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 | Age: 20 Country: US Province/region: Kansas City: Hays Partner: My Love Children: Pregnant: Yes Due date: 19 Oct ,2008 Occupation: McDonald's :( |
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okay....my pregnancy is going great we're having a healthy baby girl and were going to name her Amelia Elizabeth im not married but we plan on it some day this pregnancy was unplanned but were happy about it too...shes gonna be a big baby like her daddy (he was 8 or 9 lbs) she is already measuring 6 oz larger than average lol...ive been content where im at but i live with my b/f and his father...because im not living with my parents or any of my family i can get help through the state but my b/f cant well with him being the father he has to be on the papers and because hes under 22 his father has to be on the papers too well in that case we have to go off of his father's income to determine if we can get help or not well his dad makes to much money so we cant get any help what so ever until we have a place of our own... so i called up to the HUD housing cuz i put in an app there like 5 months ago well turns out they get rid of them after 6 months or somewhere close to that so when apts became available i never got a phone call from them so i re-applied yesterday and got a call today that i was accepted so i was really happy about that...well a couple of days ago my mom asked if my b/f and i could go up to wis for a couple of months so she could travel with my step-dad (he does construction work) and i told her i would talk it over with andy (my b/f...baby's daddy) well turns out she wants us to come up there in sept and oct and part of nov...my b/f hasn't learned how to drive yet cuz we dont have the money or time to get him into classes right now and i cant teach him cuz im not 21 and his sis is to self oriented to do it and his dad is always at work so really we have no one to teach him unless we enroll him in a driver's ed class well in order to do that we have to travel an hr away and pay 300 dollars so we dont have the money for it and the only person that would be with us is my older brother...he cant drive cuz the dmv wont provide anyone to read the questions to him (hes mentally disabled and can only read a 3rd grade level but he comprehends at a college level) well that only leaves me to be able to drive and we dont know anybody up there in wis either so i planned on telling my mother that we cant go up there at that time but maybe another time cuz if i go into labor with nobody around that can drive wht am i supposed to do cuz we wont have the money for an ambulance ride so id prob end up having the baby right there in the house with no medical care well my mom said that if we go up tehre then we can just live there and they will take care of all the bills but my thought was thats not the point if they pay for everything or not im still not going to have anybody there to take me to the hospital when i go into labor at least here i have someone that can so she turns it all around and makes me look like the bad person in the situation and says that shes trying to help us get on our feet well how are we going to get on our feet if she is going to pay for everything and not make us get a job and stick us out in the middle of the country with no transportation isnt that just putting us in a worse situation than what were already in? here i have a job im getting ready to have a house i have a boyfriend that is happy right here i have friends and family and if not that i have ppl that i know here and i can get help from the state after i move out of my b/f's dad's house just as everything is turning around for the better my mom comes along and crushes all of my hopes and says that i dont even care anymore....then she tried the whole pitty thing too i know this sounds kind of mean and all but last year she had a battle with cancer and (obviousely) she won that battle...well she did the whole well i have cancer and you dont know how much longer im gunna be around and if you do then please tell me and my doctors cuz we sure would all like to know... what am i supposed to say to that well ur in the all clear according to the drs and u only need to go back every 6 months for the first 2 years and then once a year up until the 7 yr mark then your considered all clear for it...i dunno wht im supposed to say to stuff like that ive gotten to the point that i dont even answer the phone or read her emails ne more cuz i know theyre all just gunna make me feel worse she made me so mad today that i actually punched the door frame (which really hurts i dont recommend it lol) and i fractured mu knuckle and and bruised 2 of my fingers i just dunno wht im supposed to say to her nemore cuz i cant keep her away from the only grandchild she has and im prob the only child she has that will ever have any children...she doesn't think that i care about her but wht she doesn't understand is that i do care about here but im trying to make a life for myself right now and get on my own 2 feet i wouldn't mind going up there at a different time like after i have the baby so i know that i will be able to drive somewhere if something does happen but i cant do it at that point in time but she just wont listen to me. shes that kind of person that sees everything the way she wants to see it and thats the only possible solution to anything and she is always 100% right!!!!! im sorry for all the rambling on lol...im just really frustrated right now and stressing out she is the only thing that causes stress to me at this point....but any ways thats kinda whats going on with me right now...its hard to be upset and excited at the same time lol...hope everyone is having a happy and healthy pregnancy....take care
lots of love
tasha
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Bangel - Thursday, 19 Jun
They sure make it a pain in the butt to get financial help!
Feel your pain with the mother guilt trips! My mother is terrible with that too. I screen her calls these days; only pick up her phone calls maybe twice a month because she just upsets me. My mom still uses my dad, who died almost 8 years ago, for her guilt trips. I could go on and on about my mom.
Moving to a new state when you're 8-9 months pregnant seems silly! Then after you have the baby, you and your b/f would be all alone with a newborn! Can't see how that would get you on your feet; seems like going backwards to me too. Good luck with the housing and your mom!!
LisaC - Wednesday, 18 Jun
Natasha I know your Mom is trying to help you out and everything i know while you were in Iowa you stayed with your mom as well if u are where are i would stay there too because you are pregnant and we wont be able to drive if we are in labor your mom should think about you and your baby and you are seattled in and its not fair she is stressing you out you dont need the stress at this time because of your child anyway i am here for you and if you need to talk let me know i am always a phone call away or if you would like me to call you so u can talk let me know because i have free unlimted log distance anyway take care hon i am thinking about you Hugs Lisa
| 18-6-2008 - grrrrrr |  My mood while writing this blog:irate...gloomy...sad....mixed emotions...i dunno |
okay....my pregnancy is going great we're having a healthy baby girl and were going to name her Amelia Elizabeth im not married but we plan on it some day this pregnancy was unplanned but were happy about it too...shes gonna be a big baby like her daddy (he was 8 or 9 lbs) she is already measuring 6 oz larger than average lol...ive been content where im at but i live with my b/f and his father...because im not living with my parents or any of my family i can get help through the state but my b/f cant well with him being the father he has to be on the papers and because hes under 22 his father has to be on the papers too well in that case we have to go off of his father's income to determine if we can get help or not well his dad makes to much money so we cant get any help what so ever until we have a place of our own... so i called up to the HUD housing cuz i put in an app there like 5 months ago well turns out they get rid of them after 6 months or somewhere close to that so when apts became available i never got a phone call from them so i re-applied yesterday and got a call today that i was accepted so i was really happy about that...well a couple of days ago my mom asked if my b/f and i could go up to wis for a couple of months so she could travel with my step-dad (he does construction work) and i told her i would talk it over with andy (my b/f...baby's daddy) well turns out she wants us to come up there in sept and oct and part of nov...my b/f hasn't learned how to drive yet cuz we dont have the money or time to get him into classes right now and i cant teach him cuz im not 21 and his sis is to self oriented to do it and his dad is always at work so really we have no one to teach him unless we enroll him in a driver's ed class well in order to do that we have to travel an hr away and pay 300 dollars so we dont have the money for it and the only person that would be with us is my older brother...he cant drive cuz the dmv wont provide anyone to read the questions to him (hes mentally disabled and can only read a 3rd grade level but he comprehends at a college level) well that only leaves me to be able to drive and we dont know anybody up there in wis either so i planned on telling my mother that we cant go up there at that time but maybe another time cuz if i go into labor with nobody around that can drive wht am i supposed to do cuz we wont have the money for an ambulance ride so id prob end up having the baby right there in the house with no medical care well my mom said that if we go up tehre then we can just live there and they will take care of all the bills but my thought was thats not the point if they pay for everything or not im still not going to have anybody there to take me to the hospital when i go into labor at least here i have someone that can so she turns it all around and makes me look like the bad person in the situation and says that shes trying to help us get on our feet well how are we going to get on our feet if she is going to pay for everything and not make us get a job and stick us out in the middle of the country with no transportation isnt that just putting us in a worse situation than what were already in? here i have a job im getting ready to have a house i have a boyfriend that is happy right here i have friends and family and if not that i have ppl that i know here and i can get help from the state after i move out of my b/f's dad's house just as everything is turning around for the better my mom comes along and crushes all of my hopes and says that i dont even care anymore....then she tried the whole pitty thing too i know this sounds kind of mean and all but last year she had a battle with cancer and (obviousely) she won that battle...well she did the whole well i have cancer and you dont know how much longer im gunna be around and if you do then please tell me and my doctors cuz we sure would all like to know... what am i supposed to say to that well ur in the all clear according to the drs and u only need to go back every 6 months for the first 2 years and then once a year up until the 7 yr mark then your considered all clear for it...i dunno wht im supposed to say to stuff like that ive gotten to the point that i dont even answer the phone or read her emails ne more cuz i know theyre all just gunna make me feel worse she made me so mad today that i actually punched the door frame (which really hurts i dont recommend it lol) and i fractured mu knuckle and and bruised 2 of my fingers i just dunno wht im supposed to say to her nemore cuz i cant keep her away from the only grandchild she has and im prob the only child she has that will ever have any children...she doesn't think that i care about her but wht she doesn't understand is that i do care about here but im trying to make a life for myself right now and get on my own 2 feet i wouldn't mind going up there at a different time like after i have the baby so i know that i will be able to drive somewhere if something does happen but i cant do it at that point in time but she just wont listen to me. shes that kind of person that sees everything the way she wants to see it and thats the only possible solution to anything and she is always 100% right!!!!! im sorry for all the rambling on lol...im just really frustrated right now and stressing out she is the only thing that causes stress to me at this point....but any ways thats kinda whats going on with me right now...its hard to be upset and excited at the same time lol...hope everyone is having a happy and healthy pregnancy....take care
lots of love
tasha
2 Comments on grrrrrr
Bangel - Thursday, 19 Jun
They sure make it a pain in the butt to get financial help!
Feel your pain with the mother guilt trips! My mother is terrible with that too. I screen her calls these days; only pick up her phone calls maybe twice a month because she just upsets me. My mom still uses my dad, who died almost 8 years ago, for her guilt trips. I could go on and on about my mom.
Moving to a new state when you're 8-9 months pregnant seems silly! Then after you have the baby, you and your b/f would be all alone with a newborn! Can't see how that would get you on your feet; seems like going backwards to me too. Good luck with the housing and your mom!!
LisaC - Wednesday, 18 Jun
Natasha I know your Mom is trying to help you out and everything i know while you were in Iowa you stayed with your mom as well if u are where are i would stay there too because you are pregnant and we wont be able to drive if we are in labor your mom should think about you and your baby and you are seattled in and its not fair she is stressing you out you dont need the stress at this time because of your child anyway i am here for you and if you need to talk let me know i am always a phone call away or if you would like me to call you so u can talk let me know because i have free unlimted log distance anyway take care hon i am thinking about you Hugs Lisa
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