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19-1-2012 - Misscariage 12 weeks 5 days

My mood while writing this blog: Ok

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Well I ended up losing the baby, I started spotting last Friday, and then yesterday (wednesday) I started having contraction type pains. The pains eventually got so bad that I ran a bath, I then passed the fetus in the bath, which was one of the hardest things I have ever done, size wise I am guessing the fetus was about 10 weeks, I'm supposed to be 13 weeks in 2 days. I then started clotting and hemmraging so much I had to go to the ER, and it ended up the placenta was still intact...the dr then scraped everything out and the contractions and bleeding stopped.

I'm still in a bit of shock and I'm not sure what to think. We know we want a girl but I am now petrified of this happening again. This was my third misscariage but by far the worst. Hopefully this post doesn't offend anyone.

We still have the fetus, we are wanting to bury it and plant a flower over it. I could never see myself just flushing it down the toilet, it's still my baby.

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5 Comments on Misscariage 12 weeks 5 days


AFLORIDAGYRL - Thursday, 26 Jan
Hey nikki, I am going through the exact same thing. Had an ultrasound on 1-16 at exactly 13 weeks and found out baby had died around 11w 5 days. Had a D & C last friday. This is my 1st miscarraige. i also have 2 boys and want to keep trying for a girl but I am so afraid this will happen again.

evansbabyg - Saturday, 21 Jan
I am in week 11 and was popping in week 12 to see what was going on. To read your story I cried and cried as it is something I know all so well. I lost a baby at 16 weeks and had an ectopic pregnancy where my left tube was removed. I believe you are doing the right thing by burying your lo in a respectful manner. With time and much prayer, it will become easier. You will never forget, but you will get stronger each day. I am praying for your strength and courage to try to have your baby girl when you and your husband is ready! Don't never give up!

kellyk - Thursday, 19 Jan
Oh my gosh, I am so sorry!!! (I have tears in my eyes!).... This has to be so devastating.. Pregnancy is such a scary thing. A billion tiny things have to go perfectly to create one baby. I was just telling a friend today how amazing it is that the world population is as high as it is. You are in my thoughts and prayers!

nhowa9 - Thursday, 19 Jan
im so sorry for your loss, i cant even begin to imagine how hard it must be to go through each time. i think the flower tree is a beautiful idea. x

tiffanygannutz - Thursday, 19 Jan
I am sorry for your loss!!!!! I understand what you mean this is my 8th pregnancy and we only have two children it is very scary every time but as time passes and you are able to heal, leave it up to god and he will bless you with another little one.