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5 Comments on Stressed out
Britney8328 - Thursday, 31 Jul
i feel the same way about if im going to be a good mom or not, it scares me so bad to think i might be a "bad" mom or i will never be able to be alone and that me and my bf are going to have to share each other to someone else( which sounds horrible when i put it into words LOL) MOney is a completely different subject eventhough we both work its like financially we will never be set, bills just keep rolling in and i cant handle or even keep track of them anymor. Your not alone though i think everyone (unless really made of money) has these same problems.
sariebarie007 - Wednesday, 30 Jul
I feel the exact same way you do about everything! I feel your pain. Im so excited to have my little girl, but the money is really stressing me out! I sometimes feel like I wont financially be ready for her. Im scared, it makes me cry.I just started getting stretch marks too and I feel like crap. Its like they get worse everyday! Just hang in there!! I know what you are going thru and I know how tough it is. Im sure everything will work out for you :-)
tmarie - Wednesday, 30 Jul
Hey Girl!! Trust me, it's totally normal for you to feel this way... at least i think it is- because i have DEFINITELY had a few of these kind of moments, where i just cried and was so down and scared... not because of her, because like you said, i too and totally in love with my little girl-- but just knowing that things are going to dramatically chage in 3 months, and that we will now be responsible for another human being, it is really scary!! And i understand all the money concerns, i'm right there with you!! So just know, you arent alone!! Let me know if you need to talk, i can totally relate... oh and the stretch marks.. yeah mine are getting me a little down too... but its ok-- its all for our babies :)
tsj824 - Wednesday, 30 Jul
I had all the feelings you are having. It's normal. But I promise you one thing. After you have your baby you will forget about all the bad things. People told me this throughout my pregnancy just as I've told you and I would say to them that there is no way in H_LL I would forget. Well my son is 2 months old now and it's really hard to remember how totally miserable and scared I was in the end. It's really weird. That 1st cry takes it all away. Good luck and try not to worry to much. You will be a good mother and everything works itself out. :)
gwendolen - Wednesday, 30 Jul
girl, i know what you mean. its like i say "pregnancy is a beautiful thing but it doesnt make you feel beautiful". im super terrified about having a baby but you know the pain will be well worth it.
gosh and money...i swear you have to be a millionaire to make it now a days!
hang in there girl
| 30-7-2008 - Stressed out |  My mood while writing this blog:Ok |
Hello Ladies....
Is anyone else having fears of having a baby? I mean our lives will change dramatically. (Atleast for the first time moms) I love my lil one will all my heart already, but I am just scared. Anyone else feels like this?
Also, started to get those strechmarks. Thats's depressing me. I will never look like I did before being pregnant. I feel like a big blob....so unattractive and I still have 3 months left. God, I can't imagine. My friend wasn't kidding about this. I thought she was crazy and over stressing the whole situation , but now that I am in her position. I don't that at all. I know exactly how she felt. Anyone else feeling like this?
And...money is stressing me out as well. Ugghh.
5 Comments on Stressed out
Britney8328 - Thursday, 31 Jul
i feel the same way about if im going to be a good mom or not, it scares me so bad to think i might be a "bad" mom or i will never be able to be alone and that me and my bf are going to have to share each other to someone else( which sounds horrible when i put it into words LOL) MOney is a completely different subject eventhough we both work its like financially we will never be set, bills just keep rolling in and i cant handle or even keep track of them anymor. Your not alone though i think everyone (unless really made of money) has these same problems.
sariebarie007 - Wednesday, 30 Jul
I feel the exact same way you do about everything! I feel your pain. Im so excited to have my little girl, but the money is really stressing me out! I sometimes feel like I wont financially be ready for her. Im scared, it makes me cry.I just started getting stretch marks too and I feel like crap. Its like they get worse everyday! Just hang in there!! I know what you are going thru and I know how tough it is. Im sure everything will work out for you :-)
tmarie - Wednesday, 30 Jul
Hey Girl!! Trust me, it's totally normal for you to feel this way... at least i think it is- because i have DEFINITELY had a few of these kind of moments, where i just cried and was so down and scared... not because of her, because like you said, i too and totally in love with my little girl-- but just knowing that things are going to dramatically chage in 3 months, and that we will now be responsible for another human being, it is really scary!! And i understand all the money concerns, i'm right there with you!! So just know, you arent alone!! Let me know if you need to talk, i can totally relate... oh and the stretch marks.. yeah mine are getting me a little down too... but its ok-- its all for our babies :)
tsj824 - Wednesday, 30 Jul
I had all the feelings you are having. It's normal. But I promise you one thing. After you have your baby you will forget about all the bad things. People told me this throughout my pregnancy just as I've told you and I would say to them that there is no way in H_LL I would forget. Well my son is 2 months old now and it's really hard to remember how totally miserable and scared I was in the end. It's really weird. That 1st cry takes it all away. Good luck and try not to worry to much. You will be a good mother and everything works itself out. :)
gwendolen - Wednesday, 30 Jul
girl, i know what you mean. its like i say "pregnancy is a beautiful thing but it doesnt make you feel beautiful". im super terrified about having a baby but you know the pain will be well worth it.
gosh and money...i swear you have to be a millionaire to make it now a days!
hang in there girl
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