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16-6-2009 - update...

My mood while writing this blog: Ok

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Me and my man have not yet spoken accept about things regarding our four year old we have an old parenting plan in place still from years ago when we were seperated so we will have to go by that weekly which will be hard because its hard to do the whole out of sight out of mind thing to get over someone when you have to see them every wednesday to exchange a child and then every other weekend twice for the exchanges as well, and of course i would much rather have my little angel with me all the time anyways. I found a place and i am waiting to hear back about my approval. I gave them a $500 holding fee today and am hopeful to be moving in on the 1st of the month which gives me about 2 weeks to buy us a bed to temporaily share and some basic kitchen supplies and other necessary items to get by which will be challenging but i can do it. I basically have our clothes, a huge toy box, a black entertainment center, a drawing desk, and thats about it besides my makeup and all that so i have a lot to come up with and am trying to just stay positive. Thank you to all of you have been so kind and supportive of my situation, i cannot express to you how much your support has helped me through this, god bless and hope you are all doing well.....

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15 Comments on update...


katrinagym84 - Saturday, 27 Jun
I am new on here I would like to ass you to my friends network how do I do so?

JK8488 - Tuesday, 23 Jun
Is there a site on the internet in your area called freecycle you can sigh up for a free yahoo account and if you are in the need for things and others would like to donate them to you they are free and I have asked for some things I need and have aloso given others things they need but it may help to look into it,


amberlouwho - Friday, 19 Jun
First off let me say that you CAN and you WILL get through this! I was in the same situation with my first pregnancy and at the time was going to nursing school, was hopping b/t 3 different family members for a place to stay, all the while that jackass was out living it up at the bars acting like he didn't have a care in the world. I could only think at the time was "how will I get through this?" But with my friends and family I did get through it and you will too!! Show that MF you don't need him and that he should feel priveleged that you ever even gave him the time of day! In time you'll find someone that will treat you the way you should of been treated all along! Good luck girl and I'm here if you need anything! God bless you and your babies!!

camsmami - Wednesday, 17 Jun
Congrats on getting a new place! Try to bargain shop for the basics and only buy a few things at a time. I moved in April and I still don't have everything yet.

LadyLee - Wednesday, 17 Jun
I can not believe the Shuntrice called you not strong. You are being very strong right now. You seem to be handling this very well, you keep your head up. I'm thinking about you.

karlilee - Wednesday, 17 Jun
I can not even imagine what you are going through. I feel so bad and am hoping that everything will work out. Good luck, try to keep your chin up! xoxo

andy21 - Wednesday, 17 Jun
i hope things work out for you hun! see if anyone you know has a bed or check craiglists or something… it’s an idea? and i dunno if there is a marshalls or ross out there but they have kitchen stuff pretty cheap actually. even thrift stores have good deal on certain items (i know all these cheap, save money tips from experience haha!) i am happy to hear that you found a place. God bless you and i’m thinking of you!!

kimberly amber - Wednesday, 17 Jun
I'm praying for you my dear. You are a strong person and will get thru this! Take care of yourself and ur babies, and talk to me if you ever need anything!

normalee - Wednesday, 17 Jun
just take one day at a time. everything will work its way out some how. just keep positive thoughts. Good luck and keep us posted on how it goes.

morgn - Wednesday, 17 Jun
Keep your head up, it will all get better! Have you checked into what you can get from the state for being a single mother? Like someone else said check craigslist sometimes you can get some nice stuff for cheap off there!

jrsully24 - Wednesday, 17 Jun
I am sorry you have to deal with this right now too. I am proud of the steps you are taking to make a good life for you and your children. I will be thinking of you:)

JENNIFERANN333 - Wednesday, 17 Jun
Go to the dollar store for all your kitchen stuff.. Jen

xajk326x - Wednesday, 17 Jun
I'm sorry you are having to deal with this right now. I know pregnancy is an emotional enough time without all the added stress from men, family and the numerous other things that just don't go right. I really hope you get this apartment and things start to look up for you and I know its hard, but try not to let his childish games get to you because you really don't need all this stress!!! Just remember you aren't alone and if you ever need to talk, I'm always here. Take care sweetie and good luck!!!

excitedmisty - Wednesday, 17 Jun
i wish you lived closer! i have tons of stuff i could pass on to you :0( check out craigslist.com and other sites for free and cheap stuff!

hang in there though!!!! i can't imagine having to deal with all of this right now :0( and your babies need you!

xredstarsx - Tuesday, 16 Jun
I feel so bad for you and all that you and your son are going through. You are being so strong. If I were in your position I would be so scared. I hope things get better for you. <3 Rachel