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27-9-2009 - my mother

My mood while writing this blog: annoyed

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im having a vent - my mother is annoying me big style - starting to think she does things in spite - shes doing it on purpose - twisting things as she says them to go the opposite way for me - i.e when i had no money i had asked dad would he buy stuff like buggy so i could at least have them incase anything happened that i went early and i pay him back - which he had no problem with until she went off saying he wasnt going to get the money back which was lies and i proved her wrong too by having the money ready for him - im so angry shes doing same now with my work as i do mobile service hairdressing and hope to set up a business next year when baby is older and gets to go into nursery i can go work for myself then..so while i have the spare time before baby is born i hoped to put a sink into a room which i use at the min for hair and make up. we live in a big house and my dads office is here also - What annoys me is that my parents are not together anymore - they both live seperate lives but in ireland its sooo expensive to get a divorce its alot easier to be seperated but they both live in the house just seperate rooms and totally seperate lives - im the youngest of 5 kids and all have moved out and have families etc apart from my brother(works for my dad) and i had hoped to buy a house only i ended up getting pregnant which changed things for me money wise obviously - but i hope to move out into my own place with baby as soon as i can and still have my 'business' in this house. which my dad understands but now mother has put a spanner in the works making the worse of it when she is just living here scot free while dad pays all bills and morgage and everything else - pisses me off - at least im willing to work .. i want to earn my money and living and raise my child good with the hopes of having everything for my child and to be able to say i done it myself and done it successful. ughhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh i just want to scream and had to give out !!! thanks all for reading!!!

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3 Comments on my mother


frosty - Tuesday, 29 Sep
Stay stong hun, i know its hard but you've got to try and let your mum not get to you. What she's doing is really unfair. Try and keep your chin up xx

maybaby2008 - Monday, 28 Sep
hey! hope your ok. just to let you know if you go to your health board or the hse and ask for the community welfare officer they help out with money for a buggy and cot and stuff. i knew the welfare officer in offaly so i couldn get any money cos she knew i was living with my partner. just a little help. xxx

newmommy20 - Monday, 28 Sep
Wow girl, that sounds so stressful, especially since your mother should be your rock during ur pregnancy.. But things will work themselves out. I hope things get better for u out there.. cheer up, baby will be here soon to be ur sunshine in the morning..:)