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 | Age: 29 Country: UK Province/region: - City: - Partner: Husband, Dave Children: Yes, 2 Pregnant: Yes Due date: 05 Oct ,2008 Occupation: childminder |
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6 Comments on FAMILY OR NOT?
debra haynes - Tuesday, 29 Apr
oh love i'm so sorry to see what you are going through and this could be alot of stress on your pregnancy,i'm going to ask god to give you strength and to pray for them,family should not treat you like that and this is the time everyone should stick together,just go the funeral and just tell to kiss you a** and just leave them alone,you have to give respect to get respect,just hang in there and i will keep you in my prayer,big hugs and kisses,ttyl.
dannii - Monday, 28 Apr
wtf!!! y r u an embarrasment??? i dnt unerstand at all. you dnt need this hun go to the funeral and then have nothing else to do with them!! xxx
Nina-first-time-mummy - Saturday, 26 Apr
oh sweety your family are being so mean to you and its not on!
STOP thinking you have done somthing wrong coz you havent your lovely its them that are being unreasonable and unfair maybe you should ask your mum why they are treating you like this and if its a poor excuse she gives you then if i was you is stop ringing or sending them crds and stuff and let them do the running after you!
You really dont need this and how crule to invite your chilldren but not let their mother join them if that was me i would say to them my children and i are a pakage you carnt have 1 without the other!
please take care and ignor their stupid behavior!
lots of hugs nina xxx
LilMrsK - Friday, 25 Apr
Well that's plain wrong of your family to do to you. I'm really sorry they are treating you this way. I know the feeling and it certainly is not a nice one :( Thinking of you as usual and hang in there hun. Lots of love n gentle hugs from me to you.
*Baby-Mine* - Thursday, 24 Apr
i'm so sorry you have to deal with their ignorance at such a difficult time. you are totally right, and its very unfair for them to treat you that way. if i were you, i'd stay at the B&B. its none of their business what you do, with your own money. you're going there for your NAN not THEM!! do what you need to do and be done with it. i wouldnt say write them off cuz they ARE your family, but dont go out of your way to put forth any effort to them if they are not gonna have common courtesy and decency for YOU? you have to give respect to get it back!
ps. you are not wrong about waiting to tell your daughter. it would've just ruined her trip. its best to let her have fun while she can. it wouldnt have done any good, but stressed her and you out more.
good luck tomorrow. just be strong.<3
mommauv4 - Thursday, 24 Apr
Good Grief! I don't even know what to say! I can't imagine a family being so.... nasty. Mine can be messed up at times but they are still nice people who care about each other. Big Hugs!!!
| 24-4-2008 - FAMILY OR NOT? |  My mood while writing this blog:Ok |
I need to know if this is me being sensative or if I am right as I sure as hell am going blinking crazy right now and seriously thinking about a holiday in a padded cell!
This continues from my blog No4 and last night I had the biggest upset from my family. On Monday after my Nan had died on the Sat my parents told me that my family in Wales had no room for me to sleep at their house, so I thought (oh yeah, right!) fine ok. My Uncle and Aunt might be going up so they said if they are they will take me and my brother to the funeral and home the same day, which I do not mind. Turns out they are not going. Wednesday night I was told this. I was then told that my brother was staying over my Uncle and aunts house as he is now a bearer and there is no room for me again. I am 4 months pregnant and driving 3-4 hours and have a funeral then drive 3-4 hours home in 1 day is just too much for anyone to take on. So I suggested that I stay in a B&B overnight and join my family in the morning of Friday. i was told I am not allowed to stay in the village of my Uncle as I will bring him embarrasment after my Dad telling me it is not my mum who died and I should just fit into the background and keep my head down and maybe it is best i do not go and that it is not going to be a party!! I am so angry right now and why me why always me being left out my brother is the golden boy and none of my mum's side of the family have ever really liked me and I never got invited down but my kids have just not with me, why??? Can someone tell me why??? Is it me???? What have I done to deserve this??? I feel that after the funeral I feel like telling my parents and my mum's side to get lost I can live my life without them. Am I being right or am I wrong.
This continues from my blog No4 and last night I had the biggest upset from my family. On Monday after my Nan had died on the Sat my parents told me that my family in Wales had no room for me to sleep at their house, so I thought (oh yeah, right!) fine ok. My Uncle and Aunt might be going up so they said if they are they will take me and my brother to the funeral and home the same day, which I do not mind. Turns out they are not going. Wednesday night I was told this. I was then told that my brother was staying over my Uncle and aunts house as he is now a bearer and there is no room for me again. I am 4 months pregnant and driving 3-4 hours and have a funeral then drive 3-4 hours home in 1 day is just too much for anyone to take on. So I suggested that I stay in a B&B overnight and join my family in the morning of Friday. i was told I am not allowed to stay in the village of my Uncle as I will bring him embarrasment after my Dad telling me it is not my mum who died and I should just fit into the background and keep my head down and maybe it is best i do not go and that it is not going to be a party!! I am so angry right now and why me why always me being left out my brother is the golden boy and none of my mum's side of the family have ever really liked me and I never got invited down but my kids have just not with me, why??? Can someone tell me why??? Is it me???? What have I done to deserve this??? I feel that after the funeral I feel like telling my parents and my mum's side to get lost I can live my life without them. Am I being right or am I wrong.
6 Comments on FAMILY OR NOT?
debra haynes - Tuesday, 29 Apr
oh love i'm so sorry to see what you are going through and this could be alot of stress on your pregnancy,i'm going to ask god to give you strength and to pray for them,family should not treat you like that and this is the time everyone should stick together,just go the funeral and just tell to kiss you a** and just leave them alone,you have to give respect to get respect,just hang in there and i will keep you in my prayer,big hugs and kisses,ttyl.
dannii - Monday, 28 Apr
wtf!!! y r u an embarrasment??? i dnt unerstand at all. you dnt need this hun go to the funeral and then have nothing else to do with them!! xxx
Nina-first-time-mummy - Saturday, 26 Apr
oh sweety your family are being so mean to you and its not on!
STOP thinking you have done somthing wrong coz you havent your lovely its them that are being unreasonable and unfair maybe you should ask your mum why they are treating you like this and if its a poor excuse she gives you then if i was you is stop ringing or sending them crds and stuff and let them do the running after you!
You really dont need this and how crule to invite your chilldren but not let their mother join them if that was me i would say to them my children and i are a pakage you carnt have 1 without the other!
please take care and ignor their stupid behavior!
lots of hugs nina xxx
LilMrsK - Friday, 25 Apr
Well that's plain wrong of your family to do to you. I'm really sorry they are treating you this way. I know the feeling and it certainly is not a nice one :( Thinking of you as usual and hang in there hun. Lots of love n gentle hugs from me to you.
*Baby-Mine* - Thursday, 24 Apr
i'm so sorry you have to deal with their ignorance at such a difficult time. you are totally right, and its very unfair for them to treat you that way. if i were you, i'd stay at the B&B. its none of their business what you do, with your own money. you're going there for your NAN not THEM!! do what you need to do and be done with it. i wouldnt say write them off cuz they ARE your family, but dont go out of your way to put forth any effort to them if they are not gonna have common courtesy and decency for YOU? you have to give respect to get it back!
ps. you are not wrong about waiting to tell your daughter. it would've just ruined her trip. its best to let her have fun while she can. it wouldnt have done any good, but stressed her and you out more.
good luck tomorrow. just be strong.<3
mommauv4 - Thursday, 24 Apr
Good Grief! I don't even know what to say! I can't imagine a family being so.... nasty. Mine can be messed up at times but they are still nice people who care about each other. Big Hugs!!!
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