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Do not judge the bereaved mother.
She comes in many forms.
She is breathing, but she is dying.
She may look young, but inside she has become ancient.
She smiles, but her heart sobs.
She walks, she talks, she cooks,
she cleans, she works, she IS
but she IS NOT all at once.
She is here, but part of her is elsewhere for eternity.
A child that loses a parent is an orphan.
A husband that loses his wife is a widower.
A wife who loses her husband is a widow.
However, there is no word for a parent that loses a child.
For there is no word to describe such pain.
--Author Unknown
12 Comments on Bereaved Mother
TheDayWeDanced - Friday, 18 Dec
I echo the many postings in your blog. My husband and I lost one of our twins on Saturday 12/12/2009 and of course, everyone tries to comfort us by reminding us how lucky we are to still have one… I always remind them we had two and wished for two. Thank you for sharing.
LiseyB - Wednesday, 16 Dec
Thank you for sharing Red! x
Amalthea - Saturday, 5 Dec
great poem... it deff made my heart ache for my lil angel baby
missing*my*2angels - Friday, 4 Dec
The poem is beautiful any every way possible. Red you are an amazing person and i've only met you online i can imagine how great of a friend, daughter, sister (SIL), Wife your are and wow how lucky is your dear son plus your "Angels" to have such a wonderful mother that loves them all so much thats amazing. i admire your strength and i pray that you can have more babies that will be luck to have you as their mom!!!
firstmommy08 - Thursday, 3 Dec
For sure.
heatmac - Thursday, 3 Dec
So heartbreaking.... but hits so close to home.
readyfor3 - Thursday, 3 Dec
very true
beckybear - Thursday, 3 Dec
I love it!
janet1972 - Thursday, 3 Dec
Hi, Thank you so much for the beautiful poem. You are so right, I know so this poem speaks of truth that never fades away.
roosa - Thursday, 3 Dec
Very true... Lots of hugs to you. Karin
ImWaiting4Baby - Thursday, 3 Dec
So True!
butterfly-angel - Thursday, 3 Dec
I actually have this poem in G's memory diary. Every word is so true...Sending you a big hug xx
| 03-12-2009 - Bereaved Mother |  My mood while writing this blog:weeping |
Do not judge the bereaved mother.
She comes in many forms.
She is breathing, but she is dying.
She may look young, but inside she has become ancient.
She smiles, but her heart sobs.
She walks, she talks, she cooks,
she cleans, she works, she IS
but she IS NOT all at once.
She is here, but part of her is elsewhere for eternity.
A child that loses a parent is an orphan.
A husband that loses his wife is a widower.
A wife who loses her husband is a widow.
However, there is no word for a parent that loses a child.
For there is no word to describe such pain.
--Author Unknown
12 Comments on Bereaved Mother
TheDayWeDanced - Friday, 18 Dec
I echo the many postings in your blog. My husband and I lost one of our twins on Saturday 12/12/2009 and of course, everyone tries to comfort us by reminding us how lucky we are to still have one… I always remind them we had two and wished for two. Thank you for sharing.
LiseyB - Wednesday, 16 Dec
Thank you for sharing Red! x
Amalthea - Saturday, 5 Dec
great poem... it deff made my heart ache for my lil angel baby
missing*my*2angels - Friday, 4 Dec
The poem is beautiful any every way possible. Red you are an amazing person and i've only met you online i can imagine how great of a friend, daughter, sister (SIL), Wife your are and wow how lucky is your dear son plus your "Angels" to have such a wonderful mother that loves them all so much thats amazing. i admire your strength and i pray that you can have more babies that will be luck to have you as their mom!!!
firstmommy08 - Thursday, 3 Dec
For sure.
heatmac - Thursday, 3 Dec
So heartbreaking.... but hits so close to home.
readyfor3 - Thursday, 3 Dec
very true
beckybear - Thursday, 3 Dec
I love it!
janet1972 - Thursday, 3 Dec
Hi, Thank you so much for the beautiful poem. You are so right, I know so this poem speaks of truth that never fades away.
roosa - Thursday, 3 Dec
Very true... Lots of hugs to you. Karin
ImWaiting4Baby - Thursday, 3 Dec
So True!
butterfly-angel - Thursday, 3 Dec
I actually have this poem in G's memory diary. Every word is so true...Sending you a big hug xx
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16-9-2009 - excerpt from my private blog
10-8-2009 - This Is What It Is...
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03-7-2009 - encouragement for this mourning mommy
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