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Hello to all of my mommies friends,
I hope you ladies are feeling good and your babies are healthy!
I just want to update with you ladies about my divorce status. Ughh, I am so upset at my scumbag soon-to-be-ex-husband.
The paperwork is ready, and now he's refusing to sign it! He came up with so many excuses to not signing the freaking divorce paper. He said why the child support money is so high, how come the my attorney said he don't have to take the Parenting class, how come my attorney said he has to go elsewhere to get the divorce waiver notarized and not at the attorney's office.
He was basically giving me a hard time and keep on canceling and rescheduling the appointment with the attorney.
He left on September 6, 2009 and so far, he had not come back and visit Victor yet. He didn't bother to call and ask how Victor is doing. You ladies cannot believe this, he didn't tell any of his co-workers that he was married and have kid!
Two weeks ago, I tried to call him to tell him to give me some money to buy formulas and diapers for Victor, but he wouldn't pick up the phone. For 2 days, he would not call back, so I called one of his friend from work and he was surprise when I said I was the wife. He said he didn't know that my husband was married and have a baby already. I bursted out crying on the phone and told that man everything.
A few hours later, the scumbag finally called back to me.
For the last month, I have been crying so much. Every time I look at Victor, tears would want to fall down, Victor looks so much like him. I feel so bad for Victor. Thanks God that Victor is a happy baby, he's smiling and giggling all the time.
Now I'm in a battle with my husband, I don't know where he lives, and he's keep coming up with excuses for not signing the paper.
Ever since he received the permanent green card, his mom stopped calling my mom! She don't pick up my phone anymore, and if she does, she will only say one or two words and will come up with excuses to hang up.
I can't believe that I've married a jerk and being used for almost 6 years. I've talk to the priest and had my confession already. When I was living with him, I pretty much stop going to church and ignored God. Now I'm praying again, I'm praying to God to give me more strength so I can get through this divorce.
I hope all of you mommies and babies are healthy and growing.
6 Comments on Divorce & Drama
BBgirl1983 - Sunday, 25 Oct
P.S. I would have begged the lord for strength and knocked your husband on his butt..
BBgirl1983 - Sunday, 25 Oct
* im sorry to hear your going through all of that* stay strong, you will raise your son to be a great man, not like his father. hang in there.
Baby Bliss - Sunday, 25 Oct
Tiff- I am beyond sorry for your pain, NO ONE Should have to go through this. I especially cant believe that his co workers didnt know that he was married and had a child. For all you know there was something fishy all along. What a f*cking ass*ole.!!!! I hope his child support is out the roof. Make sure you let the agency or the lawyers know that he has not taken care of his son and that will then become retroactive child support. One way or another he will pay. Dont worry about the papers getting signed. They will sooner or later but the sooner you can move on with your life. Victor needs a strong mamma so I am glad that y0ou have started to turn to god during this time. I am definitely not a goddy person, but I think when you are going through something like this, we all need something to believe in and give us an internal strength if not for yourself at least for your bundle of joy that knows his mom is crying but doesnt know why. Tiff be strong and take care of you and victor. try not to shed anymore tears for someone that is not worth a tear. I will be praying for you and baby victor. HugssssXXX
carterscutie85 - Sunday, 25 Oct
The courts know what game he's playing by delaying the meetings with the attorney and not signing the divorce papers. If he keeps delaying it, the judge will hold him in contempt. Usually when one person refuses to sign, the judge will rule that their signature isn't needed and grant the divorce anyway. My friend's ex wife wouldn't sign their divorce papers and that's what happened. Judges have seen game players before, they know all the tricks and you will get your divorce one way or another, with or without his cooperation.I know what u are going through, I am not with my son's father and it hurts. But it gets easier with time, my son looks alot like his father as well but when I see his smile and laughs, and see him learning new things, it helps to not hurt as much.As always, I'm here if u need to talk. ((((hugs))))
Nikki1606 - Saturday, 24 Oct
Im so sorry that you are going through this hunny. I cannot even imagne how hard this must be right now ESPECIALLY because you have Victor. He is a scumbag and he deserves nothing. He doesnt deserve you OR his son because he is such a piece of shit! *pardon my language but its true!* I will be praying for you and Victor always. Keep faith in God, like you are, and everything will work itself out and get better in time. Post some new pictures of Victor when you have time! I would love to see some new pics :) xoxo.PS. Im here to talk if you want whenever.. :) xx
Phoenix39 - Saturday, 24 Oct
wow what a guy to not even tell his co-workers that he was married or even has a child. This is common for one not to sign the divorce papers and to make it difficult. Don't even focus on the divorce papers since it is already done with and it seems to upset you. Just go along with your everyday enjoying the baby's giggles and smiles, try not to think of how he looks like his dad. My baby has his father's eyes, but I don't care because I still remember the last words he said to me when he found out I was pregnant and that was to get rid of it *baby/pregnancy. I know you loved him so much and it is more difficult for you, I guess I am just stronger at forgetting the father issue. And your ex seems like a jerk all the way for not even wanting to see his child but don't pressure him and hopefully he will never want to and it will save your child the heart ache down the road.
| 24-10-2009 - Divorce & Drama |  My mood while writing this blog:upset |
Hello to all of my mommies friends,
I hope you ladies are feeling good and your babies are healthy!
I just want to update with you ladies about my divorce status. Ughh, I am so upset at my scumbag soon-to-be-ex-husband.
The paperwork is ready, and now he's refusing to sign it! He came up with so many excuses to not signing the freaking divorce paper. He said why the child support money is so high, how come the my attorney said he don't have to take the Parenting class, how come my attorney said he has to go elsewhere to get the divorce waiver notarized and not at the attorney's office.
He was basically giving me a hard time and keep on canceling and rescheduling the appointment with the attorney.
He left on September 6, 2009 and so far, he had not come back and visit Victor yet. He didn't bother to call and ask how Victor is doing. You ladies cannot believe this, he didn't tell any of his co-workers that he was married and have kid!
Two weeks ago, I tried to call him to tell him to give me some money to buy formulas and diapers for Victor, but he wouldn't pick up the phone. For 2 days, he would not call back, so I called one of his friend from work and he was surprise when I said I was the wife. He said he didn't know that my husband was married and have a baby already. I bursted out crying on the phone and told that man everything.
A few hours later, the scumbag finally called back to me.
For the last month, I have been crying so much. Every time I look at Victor, tears would want to fall down, Victor looks so much like him. I feel so bad for Victor. Thanks God that Victor is a happy baby, he's smiling and giggling all the time.
Now I'm in a battle with my husband, I don't know where he lives, and he's keep coming up with excuses for not signing the paper.
Ever since he received the permanent green card, his mom stopped calling my mom! She don't pick up my phone anymore, and if she does, she will only say one or two words and will come up with excuses to hang up.
I can't believe that I've married a jerk and being used for almost 6 years. I've talk to the priest and had my confession already. When I was living with him, I pretty much stop going to church and ignored God. Now I'm praying again, I'm praying to God to give me more strength so I can get through this divorce.
I hope all of you mommies and babies are healthy and growing.
6 Comments on Divorce & Drama
BBgirl1983 - Sunday, 25 Oct
P.S. I would have begged the lord for strength and knocked your husband on his butt..
BBgirl1983 - Sunday, 25 Oct
* im sorry to hear your going through all of that* stay strong, you will raise your son to be a great man, not like his father. hang in there.
Baby Bliss - Sunday, 25 Oct
Tiff- I am beyond sorry for your pain, NO ONE Should have to go through this. I especially cant believe that his co workers didnt know that he was married and had a child. For all you know there was something fishy all along. What a f*cking ass*ole.!!!! I hope his child support is out the roof. Make sure you let the agency or the lawyers know that he has not taken care of his son and that will then become retroactive child support. One way or another he will pay. Dont worry about the papers getting signed. They will sooner or later but the sooner you can move on with your life. Victor needs a strong mamma so I am glad that y0ou have started to turn to god during this time. I am definitely not a goddy person, but I think when you are going through something like this, we all need something to believe in and give us an internal strength if not for yourself at least for your bundle of joy that knows his mom is crying but doesnt know why. Tiff be strong and take care of you and victor. try not to shed anymore tears for someone that is not worth a tear. I will be praying for you and baby victor. HugssssXXX
carterscutie85 - Sunday, 25 Oct
The courts know what game he's playing by delaying the meetings with the attorney and not signing the divorce papers. If he keeps delaying it, the judge will hold him in contempt. Usually when one person refuses to sign, the judge will rule that their signature isn't needed and grant the divorce anyway. My friend's ex wife wouldn't sign their divorce papers and that's what happened. Judges have seen game players before, they know all the tricks and you will get your divorce one way or another, with or without his cooperation.I know what u are going through, I am not with my son's father and it hurts. But it gets easier with time, my son looks alot like his father as well but when I see his smile and laughs, and see him learning new things, it helps to not hurt as much.As always, I'm here if u need to talk. ((((hugs))))
Nikki1606 - Saturday, 24 Oct
Im so sorry that you are going through this hunny. I cannot even imagne how hard this must be right now ESPECIALLY because you have Victor. He is a scumbag and he deserves nothing. He doesnt deserve you OR his son because he is such a piece of shit! *pardon my language but its true!* I will be praying for you and Victor always. Keep faith in God, like you are, and everything will work itself out and get better in time. Post some new pictures of Victor when you have time! I would love to see some new pics :) xoxo.PS. Im here to talk if you want whenever.. :) xx
Phoenix39 - Saturday, 24 Oct
wow what a guy to not even tell his co-workers that he was married or even has a child. This is common for one not to sign the divorce papers and to make it difficult. Don't even focus on the divorce papers since it is already done with and it seems to upset you. Just go along with your everyday enjoying the baby's giggles and smiles, try not to think of how he looks like his dad. My baby has his father's eyes, but I don't care because I still remember the last words he said to me when he found out I was pregnant and that was to get rid of it *baby/pregnancy. I know you loved him so much and it is more difficult for you, I guess I am just stronger at forgetting the father issue. And your ex seems like a jerk all the way for not even wanting to see his child but don't pressure him and hopefully he will never want to and it will save your child the heart ache down the road.
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