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16-6-2009 - To Date, or Not to Date

My mood while writing this blog: Hmm...

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It has finally hit me that I cannot let Dustin drag me down any longer. Simply put, I've been drowning in the heartbreak of the situation that I haven't considered myself ready to be in any dating relationship. It sort of caught me off guard that guys would have any interest at all in a pregnant lady like myself. My initial thoughts were pessemistic, that the guys just want to take advantage of me. But now I wonder if dating would be such a bad thing after all. So I've begun hanging out with a really good, nice guy that I've been friends with for some time. We're not on dating terms yet, but it's nice to feel admired and cared about again. It's just been going out to eat, watch movies, ect. It's low key and simple. Just what I need right now. I know to prioritize the baby, but it's so nice to be nurtured again. I do not have expectations for what we may become. If anything, the support he gives is a boost to my spirits. It means a lot that he's willing to spend time with me in spite of my changing body and difficult situation. Is it bad/dangerous to be dating? Is it okay to invest some of my time and emotions in a guy in my situation?

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