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22-4-2008 - my body, my decisions, my consequences

My mood while writing this blog: who gives a dam what they think

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So having 2 kids is gonna be crazy, me and Jason were already expecting that. i'm afraid to tell anyone tho-- not just because it's early, but because i know people are gonna look at me funny. my family will be like WHY DIDNT YOU GET ON BIRTH CONTROL, and YOU JUST HAD A BABY and YOU CANT AFFORD ANOTHER KID. but like i said, its my body, my decisions, my consequences. i know i was wrong for not getting that depo shot-- hubby kept telling me to, so did my mom, but i was lazy. but, ill be damned if someone tries to tell me not to keep my child. theres TOO many ladies on here, trying their hardest to concieve... TOO many couples that wish they could have a baby and cant. i refuse to take the gift God has handed me and trash it right in front of his face.

He always has a way even when i don't see how or why. He has a plan for this baby.. and for Zoe also. it's not my place to sit and say, i cant do this, im not going to do this. God keeps telling me over and over "stefanie, my child, how big is your God?" bigger than me and my circumstance... and with him, i can do ALL. scary as it is. ay yi yi.

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4 Comments on my body, my decisions, my consequences


4timesthelove - Wednesday, 17 Sep
congratulations on your second lil one. You will do great! It does not matter what anyone said in the past we have to live in the present. The baby is coming and who is going to tell you not to love it LIKE THEY WILL once the baby is born! My parents were not thrilled that I was having my 4th but they love him to pieces!

expectingnumb3 - Wednesday, 9 Jul
congrats to you. My boys are 20 months apart and they are best friends! 6 and 8. When my mom found out she was pregnant with my little sister, my brother was only 6 weeks old! It took her almost 4 years to get pregnant with him and bam it happened again so quickly! She called my grandma crying to tell her the news and my grandmother said you stop that crying now! You know the good Lord would not give you anything you couldn't handle!

So, despite what other people think you are going to be fine! Who cares what they think anyway!

stephanie808 - Thursday, 24 Apr
Well said! My daughter will be 16 months old when I have my second child. I was on the depo-shot and decided not to try that again. I went on the minipill instead...and here I am pregnant one again. God has a will for giving us the gift of a child and nobody should judge!

kelsul - Tuesday, 22 Apr
kudos to you and congrats! you know, you are an adult and married and young too :)
i hope everything goes well. it's always better to add another chair to the table than to take one away.
don't worry what others will say or think.
good luck :)