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10-11-2009 - People drive me CRAZY! contentMy mood while writing this blog:
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Does anyone else find that some people have opinions about everything you do as a parent?

Like I chose to exclusively breastfeed.

I have no problem with people who choose to use formula. I think each person needs to do what is best for them. Yet, people make comments about me breastfeeding. Why? I don't get it. All of my friends that have had babies recently or within the last year use formula. 3 of them were set on breastfeeding but gave up within the first few days because it was too hard for them. Well believe me...I get it! Jackson is finally starting to nurse well and regularly. I've had so many issues with breastfeeding but I'm determined and it's what I've always planned on and wanted to do. And it's better for both of us if I stick with it.

One of my friends didn't BF because she couldn't drink if she did and now her son is 4 months and she's most excited about his being able to hold his own bottle so she doesn't have to take time out of her day to feed him. She also couldn't wait to get him into daycare. I kind of think it's a little sad I guess. He's still a little guy you know? And why am I wrong for not doing the same?

I don't doubt myself one bit and I know we're doing what is best for us and for Jackson but I don't see why people make comments like we're doing something wrong just because it's different.




5 Comments on People drive me CRAZY!


lovingLayla - Tuesday, 10 Nov
you know what i learned---not to discuss my buisness with people, because I to get irritated when dead beat parents try to give me advice that I didnt ask for--you should hear how many people tell me "dont buy this or that for your daughter" i buy her what i want...girl, dont like people giving thier opinions and i prefer if they would keep their expert opinions to thierselves

lovingLayla - Tuesday, 10 Nov
you know what i learned---not to discuss my buisness with people, because I to get irritated when dead beat parents try to give me advice that I didnt ask for--you should hear how many people tell me "dont buy this or that for your daughter" i buy her what i want...girl, dont like people giving thier opinions and i prefer if they would keep their expert opinions to thierselves

unexpected23 - Tuesday, 10 Nov
I exclusively breastfed for seven months everyone hated it I mean everyone even my husband they made me feel so uncomfortable I love the way people stare out you like your breaking the law I had to stop because i switched medications but my son is 14 months old I wish I still breastfed him. With this baby I will too but watch my husband freak. I tink it is so much easierand I love the bond that is why my kids are clinged to me like glue.

modelimited - Tuesday, 10 Nov
I think it is VERY sad that there are people out there like your friend. I LOVE feeding my daughter! I love looking into her eyes and watching her fall asleep as I'm feeding her. When I was nursing her I loved getting up in the middle of the night because it was something only I could provide for her. We bonded! Good for you for sticking with it!

jennymomof3 - Tuesday, 10 Nov
What? Ok I must be lost but who would have anything bad to say about breastfeeding? Some people need to get a life there are better things to be doing than worrying about how someone choses to feed their baby! Don't listen to them and move on....how childish. Keep up the good work on being determined....I gave up after 2 weeks.
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    Date: 15-11-2009 Votes: 64 Comments: 24

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    Date: 9-11-2009 Votes: 24 Comments: 9

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    Date: 2-11-2009 Votes: 50 Comments: 9

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    Date: 29-10-2009 Votes: 8 Comments: 5

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    Date: 28-10-2009 Votes: 16 Comments: 1

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    Date: 22-10-2009 Votes: 51 Comments: 8

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    Date: 12-10-2009 Votes: 58 Comments: 2


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