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| 16-1-2009 - Intuition or Just A Plan Worry Wort! |
My mood while writing this blog: Unsure! |
OK, so this may seem a little weird for me to be saying this, but bare with me.
I have been unsure for the last couple of days, I am not sure if its due to the fact, that I have been thinking alot about my last pregnancy (and I know they are all different!) But since my scan on Monday, I have been wondering if I should ask for another one around the 9wk mark. This is due to the last one being a delayed m/c around that time. I suppose I am paranoid about this one, going the same way. I have also been too scared to sneeze or cough, I think I am going to do some damage!
I dont want to get to my 12wk scan with Darren, and it not be ok. I would be devastated, and I wouldnt like to say how he would react! I know this all sounds abit OTT, I am just one to worry.
This morning I feel a little different too, Intuition or Worry?
Thank you for listening, I am probably just being silly, but I needed to get it out.
xxxx
7 Comments on Intuition or Just A Plan Worry Wort!Vicki--mommy of 4 -
Friday, 16 Jan It's only natural to worry especially when you have had a loss. If it makes you feel better, ask the doc to give you when. Make up some symptoms if you have to, to get it. I just have the feeling that everything is a-ok in there but don't worry yourself, talk to your doc. Take care hun! Abigails Mommy -
Friday, 16 Jan I think it's only natural that you'd be a "worry wart" due to past experiences. It's all you have to go on! I think you should just relax and enjoy eating what you like *smile* soon2bemamaof4 -
Friday, 16 Jan As the other ladies have said, you are just worried honey. It is understandable, and most women who have experienced a m/c have that very same worry. You just have to try your best to stay positive and take care of yourself. I never knew how common m/c was until I had one and read about it. Doctors don't even start to worry that there is a problem until there have been three...and even after that many women go on to have healthy babies. I am amazed just on this site how many women like us there are. Hang in there, and tell yourself that everything is fine. More than likely it is. Try not to worry unless you have a reason. : ) *Baby Dust* lil blondie -
Friday, 16 Jan ahhh hun ur nt bein silly,i know hw difficult it is 2 relax,but u r jus goin to hav 2 try,wt i do wen i start havin negative thoughts is start to picture wot life is guna be like when i meet my baby,i think bout wot he/she may luk like and i think bout hw excited im guna feel wen my bump grows and wen i first feel the baby kick and move around,that normally takes my mind of bad thoughts and gets me all happy and excited,try not 2 woory huny bun xxx neen209 -
Friday, 16 Jan Babe its going to be fine....trust me, it really will. They wont give u a 9 week scan as fortuately u dont have a huge history of problems. It was one of those things the last time around....yes it was terrible...but u owe it to bump now to be a strong healthy mama.....concentrate on sending bump good vibes and trust your body to do what it was designed to do.
Please try to calm a little darlin....its a long ol road xxxxx love u x paulaann -
Friday, 16 Jan Hi hun,
I know exactly what you mean, I'm as irrational, but we've seen heartbeats which is such a positive sign, it would be very unlikely that anything would be worng now, I know in my head this is right but I have the same fears as you.
My next scan is on 4th February and I have no childcare for Alyss and I've just been saying to my collegue I'm so worried something will be wrong and she'll have to witness it.
I think in my hearts of hearts we're being silly.
However if you explain your fears to your doctor/midwife they should send you to the EPAU for another scan!
Paula xxx RainbowRach -
Friday, 16 Jan Hun its just worry. Just before my first scan I thought I 'knew' that something would be wrong. You are just frightened by past experience. You have to relax, its all going to be ok x x