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| 23-9-2009 - The Elephant in the Room |  My mood while writing this blog:Curious |
Hey ladies,
First off- 35 weeks, yeahh!!! Hope everyone is doing well or well enough to make it through the day. Not a long blog but here goes. Does anyone feel like there other half is avoiding them sexually. I can't say the last time I've had sex!! Honestly, I have a new ache every day and am very self conscious that I know I'm not hot sexy but miracle baby making sexy (to me there's a definite difference), so I don't necessarily want it but I know he isn't even trying. It's hard for me to say he's cheating cause I don't have that feeling and he's always home or close or in touch with me but I don't think he's interested in me period. He will say things like oh I've been thinking about having sex but I was scared for the baby but what can you say now, baby's almost here. When I ask him point blank if I don't turn him on as much or maybe he just doesn't like pregnant bodies, or pregnant sex, he always says that's not it. Then what the hell is it? In the end it's like me wanting that Corona with Lime even though on a regular day I wouldn't care for it. Just cause I'm not getting it makes me want it more. Should I feel a certain way or what?
It turned out longer than I thought, sorry lol.
3 Comments on The Elephant in the Room
flymom2be - Thursday, 24 Sep
Well I'm kinda going through the same thing with my boyfriend. Not to give TMI but the other day we were doing it and he stopped cause I was kind of complaining because it hurt and he said now we can't until after the baby because I am scaring him. I wouldn't worry about it but as women thats all we do. The first thing I was thinking is he is going to go get it from somewhere else but I really don't believe that.
readyfor3 - Wednesday, 23 Sep
it was the same for me in the end weeks of pregnancy, maybe hubby was scared? I was pretty BIG! anyways, I am sure he will jump you as soon as he can once the baby is out! x
Ms. Russo - Wednesday, 23 Sep
Sorry to hear your going threw it! I really don't know what to say to it either. But he's not cheating, it sounds like its something a little more personal for him. I read in a magazine to not assume what it is with men when confronting them but more to asking straight up and leaving it open for him to answer. I think you'll be really surprised to find its not you its something in his mind. You never know. Be sure to let him know that what he is doing is hurting you because having your body like that is hard on you to! He might be surprised to know you are just as uncomfortable with yourself. I mean if you are. We are definitely at the point where I think all of us are pretty uncomfortable and feeling pretty "unsexy" its hard right now. Just think though thats a sign of it being almost over! I hope you feel better and everything gets worked out for you girl!
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