out of our hands.

mamalvs4 - Tuesday, 28 Jul
im sure you are fine! but if it is bothering you you should talk to your doctor. im sure it probably just your hormones giving you a shorter fuze

lovemyboys - Tuesday, 28 Jul
I get the same way. It's your hormones talking. Don't think you're a bad mommy. Bad mommies don't ask is this wrong. LOL I can't even take the trash out with out my little guy screaming and hitting the door. It makes me feel so bad but it takes to long to take him with me (2 minutes vs 5...LOL) It's good that you walk away and take a minute to regain your thoughts. It happens to the best of the best, that's what makes us human hun!!!! Hugs!!!!

no2on the way - Tuesday, 28 Jul
your not bad at all hun..When Jakes was little I used to get so frustraited and mad..I'd have to give him to Mark and leave the house..one day he got me so mad..I put him in his crib..and left the room..went into the kitchen and screamed..lol..just through frustration..(..Sometimes you do just want to slap them...but you just don't..you know..)..it's not so bad now he's coming up 2..I can kinda reason with him..and you just get to a point if he's having a paddy or a whinging for no reason..I just tell him to stop being a silly boy and ignore him..he soon figures out his paddies and whining get him no-where..take care hun..Xx

happyforest - Tuesday, 28 Jul
no, its totally normal to get so overwhelmed and frustrated!! as long as you dont actually slap the baby... you did a good thing by going out the door for a few min, just try not to slam lol i know how hard it is and i still do it sometimes to my SO, but sometimes when i get overwhelmed with the baby i put him in his crib and walk out for a few min, i know he's ok in there to cry for a min or two while i calm down so i dont cry!!!

LGK616 - Tuesday, 28 Jul
You are soooooooooooo not a bad mummy!!! I lose my patience with Isabella too sometimes and scold her. As I'm alone with her 24/7 and have no one to help out, other than hubby when he's not working, I sometimes have to put her in her crib and walk away from her. While she's screaming or crying. I admit, I can see how mom's lose it at times. I get so mad at myself when I scold her for something - she's just a baby and has no comprehension!!! Deep breath and count to 3...there's more to come for us!!! xox

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