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29-11-2009 - i really should chill out!!

My mood while writing this blog:
frustrated

I am starting to get concerned again! I havent seen a doctor or midwife for a few weeks now and im getting so paranoid as i havent really felt my baby move as much! in fact im not sure if i have at all latley. a few weeks ago i did feel movements but now nothing. Im just wondering if my baby has maybe moved into a position that i cant feel?? I am going out of my mind and dont want to go up to the hospital too much as they will think i am a madwoman!! I know worrying isnt going to help me or my baby and i really should chill out! i hope im just being paranoid. When i see my doc or midwife it gives me reassurance that lasts maybe a few weeks then i start to freak out again. I feel as thought im on my own until i have an appointment as i was told they would keep a close eye on me and now i wont see anyone until January 4th!!! how is that keeping a close eye??? I dont expect to be seen to everyday but once every 2 to 3 weeks would do! when i do ring them they talk to me as though im wasting there time. i dont know if its a good thing that they are not worried which means they might think that my pregnancy is progressing normally? i dont know but having a baby after a los is one of the hardest things anyone can do, if not the hardest!! i just like to know that my baby is ok! thats not too much to ask.

5 Comments on i really should chill out!!

amber242 - Sunday, 29 Nov
I worry all the time too. It's crazy. I would recommend you get a doppler. Whenever I feel worried I just plop it on my tummy and hear my little Jeremiah's heartbeat ans know everything is a-ok!

roosa - Sunday, 29 Nov
I wouldn't care if someone thought I was a mad woman! I want my baby and that is all that matters. I am sorry your clinic is not more understanding. The nurse attached to my doctor has told me I can come in any time to listen to the heart beat if necessary. I haven't done that but it is good to know I have the option. I would just keep pushing until your clinic understands that you need this extra care for your peace of mind - which is so important. Stress is not good for your or baby.That being said, I didn't feel the baby a whole lot either at that stage. I started feeling movements at 15 weeks and then they slowed down. I would sometimes not feel him for a whole day which my nurse had already warned me about. Lots of hugs!

diana - Sunday, 29 Nov
if you think something might be up with the baby ... i would just go to the hospital.. i wouldnt care what anyone thought of me id go.. in the end it boils down to you & your unborn child! I feel the baby here and there not a whole lot but when i was just at my u/s i seen the baby moving lots and didnt feel any of it! Also the tech told me that my placenta is infront of my uterus and thats why i may n ot feel baby as much because it has that extra padding .. Call your dr's and if they wont push up your date for you next appointment id go to the hospital! Its not good for you or baby to worrie your self this much.. Hope this helps you.. hang in there and think positive!

lulabell7 - Sunday, 29 Nov
Just make an doctors appointment and explain to them that you need to be seen asap. The doctor can listen to the babys heart beat and it will put your mind at rest.

girlinterrupted - Sunday, 29 Nov
It's not too much to ask hun. I would just call the hospital, who cares if they think you are mad?? It will put your mind at rest. xxx

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