26-11-2008 - who\'s baby shower is this?

My mood while writing this blog: annoyed

so we havent even found out the sex of the baby yet and people are already starting to plan the baby shower..which is fine except it was made known that my sister was planning it and that my mother and friend could HELP her. (my sis knows me better than anyone and knows what i would and wouldnt like) So today my friend calls my mother and they start planning things without ANY of my sisters imput..not to mention doing things that i think i should have been asked about first..like the date..and the guest list..So i nicely told them both that i would make the guest list and that they needed to be communicating with my sis because we already have some of the things worked out..AND SHE IS PLANNING IT. but instead of just accepting that my friend gets upset! i dont understand what there is to be upset about? she is still included. but it seems like she doesnt want my sister to be involved whatsoever. which if thats the case..and im pretty sure it is..we are gonna have a problem..thats my sister and how dare you try to exclude her! it also doesnt help that my mother and sis dont get along to begin with and my sis secretly hates my friend. and then to make things even better my mother in law who nobody likes, wants to be included. so fights are already starting and its completely rediculous..why would u want to ruin what is supposed to be a happy moment for me and my husband? this is the same kind of selfishness that some of these people pulled at our wedding and reception..it also doesnt help that i have the bad habit of trying to please everyone and all it does is stress me out. But as far as that friend goes..im done worrying about her feelings..this is not the first time she has been selfish like this..and i dont have time to deal with her childishness..if she is going to act this way then she will not be included in any of it. well i think im about done venting for now