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25-7-2008 - NOT TTC!!!!

My mood while writing this blog:
mad, sad, depressed...you name it!

I don't know what to do!!! I used an ovulation kit and my dbl lines showed up on sun~mon that I would be ovulating soon. So I was able to sneak in some time monday morning, but should have again on Wed. BUT didn't bc he didn't want to! He knew I was testing and I think he purposely said not today, "I'm tired" nice one right!?!?

So we had a talk the other day and HE decided that HE doesn't want to try yet bc HE is not where he wants to be in his career. Fine, I totally understand that, but what happened to communicating with ME??? Why does he get to decide when I get pregnant? Then I told him he has 9+ months to change careers. LOL... If we wait to be finanically set we will NEVER conceive!!

We are doing ok... we have a house, jobs and family...who cares if we don't have thousands of dollars saved!!! I don't care! He already has a 13 year old daughter, but I want to experience a pregnancy, holding, feeding, changing loving my baby!!!What should I do??? I seriously doubt that one morning did it for us!!! My doc gave me the ok to "get busy" as he said it... and now I'm at a standstill! huuuh...

I'm seriously about to buy another ovulation kit next month and NOT tell him!!! and see what happens then! I don't get it... he was sooo excited before and now he's absolutely miserable!

PLEASE any advice??? Did anyone have to go through this?? Probably not! I only get stuck with the moodiest MEN!!!

4 Comments on NOT TTC!!!!

one day - Monday, 28 Jul
Wow... that is crazy... He was actually really happy that I was before... I just hope his "mood" passes... he sure is worse than I am when it comes to being moodY! LOL

Thank you everyone for your support!!!!!

tassy - Sunday, 27 Jul
aww dear i can understand that men can be very unpredictable at times..all you need to do is sit down and have a good long chat with him. Talking things out always helps, and maybe you and he can come up to terms with each other... good luck to u.. and hang in there...

2angelbabies - Saturday, 26 Jul
Hi, I was reading your post. I don't want to be on his side but lately I have been finding out more about men and how they feel. My husband does not want to TTC for a couple of months because he wants me to be ok and my body. I was mad how could he ,I would love to be pregnant again as when they gave my ok in May. We have stop for now. Well, I have been going to a counsling group through Angel Babies where they have discuss that men handle greiving differently. Men want to fix the problem and they have a hard when they can't when we lose a baby and they can not fix the situation so there reaction is to wait. They don't want to see their love one go through this again if it happens. Hope this helps, somedays it helps me and other days I have to remind myself it is the only way he know how to deal and we both have to be ready. In some ways my DH right I have not given it much time. I hope this helps some if not I am sorry for posting.

one day - Saturday, 26 Jul
LOL... it's just sooo annoying!!! Hey he will wake me up sometimes!! thats sex on demand!!! and I don't turn him down! LOL... Tell him next time to put it in a turkey baster... it's alot easier!!! LOL... He's just going through some issues, but at the same time sooo am I! Hopefully he'll let it sink in and be more up for it next month...since this one failed! =(

Thanks for your advice!!!

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