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13-5-2009 - So frustrated! angryMy mood while writing this blog:
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I'm so angry right now I can barely type. Apparently I just need to stop being friends with certain people. It's getting so out of hand and I'm tired of giving and giving to people and they simply brush it aside when they get what they're looking for like our friendship doesn't even matter.

My husband is my best friend and he truly is amazing and sweet to me. He's been so helpful and good to me especially since I've been pregnant.

I guess I just don't understand people... I've been there countless times for so many people but as soon as I would like a friend or even just someone to talk to they're no where to be found. I hate it. I just give up.

I know hormones are playing into this too but it was like this even before I was pregnant. I always feel used and maybe I'm just giving too much or something.

I constantly feel like something is wrong with me or that I'm not good enough when it comes to friendships but maybe I'm just friends with all the wrong people...

Other then my husband and family, you guys are the only ones I have to talk to anymore....



4 Comments on So frustrated!


Gigantor - Thursday, 14 May
I understand you are frustrated, but try to look at the bright side of this sad reality. Now you know who your true friends are. Ditch the rest, they don't deserve you and stick with the ones who equally care!
Good luck and stay calm!

sarah28 - Thursday, 14 May
I can feel your pain i lost a lot of my friends when i met my babies dad and if anything they were being nasty as most were single so i put it down to jealousy but when i fell pregnant and then i split up with the babies dad a few weeks later i then realised who my TRUE friends were. But dont go running after your friends to keep them happy maybe sit back and enjoy your husband and that wee baby you are making and you will see what friends mean the most as they will come to you when they see you arent making the effort as much as what you did and they have to respect that too. Keep your chin up and hopefully things get brighter for you........Take Care S x

nirvana - Wednesday, 13 May
I lost all my so called friends when i was pregnant with my first 2 kids, i was only 18 and 19 and i had ALOT of good friends....second i got pregnant, they vanished. I guess we had nothing in common anymore if i couldnt be the party girl, in their eyes at least! Its very hurtful but proves they werent the friends i thought they were, so i moved on to find new friends who were in the same boat as me. I went to mums and babies groups etc and ive made friends there who have been with me fr the entire journey of 11 years of raising kids.
Youve done nothing wrong and its frustrating, but try to start a new and better chapter for yourself. You deserve more loyalty xx

mom of 7 and 1 on the way - Wednesday, 13 May
I know how you feel. My dh borrowed something out last week that still hasn't found it's way back and the day he borrowed it out he told me I needed to trust people sometime and I asked him why every time I do they give me a reason not to.
Photos
(2009, 01, 07) 4 months pregnant belly (15 weeks 4 days) (2009, 03, 21) (2009, 04, 06) (2009, 04, 06) 20 weeks (2009, 05, 15) 22 weeks...and pop goes the belly! (2009, 05, 15) Mommy and Daddy love you so much already! (2009, 05, 15) 30 weeks and up 16lbs total. (2009, 07, 06)

Children
Jackson-Eric (2009)

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