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05-4-2009 - How quickly things can change

My mood while writing this blog: Somber

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On Friday I went into my doctor after I had some very light spotting. They gave me an ultrasound and the second my uterus showed on the screen I knew something wasn't right. There was a small sac and embryo but no where near what it should have looked like for being 6 weeks along. After speaking with my doctor she suggested I give blood and then come in again on Monday to see if perhaps I just misdated. She said if my levels rise than all would be well and they will watch me from there but if they fall I should expect to miscarry again. Wow number 3. Right now I am holding on to the small shred of hope she left me with but she has already ordered my medication so that gave me the thought she wasn't very hopeful. I think on Monday once I know for sure it will all sink into reality for me. I am just happy that she said they will now look into testing to see why this keeps happening and what we can do to make it not happen again. I just want to thank everyone for their support and I will keep you posted. I am going to take sometime to regroup though.

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15 Comments on How quickly things can change


obscurette - Tuesday, 7 Apr
keep holding the hope, I had the same thing in my first scan with Jonathan and then we went back and all was fine! take care and I will be thinking of you X

bundleofperez - Monday, 6 Apr
I'm crossing my fingers and thinking of you

402nikkib - Monday, 6 Apr
Shee dont lose hope yet! When I thought we were 6 weeks we had our 1st U/S and there was only the sac no baby. Which really freaked me out. They took my blood and made me come back two days later to take more blood to compare the levels. Long story short my blood levels went up...and a week later we had our 2nd U/S and there the lil one was...just barely turning 6 wks. I was a late O'er and they told me that I was exactly a week off. Shee....there is hope...I know its hard not to worry... but try not to waiting sux! Try to calm yourself...my doc kept telling me that if its suppose to end in a MC it will & there was nothing he could do which made me think thats what he was predicting. I think the Docs have to balance out their negative & the positive responses because they dont know whats really going to happen. Your in my thoughts I hope everything turns out for the best. ((hugs))

nikkinu1 - Monday, 6 Apr
I pray that it's just misdated. Please let us know! I've got everything crossed for you! ((hugs))

Kathren - Monday, 6 Apr
Hang in there girl! Do everything the doctor tells you. It sounds like you have a good doctor that is working with you and that is a wonderful thing. Good luck and take care.

baby1onboard - Monday, 6 Apr
i am so sorry once again that you have to go thru this. keep us posted on how all the tests go. i'm keeping fingers crossed for you and hubby.

tto - Monday, 6 Apr
I'm so sorry to hear that things aren't going well. I hope they have some answers soon for you. I know how hard this can be. Keep us posted with the numbers.

ryleighsmom - Monday, 6 Apr
I am so sorry, keep hoping, that is all you can do...good luck.

elizhay - Monday, 6 Apr
Thinking of you babe!!!

Lillymae1227 - Monday, 6 Apr
I'm so sorry you have to keep enduring this. I hope that everything turns out alright. I hope it was just a misdating! Good luck hun!

mamacita-3 - Sunday, 5 Apr
I know it's hard, hunn...& especially even harder to stay hopeful. I really hope/pray that you just aren't as far along as you thought. Big hugs to you, you'll be in my thoughts.

mom22to2boys - Sunday, 5 Apr
I hope they are wrong and your just not as far along......

em2 stewarts wife - Sunday, 5 Apr
Shee... what ever happens just remember to breathe. We can only hope that your dates are off but either way know that we are all here for you and we love you no matter what!

roosa - Sunday, 5 Apr
Oh, I am so sorry.. I do hope you misdated (like another friend of mine just did) and that your levels will rise. I am thinking of you and hurting for you. Hugs!

anisa - Sunday, 5 Apr
i am so sorry to hear this,hang in there its not over yet there is still hope, if things dont go the way it should you should definitley do some futher invetigating,i will pray for you...please dont give up...and dont lose hope.