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26-6-2008 - NEED ADVICE!

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OKAY I HAVE A DILEMA.....THE BABY DADDY REALLY DID THIS TO ME THAT HURT ME....I REALLY DON'T WANT HIM TO BE IN THE DELIVERY ROOM WHEN I HAVE MY SON..HE DISRESPECT ME SO MUCH AND DOESN'T EVEN THINK MY SON IS HIS.....HE SAID HE IS NOT DOING ANYTHING ELSE FOR THE BABY UNTIL HE GETS HERE....ND RIGHT NOW I STILL NEED HELL OF ALOT OF STUFF FOR MY SON...THE BABY DADDY RUNNING AROUND HERE MAKING ME LOOK LIKE THE CRAZY ONE ..WHICH IM NOT....I THINKS MY SON DOESN'T DESERVE A ASSHOLE AS HIS FATHER...BUT HERE IS THE QUESTION DO YOU THINK I WILL BE SELFISH IF I DON'T WANT HIM IN THE DELIVERY ROOM WHEN I HAVE MY SON? I DON'T EVEN WANT HIM TO BE AT THE HOSPITAL....NEITHER HIS MOM....THE FIRST THING THAT CAME OUT HER MOUTH WAS ...." I WANT A DNA TEST"
.......SHE SAID IM TRYNA TRAP HER SON CUZ HE IS IN THE MILITARY....1 I LIVE IN A MILITARY TOWN...ITS ALOT OF FINE ASS SINGLE MILTARY MEN LOOKING FOR A WOMAN TO TREAT THEM RIGHT...SO WHAT MAKES HER SON SO SPECIAL..REALLY IDK! BUT PLZ GIVE ME YOU FEEDBACK ON THE SITUATION..IT IS REALLY NEEDED!

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5 Comments on NEED ADVICE!


sugarbear8907 - Thursday, 3 Jul
goin through somethin similar u need to do what u have to do..cut him off till ur baby gets here if he wanna act a damn fool let him...thats what im doin i have cut him off cuz im hurtin and puttin stress on my baby and he aint worth it if u need anyone to talk to im here............

sexyred29 - Sunday, 29 Jun
How are u doing. Well am a military man retired. My lady is on this line to chat it up with the preganant ladies which i dont mine. But my question is why not give him the DNA test. What on god's green earth does alot of fine man got to do with anything. For one if u know its his then its only right that u get the clown to pay the child suppot that is do u and still move on with ur live without him. The moma drama i been through myself but am still here with my lady. Give up the DNA and put this to rest once and for all, get his money for the military will make him pay his potion and let things come. Fine ass niggas got u where u are today so bump that and fine someone who will be there for u. Just my opinion. Good luck though.

sexyred29 - Sunday, 29 Jun
How are u doing. Well am a military man retired. My lady is on this line to chat it up with the preganant ladies which i dont mine. But my question is why not give him the DNA test. What on god's green earth does alot of fine man got to do with anything. For one if u know its his then its only right that u get the clown to pay the child suppot that is do u and still move on with ur live without him. The moma drama i been through myself but am still here with my lady. Give up the DNA and put this to rest once and for all, get his money for the military will make him pay his potion and let things come. Fine ass niggas got u where u are today so bump that and fine someone who will be there for u. Just my opinion. Good luck though.

SMiller - Friday, 27 Jun
Hey! Read your blog and you so don't deserve that from a guy. You are carrying this man's baby and deserve much better than that. I wouldn't want him anywhere near me either, but it is his baby, kind of a tough spot. I don't know what you're going through, but I wish you luck with it. Do you know what you are having yet?

sassybuttaphly - Thursday, 26 Jun
Gurl,I'm going through the same bullshit. But my bd is not in the military. He said the same thing hes not going to do anything until the baby comes. I agree I don't think my son needs an asshole for a father. But this baby is his. And he knows it. Right now, fuck him,just focus on you and your unborn child. Just let things play out for now. It will all work itself out. You just got to have faith in god and believe.