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28-3-2009 - tell me if this sounds rediculous

My mood while writing this blog: GRRRR

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Ok so i am writing another blog because i didnt want for you ladies to have to read so much in one sitting. Anyways.... I am having a baby shower and i called my ex's mom to tell her that my sis ordered 60 invitations and to call me when she had a head count. ( she has like 7 sisters huge fam lol) And she said " oh tell your sister not to worry about ordering MY invitations" and i waslike what?? but then she changed the subject and it just didnt click i guess.... then i ran into his aunt at the pharmacy because i had bronchitis and had to pick up and antibiotic and she told me that she made a diper cake but she didnt know what babyshower marcy(his mom) was bringin it to.... and then it clicked and i was like what in the hell is going on. So i called m ex and was like is your mom having a baby shower? and he was like ya for me! Have you ever heard such a thing... but get this... Im invited to it... are you shitting me? Im not really mad about her throwing one but she never mentioned anything to me about it.. i told her many times that my mom wanted to get together with her to plan the baby shower and shes like oh yea nooooo problem ect. All ok with it. My big thing was that just because e are not together i would really like to not have things seperated through out her whole life even after all the messed up shit he has done to me. i dnt want my daughter pulled in 2 directions and his mother knows how i feel about seperating everything and she is already doing it. She drives me crazy. She is already telling me what to do and what not to do with my baby... she told her sister on the mon befor we found out what the baby's sex was...she goes... WE get to find out what WE are having on wed. and her sis looked at her and goes ummmm no they get to find out what They are having and she goes... i said WE duh. Are you kidding me.. she has always wanted a girl and now that she found out shes like its gonna be like a lil girl i never had... Umm NO I DONT THINK SO!!!!! she is MY daughter!!!!! lets make that clear right now. She is stepping over every boundry and my baby isnt even here yet. Im just so MAD.... am i being stupid for being upset? i could understand if i didnt tell her that it bothers me but I DID!!! so its not like she is unaware. HELP!!!!

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1 Comments on tell me if this sounds rediculous


KittenAsACat - Sunday, 29 Mar
no no, not stupid at all. MIL or ex MIL's are VERY frustrating most of the time! and if you've got one like this, from hell lol, its very maddening! ughhh.....i know how you feel my MIL is not quite a sweet little peach either >.<