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 | Age: 20 Country: US Province/region: Kansas City: Hays Partner: My Love Children: Pregnant: Yes Due date: 19 Oct ,2008 Occupation: stay at home mommy!!! |
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so right now i'm kind of frustrated....b/f's dad just told me he wants us to do the dishes...no problem i don't mind that but then he proceeds to say that they wouldn't be so bad if we didn't hide a million cups in our room...okay whatever we used to do that....each of us have a cup for a drink at night and forget about them and not bother with taking the cups to the kitchen till we couldn't fit ne more on the night stand...well that problem ceased when i got a large water bottle and we decided that the only thing allowed in the room for drinks was water....i know i shouldn't be upset about this and all but his grandkids come over every day and get into stuff (they're 5, 8, and 9) old enough to know better....well they were over here again today and i watched them each get like 3 diff cups apiece and he never said a word to them about it...they also got into stuff they're not allowed into...he leaves chemical just laying around and the youngest one was playing with them in the bathroom the other day he woke my b/f up at 9pm (he stayed up and made food for me...chicken and dumplings...cuz i was sick today) he went to bed around 7 and never went to bed last night...woke him up just to ask if he had the phone...which he didn't the kids had taken it outside playing around with it...then he asked me if i knew where the remote was...nope i stayed in the room most of the day...the worst part is...this happens almost every day and he still hasn't noticed that the kids lose everything and break everything but he thinks he has to blame us for stuff thats missing...i know everything im complaining about is minor stuff but its still irritating....my next subject has to do with bills...something we all have to deal with lol...i had insurance through the last company i was working for...about 2 weeks after finding out i was pregnant i got fired for no reason...perfectly legal in the state of ks cuz i was working there less than a yr...well after i got fired i called McDonald's (i had worked there before for a few years) and i asked if they needed anybody...and of course i was hired over the phone and asked to come in that night...same night i was fired from my last employer...well a couple of days later i realized that i would only be covered for 30 days after losing my job through their insurance so i called the insurance company to see if i could get my work plan changed over to just an individual plan and they said no and to call my employer to see if i was accepted for COBRA did that and they said yes i was and they would send out my papers within the week...papers never came so after 2 weeks i called back and they sent em "again" i finally got them after a month of not having my job there so i filled them out and mailed them back the next day and after another 2 weeks i still hadn't heard anything back from them or from the insurance company so i called them again and they said the lady in HR was out till the following Monday so i called back on the following Monday once again shes out till Monday...did this for 3 weeks in a row finally shes in but shes in a meeting told them i wanted her to call me back as soon as she was done cuz i was tired of not being able to talk to her so she called me back i asked her about the papers i had mailed in the month before she said she never received them and i told her i had the receipt for mailing them back to her and she said that seems how she had been out of the office that she would check to see if someone else had picked them up and didn't tell her and she would get back to me the next day...okay the next day she called said that nobody had them told her she better look again cuz i mailed em back to her and she better call me back...well she didn't call back so the following Monday i called her back she said the papers had been lost but she found them and mailed the into the insurance company and explained to them that it was their fault that they were late and that i should hear back from the insurance company within the week...well never heard back from them so about 2 weeks later i called her back and told her i hadn't heard anything back and she said that i had sent them back to late and that i wasn't accepted so i called the insurance company immediately afterwards asking weather or not they had received the papers and they said that they had no records of ever receiving the papers from the employer and that the only thing i could do was call and ask them well i called the employer back and she told me that it was my fault for not sending them in on time and that all i had to do was call up there and get an individual plan..well i cant do that thats y i was accepted for cobra cuz i have a pre-existing problem....so after all of that i find out i don't have insurance and the hospital here in town is trying to sue me cuz apparently i haven't paid since December even though i have receipts since then and haven't been to the dr since then but my bill went from 375 to 457 within 2 weeks and i have no idea how and the hospital where i go to my obgyn at has sent me 3 bills all with diff amounts on them first it was 560 then it was 158 then it was 420 now they're saying that seems how i haven't made and effort to pay that they're gunna send my bill to a collection agency so on Monday when i go up there im gunna find out how much i actually owe them...the place where i have to get all my prenatal tests done (cuz the hospital doesn't have a lab) says i still owe them from my first set of tests so i had to call them cuz the check i sent them went through my bank acct....so they got that fixed but now i owe them again cuz the day they got it fixed my dr sent me over there again lol....the womens health center at the beginning of my pregnancy sent me an estimate of costs with insurance coverage averaged in and it came out to 2533 well now i don't have insurance so thats at least doubled if not tripled and i cant get help through the state...i already tried but seems how i live with my b/f and my b/f lives with his father we cant get any assistance because his dad makes to much...even though his dad only lets us live here rent free we pay for all of our own stuff and make our own meals and everything...o and my parents were down this weekend and came by the house and said that if we don't find our own place before the baby is born then they are going to make sure that the baby is taken away from us just because the outside of the house looks like crap...it only needs painted...the roof leaks in 2 spots but only in the back pantry area that we use for can storage (old pop cans that need to be taken to the recycling center) and one above the freezer...and only when it rains hard....my question...what will the baby be doing above the freezer and in the pantry...those are 2 place i don't even go...so we have to find a house within 8 weeks and pay off 4000 worth of bills all on $1100 a month...my b/f and i really want to move out of here but the only way for us to move out is to get help of some sort but the only way to get help is to move out...my mom wants us to move up to Wisconsin but there is a reason i moved away from there and she keeps saying that she and my step-dad will pay for everything...okay thats nice of them and all but shes controlling over me i don't want to live up there when i have a child cuz i know she will try to control how i raise the baby and i really don't want that...plus my b/f has sleep insomnia and she doesn't seem to understand what that means and i try to explain to her that when he is tired or whatever he tries to go to sleep but he cant and any medication he has taken for it he has had the worst possible side effects from them and even his family doesn't seem to understand y he gets up so late in the day so when i try to defend him i just get yelled at and told i make up to many excuses so i know that if we were to go up there she would do the same thing she did last time we were there and that was that if he was still sleeping at 9 o'clock in the morning she would pound on the door violently and loud until he got up then i would have to deal with a grouchy b/f the whole day because of her and she would tell him that he needed to grow up and stop being so grouchy so i know if we go up there i'm going to regret it...i told her we will come up to visit in November through Thanksgiving but we are coming back here by the first of December so i can go back to work and have a check for Christmas but when i tell her that she just seems to think i'm making up excuses and that I only think about myself and not the welfare of the child...well if i don't work how am i going to be able to take care of the baby...im already going to be out of work for 2 months...i think when i come back im going to try to find a second job...id try to find one now but i know nobody will hire me when im leaving for 2 months...but i guess the least i can do is try lol...well i guess my book of complaints is long enough and has enough chapters to it lol...if u read it this far im surprised lol...love u all and ttyl
lots of love
tasha
3 Comments on blah blah blah
amycakes - Thursday, 4 Sep
Anything having to do with insurance always sucks. I lost my job and my insurance in June but when I did have it I was constantly getting bills from the hospital that should have already been paid by my insurance company. I guess I am really lucky that the state of NY is giving me insurance for free now. They even give me my vitamins and stuff for free at the doctors office because I'm on that program, but if they went by my boyfriends income too I wouldn't be eligible for it. I live with him but they didn't even ask for his income. I don't qualify for wic or anything though because of his income. My parents tried to make me move back to Pennsylvania when they found out I was pregnant, actually they still harp on it, you just have to do what you feel is right. I totally understand them worrying about me with no family here and wanting to be near their first grandchild when he comes but I can't live my life to make them happy. Stay strong and good luck!
Bangel - Sunday, 24 Aug
If you don't have any other problems besides pregnancy...insurance doesn't save you all that much anyway (as long as everything goes smoothly with pregnancy and birth). I have COBRA and it just went up to $385 a month!! And I still have to pay 20% of the labor/delivery/doctor stuff in the end.
Can't imagine being stuck living with family. I'd be going insane if I were you!! lol.
lisac - Sunday, 24 Aug
Wow Natasha i feel so bad for you I kept having problems with my insurance company apparently I was accepted on May this year and then i kept having problems with them sending me an insurance card so i had to go up to Texas health services and 2 times they didnt have my right address and one other time they didnt have my right social security number but i know the day i went to the Texas health services office there was another Lisa Campbell who had an appointment with them the same time as me so i made sure they had my right social security number i hate when things get so confusing I feel so bad for you about Andrews Dad My stepdad is soooooooooo annoying I cant stand him anymore I know i dont want to hurt my mom but i believe i will be happier in Iowa and i keep trying to convince my mom to come back but she thinks that she will be very upset if she see's my dad because my dad is dating one of my moms ex bestfriends and she is also living with him i wouldnt blame my mom but i wouldnt give a crap about my ex i lived in the same town as my ex chris i just never bothered to try and get ahold of him or go anywhere near where he goes but anyway
| 24-8-2008 - blah blah blah |  My mood while writing this blog:anxious, nervous, impatient, depressed, excited, sick.....eh |
so right now i'm kind of frustrated....b/f's dad just told me he wants us to do the dishes...no problem i don't mind that but then he proceeds to say that they wouldn't be so bad if we didn't hide a million cups in our room...okay whatever we used to do that....each of us have a cup for a drink at night and forget about them and not bother with taking the cups to the kitchen till we couldn't fit ne more on the night stand...well that problem ceased when i got a large water bottle and we decided that the only thing allowed in the room for drinks was water....i know i shouldn't be upset about this and all but his grandkids come over every day and get into stuff (they're 5, 8, and 9) old enough to know better....well they were over here again today and i watched them each get like 3 diff cups apiece and he never said a word to them about it...they also got into stuff they're not allowed into...he leaves chemical just laying around and the youngest one was playing with them in the bathroom the other day he woke my b/f up at 9pm (he stayed up and made food for me...chicken and dumplings...cuz i was sick today) he went to bed around 7 and never went to bed last night...woke him up just to ask if he had the phone...which he didn't the kids had taken it outside playing around with it...then he asked me if i knew where the remote was...nope i stayed in the room most of the day...the worst part is...this happens almost every day and he still hasn't noticed that the kids lose everything and break everything but he thinks he has to blame us for stuff thats missing...i know everything im complaining about is minor stuff but its still irritating....my next subject has to do with bills...something we all have to deal with lol...i had insurance through the last company i was working for...about 2 weeks after finding out i was pregnant i got fired for no reason...perfectly legal in the state of ks cuz i was working there less than a yr...well after i got fired i called McDonald's (i had worked there before for a few years) and i asked if they needed anybody...and of course i was hired over the phone and asked to come in that night...same night i was fired from my last employer...well a couple of days later i realized that i would only be covered for 30 days after losing my job through their insurance so i called the insurance company to see if i could get my work plan changed over to just an individual plan and they said no and to call my employer to see if i was accepted for COBRA did that and they said yes i was and they would send out my papers within the week...papers never came so after 2 weeks i called back and they sent em "again" i finally got them after a month of not having my job there so i filled them out and mailed them back the next day and after another 2 weeks i still hadn't heard anything back from them or from the insurance company so i called them again and they said the lady in HR was out till the following Monday so i called back on the following Monday once again shes out till Monday...did this for 3 weeks in a row finally shes in but shes in a meeting told them i wanted her to call me back as soon as she was done cuz i was tired of not being able to talk to her so she called me back i asked her about the papers i had mailed in the month before she said she never received them and i told her i had the receipt for mailing them back to her and she said that seems how she had been out of the office that she would check to see if someone else had picked them up and didn't tell her and she would get back to me the next day...okay the next day she called said that nobody had them told her she better look again cuz i mailed em back to her and she better call me back...well she didn't call back so the following Monday i called her back she said the papers had been lost but she found them and mailed the into the insurance company and explained to them that it was their fault that they were late and that i should hear back from the insurance company within the week...well never heard back from them so about 2 weeks later i called her back and told her i hadn't heard anything back and she said that i had sent them back to late and that i wasn't accepted so i called the insurance company immediately afterwards asking weather or not they had received the papers and they said that they had no records of ever receiving the papers from the employer and that the only thing i could do was call and ask them well i called the employer back and she told me that it was my fault for not sending them in on time and that all i had to do was call up there and get an individual plan..well i cant do that thats y i was accepted for cobra cuz i have a pre-existing problem....so after all of that i find out i don't have insurance and the hospital here in town is trying to sue me cuz apparently i haven't paid since December even though i have receipts since then and haven't been to the dr since then but my bill went from 375 to 457 within 2 weeks and i have no idea how and the hospital where i go to my obgyn at has sent me 3 bills all with diff amounts on them first it was 560 then it was 158 then it was 420 now they're saying that seems how i haven't made and effort to pay that they're gunna send my bill to a collection agency so on Monday when i go up there im gunna find out how much i actually owe them...the place where i have to get all my prenatal tests done (cuz the hospital doesn't have a lab) says i still owe them from my first set of tests so i had to call them cuz the check i sent them went through my bank acct....so they got that fixed but now i owe them again cuz the day they got it fixed my dr sent me over there again lol....the womens health center at the beginning of my pregnancy sent me an estimate of costs with insurance coverage averaged in and it came out to 2533 well now i don't have insurance so thats at least doubled if not tripled and i cant get help through the state...i already tried but seems how i live with my b/f and my b/f lives with his father we cant get any assistance because his dad makes to much...even though his dad only lets us live here rent free we pay for all of our own stuff and make our own meals and everything...o and my parents were down this weekend and came by the house and said that if we don't find our own place before the baby is born then they are going to make sure that the baby is taken away from us just because the outside of the house looks like crap...it only needs painted...the roof leaks in 2 spots but only in the back pantry area that we use for can storage (old pop cans that need to be taken to the recycling center) and one above the freezer...and only when it rains hard....my question...what will the baby be doing above the freezer and in the pantry...those are 2 place i don't even go...so we have to find a house within 8 weeks and pay off 4000 worth of bills all on $1100 a month...my b/f and i really want to move out of here but the only way for us to move out is to get help of some sort but the only way to get help is to move out...my mom wants us to move up to Wisconsin but there is a reason i moved away from there and she keeps saying that she and my step-dad will pay for everything...okay thats nice of them and all but shes controlling over me i don't want to live up there when i have a child cuz i know she will try to control how i raise the baby and i really don't want that...plus my b/f has sleep insomnia and she doesn't seem to understand what that means and i try to explain to her that when he is tired or whatever he tries to go to sleep but he cant and any medication he has taken for it he has had the worst possible side effects from them and even his family doesn't seem to understand y he gets up so late in the day so when i try to defend him i just get yelled at and told i make up to many excuses so i know that if we were to go up there she would do the same thing she did last time we were there and that was that if he was still sleeping at 9 o'clock in the morning she would pound on the door violently and loud until he got up then i would have to deal with a grouchy b/f the whole day because of her and she would tell him that he needed to grow up and stop being so grouchy so i know if we go up there i'm going to regret it...i told her we will come up to visit in November through Thanksgiving but we are coming back here by the first of December so i can go back to work and have a check for Christmas but when i tell her that she just seems to think i'm making up excuses and that I only think about myself and not the welfare of the child...well if i don't work how am i going to be able to take care of the baby...im already going to be out of work for 2 months...i think when i come back im going to try to find a second job...id try to find one now but i know nobody will hire me when im leaving for 2 months...but i guess the least i can do is try lol...well i guess my book of complaints is long enough and has enough chapters to it lol...if u read it this far im surprised lol...love u all and ttyl
lots of love
tasha
3 Comments on blah blah blah
amycakes - Thursday, 4 Sep
Anything having to do with insurance always sucks. I lost my job and my insurance in June but when I did have it I was constantly getting bills from the hospital that should have already been paid by my insurance company. I guess I am really lucky that the state of NY is giving me insurance for free now. They even give me my vitamins and stuff for free at the doctors office because I'm on that program, but if they went by my boyfriends income too I wouldn't be eligible for it. I live with him but they didn't even ask for his income. I don't qualify for wic or anything though because of his income. My parents tried to make me move back to Pennsylvania when they found out I was pregnant, actually they still harp on it, you just have to do what you feel is right. I totally understand them worrying about me with no family here and wanting to be near their first grandchild when he comes but I can't live my life to make them happy. Stay strong and good luck!
Bangel - Sunday, 24 Aug
If you don't have any other problems besides pregnancy...insurance doesn't save you all that much anyway (as long as everything goes smoothly with pregnancy and birth). I have COBRA and it just went up to $385 a month!! And I still have to pay 20% of the labor/delivery/doctor stuff in the end.
Can't imagine being stuck living with family. I'd be going insane if I were you!! lol.
lisac - Sunday, 24 Aug
Wow Natasha i feel so bad for you I kept having problems with my insurance company apparently I was accepted on May this year and then i kept having problems with them sending me an insurance card so i had to go up to Texas health services and 2 times they didnt have my right address and one other time they didnt have my right social security number but i know the day i went to the Texas health services office there was another Lisa Campbell who had an appointment with them the same time as me so i made sure they had my right social security number i hate when things get so confusing I feel so bad for you about Andrews Dad My stepdad is soooooooooo annoying I cant stand him anymore I know i dont want to hurt my mom but i believe i will be happier in Iowa and i keep trying to convince my mom to come back but she thinks that she will be very upset if she see's my dad because my dad is dating one of my moms ex bestfriends and she is also living with him i wouldnt blame my mom but i wouldnt give a crap about my ex i lived in the same town as my ex chris i just never bothered to try and get ahold of him or go anywhere near where he goes but anyway
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