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| 22-7-2008 - My Pregnancy Journey | My mood while writing this blog:Good |
We got married on March 11 2007. We started trying from June and finally succeeded in August. My birthday is September 20, the day I found out I am pregnant.There is no word to explain the greatest gift from my husband for my birthday this year.
I am 71/2 weeks today and I had my first ultrasound. We saw our sweetie's heart beating. The heartrate was 167bpm. The height was 15cms. Doc said everything looks great and she confirmed my due date again as May 23 2008. My next appt is Nov 5th to hear my sweetie's heartbeat..I will update soon..
Monday, 5 Nov
We went for our appt today nervously hoping to hear the heartbeat. The nurse tried it first..she found it but it was mixed with mine and it was not clear..the rate did flash as 167bpm..then the doc came and did it..you can clearly see the difference in experience. she found a clear heartbeat..it was like a galloping horse only it was coming from inside my belly..all my nervousness melted and tears started rolling down my cheeks and I looked up teary eyed and saw my husband in the same state...It was a great great experience.I thank God for giving us this opportunity..I felt like I understood the meaning of my life...My next appointment is on Dec 3rd. Can't wait to hear our baby again
Monday, 3 Dec
We heard the heartbeat again today. It was at 152 bpm. very excited. My weight has not increased even a single ounce but I am eating anything I can anyway.Doc said it's nothing to worry about and it is good if I put on only few pounds so I can take them off easily. She advised to go for flu shot this week as the season has started. Also she adviced me to wear a maternity belt to take the weight off my bladder. My baby is literally camped out on my bladder and it hurts like heck whenever I change positions. Walking is also tough with the sciatic pain on my right side. Our next appt is Jan 2nd for a 4D scan and we will get to know what we are having..but it is still under debate whether we are going to know or keep it a secret..I will update after my next appt...
Wednesday, 2 Jan
My big scan was today and I was really excited to see the baby after a long time ( I am 20 weeks today, I saw the baby last at 71/2 weeks)...All I was praying to God was to see 10 fingers, 10 toes and a healthy pumping heart...Well He showed them all to me ..I am so grateful to be going through this experience with my sweet husband..he was so excited like a baby himself, watching and jumping at every wave, every kick...We told the U/S tech that we don't want to know the sex. so she asked us to turn our heads when she took snap in between legs..we have it in an envelope..with the little peek we had, we think it's a girl...but not sure...she checked for cleft lip, clubbed foot, thank god, everything looked fine..My fluid, cervix everything looked great as well..the baby's growth showed 21w4d ( weight: 13 oz) but I am only 20 weeks..the doc said my due date won't change as the babies grow at different rates during 2nd trimester...Overall, we felt blessed and came out of the appt with a huge smile on our faces and lots and lots of pictures....I have never been this happier and it all starting to feel real..Man, we are going to have a live kicking baby in our hands in another 20 weeks..how great is that...My next appt is Jan 30, I will update again...oooh, by the way, I have put 4 more pounds in last 4 weeks, bringing my total weight gain to 9 pounds so far..Only one thing I am upset about so far is I don't feel any movements yet..I could see the baby moving in ultrasound and I still felt nothing...crossing my fingers to feel something soon...
Wednesday, 30 Jan
I am 24 weeks today...Went for my appt and heard the heartbeat.It's strong and healthy...It is very exciting as I have started feeling movements from my 22nd week..Bubs was moving like crazy and the heartbeat kept increasing 160, 165, 167 and averaged at 165 bpm..unbelievable thing for me today is I put on 10 more pounds in the last weeks making my total weight gain to 19 pounds...OH MY GOD!!!! The doc said nothing to worry as I have not put much weight so far and this gain is needed...may be I would stabilize here for a while before I have to put a pound a week..God, my feet hurt with all the over weight .. They checked my iron today and I was on the border ( 12 to 14 is the range, I was at 12 exactly)..I was asked to eat foods rich in iron ( which are eventually gassy)..I am going to be one bloated, fat, gassy prego with a waddle..LOL...My next appt is Feb 29, the leap day..can't believe how the time flies and I am already more than halfway to the D day.
Friday, 29 Feb
I am 28 weeks today and that puts me under spotlight for my glucose test..I went into my doctor's office with a little creeped up BP (130/80) as I was very nervous abt the test...I have lost 2 pounds..I felt good but guilty..Honestly I have been eating everything on my way so bubs must be taking it all leaving mommy to lose weight..that's my baby..they gave me that orange drink..it was not that bad, just tasted like orange pop, and took my blood after an hr...now crossing my fingers for the result...I am praying to pass this test as I am needle phobic person ( don't know the right word, pardon my ignorance..LOL).. and I definitely don't want to prick myself everyday...My mom is diabetic and that puts me at risk but I feel confident...doc said everything looked great ( as always) ..ooh, we recorded the heart beat today, it was amazing...this will be my last monthly appt and we go every 2 weeks from next appt...really makes me feel we are too close to see our baby...can't wait...My next appt is Mar 14th...Our 1st wedding anniversary is Mar 11...we are really excited..Can't believe it's already 1 year...
Sunday , 2 Mar
From today morning, I am having pain urinating and also I run to the restroom with such an urge but will get only 1 or 2 drops..seems like UTI but may be dehydration too as I don't remember drinking lots of water since yesterday...Also having some frequent BH...bladder pain combined with BH , not so good..Planning to call the doc office tomorrow..will see
Monday , 3 Mar
I called the doc office to talk abt my trouble urinating and the nurse said she will call me back whether I need to come in..I told about the BH as well...She called back and asked me to come in the afternoon for a urine test/culture...By the time she called, I was feeling very down and sounded dull with all the pain..she asked if I had my glu test and I said yes on Friday...I don't know what she thought, but suddenly she said hold on, let me pull ur file here..then she said well, there is atleast 1 thing to be happy about, YOU PASSED THE GLU TEST WITH 126...That was the best news I really had for the whole day and I was jumping in joy...within minutes, I did not feel any more bladder pain and I was back to being me..May be I was just really stressing out and that's why felt all the pain...I went for the urine test anyway and now waiting for my culture result...
Tuesday , 11 Mar - Our First Wedding Anniversary
Our friends surprised us by coming in at 12 midnight exact with a cake..had lotsa fun cutting the cake, basting my hubby with cream, ...went to sleep at 2 AM...my god, we felt like teenagers...My sweetheart hubby gifted me a diamond pendant, it was so nice...we both worked from home today...in the evening, went for a portrait and had some belly pics...had dinner out and came back to home for our first anniversary night ;-)...All was fun..we had a blast today...
Oh and the doc office called, my culture came back negative, no UTI..hurray!
Friday, 14 Mar
We went today for the first of my bi-weekly appointments..My hubby was very much looking forward for this appt since he is going out of country for 3 weeks from Mar 23 and he wanted to confirm with doctor about any possibility of pre-term labor..Actually he is going to our home country India for his father's first death anniversary..His dad passed away just 2 days after our wedding last year in a tragic accident and it was a horrible situation...It took us 3 months to get out of that and before we cud even think of honeymoon, I got pregnant and we did not go anywhere...well, we will probably go to Europe with bubs in tow...LOL..In our tradition, the son has a lot of stuff to do on the first anniversary and that's why he is travelling..but as the date nears, my poor hubby does not want to leave me here and go and he is totally ripped up...I have promised to be brave and keep our baby in until he comes back(by the time I will turn 34 weeks)... Doc said he sees no issue whatsoever and comforted my hubby..he is still upset but better than before....I feel very lucky, I love him, can't really ask for more caring and understanding...
Ooh..after the appt, I had a prenatal massage session...God, it felt like heaven...My massage therapist worked on my sciatica and it really helped me so much...She also taught my husband how to massage the sciatica so he can do it everyday at night for me....I felt so relieved after that hour and actually walked erect with no limping for the first time in 20 weeks...I recommend a prenatal massage to any one suffering from back pain and sciatica.
My yoga session is on Monday , Looking forward to it..will update once I go for the session..
Friday Mar 28
This is the first appt I went alone to the doctor's office this whole pregnancy as my hubby has gone to India..Heard heartbeat and they checked my iron..it was 8..seems low...doc put me on iron supplement..I have also lost 2 pounds..probably becoz I miss my husband..I took appt for Apr 15 as my hubby will be back with my mom and mom-in-law on apr 14.
Tuesday Apr 15
Just a regular appt..heard heartbeat..I have gained back 1.5 pounds..My baby shower is in 5 days and I keep getting excited abt it..Next appt May 2..Can't believe I have only 1 month to go until I meet my little sweet pea..can't wait..but also getting nervous abt the climax..will see..
Sunday Apr 20
I had my baby shower today..It was a blast..In the morning we had traditional pooja at home with just close friends and family..In the evening, my husband has invited quite a few ppl and we had a party at the Prosperity club house.
Friday May 2
My first internal check up today..I am a little nervous..I also have the nasty Strep B test today.Doc checked and told that 10% effacement..that's it..no dilation , nothing..guess I am in for a long haul in this..
Thursday May 8
When we went in for the appt today, I was thinking that I am going to be the same as last appt..Doc came in to check me and told that he is not going to do internal as there was no progress in the last appt..then suddenly he decided to check the baby's position and tried to locate the head..He was not so sure if the head is up or down ..so he decided to an internal..good he did that..coz we just found out that I am already 4 cm... waaaaaaahhhhhhhh...am I stunned or what...from nothing to 4 cm?? that's amazing as I had few BH but that's it....no real contractions...guess all the yoga helped..we are rushing home to get everything packed and get ready as it does not seem like we have time...oh, I am so scared, excited at the same time...God, pls give me strength...and let me know when it all begins...
Saturday May 10
I know the end was near but did not expect on 10th May itself..I woke up as usual at 10 AM .had my cereal relaxedly as I did not have any contraction or pain..then I got up to go pee at 10.30 AM when I felt a gush of water pouring down from between my legs..I was confused whether its my water or I just peed on myself..As I was wondering, my first contraction hit me like someone stabbed me with knife down there..then I knew...I called for my husband and we both got ready to go to hospital..called the Dr and told my contractions are 7 mins apart and I think I broke my water..he asked me to come over asap..my hubby and me went to hospital at 12 PM and they hooked me up to monitors..by that time, I had to pee and when I did, had my bloody show..nurse checked me and I was 6 CM..they got the room ready immediately and moved me in there..I was screaming inside with pain but maintained my calmness outside and asked for epidural..they gave me the first dose when I went from 7 to 8 cm..but it did not work, I cud feel the pain as I was progressing very very fastly..the anesthecist gave me a second dose when I was at 9.5 cm..luckily it kicked in and it was time to push..my daughter was in my hands in the next 30 mins..by God`s grace, the labor went smoothly, ofcourse with a 3rd degree laceration, but it was ok compared to the whole experience.. we both are back home all healthy..Thanks for reading my story ..wish u all good luck..
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