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18-7-2011 - Rejoicing after Mourning

My mood while writing this blog: incredibly blessed

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I know I haven't posted a blog in forever... but since so many ladies here have been my sisters for so long on these journeys, I wanted to make sure that I could share this good news with all of you too. I appreciate your love and encouragement that I've received before. (((hugs)))

After seven miscarriages, we were astounded by God's graciousness in giving us a "sticky baby" thanks to His indescribable goodness and how He has worked through some new medications that He recently provided for us. Our Baby 9 has snuggled in for the long haul!!

My 20-week ultrasound was this morning at 8 and while my dad and hubby of course both had to go to work right afterward, my mom took me and my DS out shopping and for yummy treats to celebrate and start embracing this little person! Otherwise I would have updated everyone hours ago. hehe.
I can't tell you how amazing the ultrasound experience was. I couldn't really see the screen very well, but everyone else could and they adored it. I loved watching their faces (to give my craned neck a break, lol). The sonographer was just incredible, talking us through the whole thing and pointing out all kinds of things to us. (He kept remarking on how easy Baby and I were to scan, and how he wished he had students to teach on us! lol) Everything is healthy! Not a single thing wrong with this baby! Such a relief and comfort to my heart. Baby is still measuring a week ahead too (20w5d right now), so I guess that trend is just going to continue! I don't know if that means I'll need to mentally prepare to deliver on the earlier side or not. (?)
And, drumroll please, we're having (pretty sure anyway) a Baby Boy!! I have been saying boy all along, but I'm the only one. lol. The sonographer said that Baby was in the trickiest position (head up and legs crossed -- good thing he's got 20 weeks to turn upside down, lol) to tell gender, but he's almost certain it's a boy. And I really could see a good glimpse of that part, because he turned the screen to face me at that point.
So "Baby Nine" can now be called "Baby Boy" I guess!
I bought a few "Big Brother"/"Little Brother" outfits, and a couple more maternity things (okay, my mom actually spoiled me by buying them for me! ) when we were out. It was surreal to be walking through baby stores without bawling. It was still bittersweet (I don't think that will ever go away until I'm dead and in heaven!), but it was better. I was even able to buy my niece an outfit and one of my best friends an outfit for the baby girl she delivered this morning. So I bought boy stuff for myself and girl stuff for others, and hardly cried (I did tear up...) when walking through the baby stores. What a red-letter day!! Now I get to work on telling people these happy updates, and processing the news more for myself!

I'm continuing to be so humbled and thankful. It's just beyond words. The Lord's faithfulness astounds me. His mercies leave me breathless.
Thank you for sharing this long road with us and allowing me to share this joyful part of the journey with you. What a blessing it is to share rejoicing with you all, after having mutually shared so much mourning. (((hugs)))

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40 Comments on Rejoicing after Mourning


isisgrl13 - Saturday, 3 Dec
you are amazing:) i love you :) pray for me as i pray for you.

isisgrl13 - Saturday, 3 Dec
you are amazing:) i love you :) pray for me as i pray for you.

ASergeantsWife - Tuesday, 1 Nov
I have followed your journey for some time now and just wanted to tell you congratulations. It is so wonderful to see someone else praise God in the good times and the hardest moments. We have lost five as well and it doesnt matter how many you have the hurt is just the same.Once again congratulations on your precious little man!!! God Bless!

aussiegirl80 - Sunday, 30 Oct
Oh my goodness congratulations! I am soooooo happy for you xxx

desia - Saturday, 3 Sep
I am so happy for you all! You will remain in our prayers Red! God bless you, please let us know how everything is going!

clara - Sunday, 24 Jul
Thanks so much for sharing! I am SO happy for you! Take care! Keep us posted please. God bless!

forestmum - Sunday, 24 Jul
Wonderful news! You deserve this special little boy. How exciting! Enjoy all the kicks and yummy treats and everything that the rest of your pregnancy brings. I am still pregnant too - 41 weeks and counting! Hoping that baby decides to arrive before induction on Thurs, but at least I know I will get to see her by the end of the week. Take care and ENJOY!

michellelaughs - Thursday, 21 Jul
Oh Red......that is soooo gooood! Words cannot express......the goodness! Praising God for your little miracle! May he continue to grow and be perfect! xoxo

missing*my*2angels - Wednesday, 20 Jul
I have the biggest smile on my face OMG i'm so happy for you and your family!!!!! A baby boy WOW now you can think of names and get ready for this lil one!!! I hope all continues to go great and can't wait to hear more future updates!!!!(((((((((HUUGSS))))))))

okynot - Wednesday, 20 Jul
This just makes me soo happy, and fills my heart with joy and hope for you! Your boys are going to have soo much fun together. I am continuing to pray for you as I know this chapter is not over for you yet till he is safe in your arms.

min41 - Wednesday, 20 Jul
My heart positively sings when I see these updates Melissa. How sweet is this blessing after all that you have been through. Hugs ***

ArielS - Wednesday, 20 Jul
I think your success gives every women hope on this site, even if it has been a long time coming. I'm so happy for you guys. Enjoy!!!!

jordan k - Tuesday, 19 Jul
What wonderful news! I have kept you in my prayers and so happy that God has blessed you so. I am just so excited and happy for you :)

jdubb - Tuesday, 19 Jul
This is the best news I have heard all day! CONGRATS you deserve to have as many babies as your heart desires!

chrissylovespatrick - Tuesday, 19 Jul
So,so happy for you..

mle77 - Tuesday, 19 Jul
yahhhhh so happy for you :) this all brings tears of joy to my eyes... cant wait to see this little redheaded man :)

wedward **PINK** - Tuesday, 19 Jul
Wow! Congrats red! So happy for you!

redheadmama - Tuesday, 19 Jul
THANK YOU, LADIES. (((HUGS))) MAY GOD BLESS YOU AND STRENGTHEN YOU ALONG THE JOURNEYS HE HAS PREPARED FOR EACH OF YOU TOO.

older1sttimemom2be - Tuesday, 19 Jul
I know you have been praying and waiting for this day! Congratulations!!!!! A baby boy! I am just so very happy for you, Red!!! You deserve this amazing blessing! I am now 5weeks5days and wondering how I will make it through my own milestones without going crazy. I am trusting that God knows what is best, and what is meant to be is mean to be. You are an inspiration! xxx

blessedbeyondbelief - Tuesday, 19 Jul
I am soooo thankful to see your update! I have been praying for you. Hey - can you PM me your address & e-mail address? Can't wait to hear more. Wish we lived close together!

daydreamer1802 - Tuesday, 19 Jul
So happy for you!! HUGS!!!

mugs - Tuesday, 19 Jul
I am so happy for you and your family.....sooooo excited for your little one to get here and how wonderful for your son to have a brother! Your story is one that brings tears to my eyes....this time they are tears of joy!

kanga - Tuesday, 19 Jul
So happy for you red! I can't imagine having the strength to go through what you have been through. You are an amazing person and I am so happy you get to have another little boy!

Amalthea - Monday, 18 Jul
Congrats!!! now you need to join us on RLOAL on facebook!!

Amalthea - Monday, 18 Jul
Congrats!!! now you need to join us on RLOAL on facebook!!

jessiezc - Monday, 18 Jul
Yay! Congrats RED! I'm soooooooo happy for you! God is so good! I'll keep praying until you hold that beautiful boy in your arms!

Beegee - Monday, 18 Jul
Oh red, I'm so happy for you. But a boy? Are you sure? ;)

Squirkels - Monday, 18 Jul
This is such a sweet update and helps to give hope! We have lost 4 babies and sometimes I wonder if our dreams of having a bigger family may be dwindling to an end. What a sweet spirit you have :) Thanks for sharing and congrats on your little boy!!

pinkmama - Monday, 18 Jul
another baby boy! how wonderful!!!! they will be best of friends =o) xoxo i am so very happy for you guys!!!

fruitful - Monday, 18 Jul
I am sooooo happy to read such an update like this. Thank you for sharing it and my prayers and best wishes are being sent your way for the rest of this journey. CONGRATULATIONS Red!!

amykate - Monday, 18 Jul
Red- Congratulations!!! I'm soooo very happy for you!!!!

kari.mck - Monday, 18 Jul
So so so happy for you! Baby boy is loved and embraced by all of us!! xoxo

plantlvr07 - Monday, 18 Jul
I can't describe how happy I am for you. He is so good :-)

baby-beiler - Monday, 18 Jul
i am so happy for you and so glad that this baby is meant to be and is sticking around! :) that makes me tear up just hearing it.

jamie86 - Monday, 18 Jul
Oh red I'm just sooo happy for you! I've seriously been waiting for an update all day today from either Bonnie or Karen! Sooo sooo sooo happy for you can't wait to see this precious baby boy in 20 more weeks!

sinnamongirl - Monday, 18 Jul
Awww Red this is such wonderful news! Congratulations on a perfect baby boy!!!

Stephenmummy - Monday, 18 Jul
the LORD GOD is GREAT and GREATLY to be PraisedI am so happy for you I am in my 37 week as well My baby girl, Mercy Joy is doing Great and the doc said any day now. Love you my Friend.

roosa - Monday, 18 Jul
I've got tears of joy for you my sweet, sweet friend. Love always, Karin

readyfor3 - Monday, 18 Jul
A BABY BOY! So wonderful! I am so happy for you! Big hugs and congrats! x

lil.pigz - Monday, 18 Jul
Yay!!! An update;-) To hear such happiness and excitement from you is incredibly awesome♥ I am so glad you can finally look ahead and enjoy this pregnancy and that everything is going beautifully. Congrats too on baby boy:-)