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14-10-2011 - Confusion

My mood while writing this blog: Ok

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Hi everyone. I hope all your bellies are doing well.

I am so confused and sad and well, i suppose i am a bit of a mes. kinda feels like i can only really talk about all ths here because you might know exactly how i feel.

On monday went for an ultrasound just for a checkup to see if everything was still going well in there. it turns out that after 2 previous scans saying that we are having a boy, this ons says we are having a girl. confusing. what do i believe? Just to make things worse, my hairdresser went for an ultrasound at the same place and the nurse said that she is deffinitly having a boy and when the baby was born over the weekend it turned out to be a girl. poor woman! I am really down in the dumps about this. my baby shower is the 29th and i had to change everything to neutral colours. i think its boring! i wanted to get pretty pink or blue things. really disappointed.

to top off all of this, my husband and his family are pushing for a girls name i really dont like. what should i do? i dont htink i am going to win this fight! how do i speak my mind so that they all understand that i dont want to hate calling my daughter (if it is a girl) by a name i despise due to a bad connectionof my past?

Sorry for the vent.

Keep well mommies. we are almost there!!!

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1 Comments on Confusion


nhowa9 - Friday, 14 Oct
Oh no! dont say this! I am exactly where you are, ill be 29wks tomorrow and this has been one of my biggest fears. that they will have the gender wrong. we have a little girl and really wanted a boy. the tech has told us my bubba is a little boy however it scares me to think the US techs can and do get this wrong. I know it sounds terrible but i know both of us, particularily my fiancee would be devasted if he is born a she... becasue he was more than over the moon to have a mini him. Have you perhaps thought about getting one last final scan? a 4Dscan?! We did it last time with my daughter but this time just dont have the spare money for it comming up to xmas. though that little niggling thought is always there. I hope the tech was right for both my sake and for yours?! I too have bought all little boys clothes and blue everything after having a closet full of pinks and purples.As for names... ultimately you shouldnt listen to ANYTHING family say about naming your child.. after all it is YOUR child and not theirs. This is something between yourself and your husband. they are the only opinions that matter. I try not to tell anybody the names that i like becasue everyone has thier own opinion. So long as both Sam and i like the names then ultimately thats all that matters. :)

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