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13-6-2009 - what am i going to do....im heartbroken

My mood while writing this blog: so sad....

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so last night i accidentally left my myspace logged on and my boyfriend got on there and read a bunch of my e-mails where i was talken back and forth with a friend of ours sayen how he never helps me with our son and i feel like hes lazy and a bunch of other things...i was just venting to a friend and she was doing the same thing about hers....so he got pissed at me and called me a bunch of really mean names and told me to get out....so i went to bed with my son and figured it would blow over today and we could talk.....no he said the same mean things and told my son i was a "fucken bitch", which he repeated to me and told me he does not want to be with me anymore and we need to sit down and work out a parenting plan for our son. so now he wants me out of the house, i am dont have money to get a place, i barely have any money period, no where to go and pregnant and with a four year old...what should i do? the house we live in together but its in his name so i dont think i have any rights legally to make him leave, i just dont know...please help me i need some advice......

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7 Comments on what am i going to do....im heartbroken


~parentstobe09~ - Wednesday, 17 Jun
omg he is not right im so sorry hun. Like one of the other girls said he should of sat there and relalized what you said and tried to talk to you to make things better. Tried to figure out what ut is that he could do to help out. Well better yet he shouldnt have been nosy enough to get on ur site in the first place or thought he should need to. Just shows he has some trust issues. I mean it doesnt sound like it was too mean of stuff you said about him. You didnt kie, it was the truth. You 2 have a son together and he has another child on the way, he is inconsiderate for kicking you out. He shouldnt do that. If he is doing that you could take him to court and hopefully get full custody of your children, obviously he's kicking 3 of you out, you, your unborn baby that ur carrying and his oldest son. I feel so bad for you hun, I wish I could help you out. Just like you said to me. Men but miswell call them boys to very stupid things, thats why they say women are more mature and have our heads on our shoulders better than men. Maybe he will realize what he said was a mistake and take you back. But before he does make him sit down so you can talk to him! I will be thinking about you! Dont get too stressed think about ur baby in ur belly reasure urself that your going to be ok. And on ur other blog about ur job firing you, you can get unemployment they fired you let them pay you now. O well there loss now you can deffinatly get unemployment you can apply by phone or website. Might be easier to do it over the phone...and they help you find jobs, also look for a career senter near you they have these nice websites that post ur resume for employers to see and you fill out a paper with things you like to do and not hings that u dont but would do just to get cash. Im sorry all this happend to you while ur pregnant. Keep me in touch!

andy21 - Monday, 15 Jun
omg, i am so sorry. do you have any family that you could stay with for now? he should have read those things and instead of going off, sat down and thought about it to see if he needs to treat you better. i hope things blow over and get better... =[

jrsully24 - Monday, 15 Jun
Oh hon...I am so sorry. No matter how angry he is though, he has no right to call you a f--cking b'tch! Maybe after a few days he will calm down and feel horrible for making you feel this way. You deserve to be treated with respect and love. Do your best to remember to take care of yourself and look at that adorable little boy of yours - he needs you too. That should make you smile. Kids always make you smile:) Take care and I will be thinking about you!

excitedmisty (misty) - Sunday, 14 Jun
Find family and friends you can stay with...and file for child support first thing Monday morning (that usually scares them straight), you should also file for other resources like TCA, WIC, Food Stamps, etc that you might be eligible for...

I would wait a couple days to talk to him about this...explain your side again, and offer to do couples counseling to work it out?

I'm so sorry! It's the worst timing :0( Hang in there, stressing out won't do you any good or the baby!

camsmami - Sunday, 14 Jun
I'm so sorry that this happened to you. He picked a really bad time to break up with you. The truth hurts, and when he saw you talking with your friend about his shortcomings it hurt his feelings and he is just trying to make you hurt too. Try to be strong, things will get better in time.

jilliancomcast - Saturday, 13 Jun
i hope you have family close by. It is better to cut your losses. I know it sucks but take him to court for child support and hang in there till after the baby and you will get back on your feet. You dont deserve to be treated like that and you dont want your son growing up thinking its okay to talk about women like that. Just be strong and if you need someone to talk to i am here.

kimberly amber - Saturday, 13 Jun
do u have any family nearby? might wantt o stay with them until u guys can get over the fight. try to appologize and explain to him that u were just venting and didnt mean it the way he read it. the least he can do for you and your son is at least compromise and work things out so that you can stay. the boy needs his father and you're pregnant with his child! men are such jerks sometimes but just dont fight back whatever you do and stay calm, and dont let your son be around when you are going at it, its not healthy for your boy and you being pregnant, he needs to understand you CANNOT BE STRESSED OUT RIGHT NOW. it is so important that you stay calm for the sake of your unborn child and your son. if you need to talk i am here. i may not understand fully but i have your back, he cannot treat you like that, no matter what you have said about him!!!!!! xoxo take care