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22-10-2009 - Soo Today at work...

My mood while writing this blog: Ok

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SOoo at work today I worked with Balinda who is a lesbian. She was telling me about her daughter (not biological but her druggy ex gfs baby she has raised since she was 4 wks alone). Balinda tells me she is getting custody of the girl because her mom is 16 on drugs and neglect the lil girl who is 2 yrs old.. I think that is awesome in many ways. So at work Balindas ex showed up with the lil girl because she is temporarily watching the girl because of the social workers wanting it with her strung out druggy mother... An I noticed Balindas ex gf who is on drugs is pregnant with her 2 kid at 16 yrs old a girl who can't raise her own daughter who she is losing custody of and chooses to screw her life up over drugs. So I was talking to Balindas ex and she said she was 6 months and Balinda said no she's 8 and so I asked her how many weeks she was she didn't know.. The girl was so strung out she didn't know how far along she was... Shes this tiny little girl too and her stomachs only a little bit bigger then mine. and she was telling me she was alot bigger with her first daughter at 6 months. So the girl left so I talked to balinda asking her if she knew anything and Balinda told me she went to the doctor 2 months ago when she was 6 months and they told her the baby was not growing right and this girl was very small to be 6 months like she said.. So the girl hasn't come back to the doctor or anything she doesn't take her vitamins shes doing drugs and she just plans on giving this baby up for adoption... Balenda even told me her stomach stopped growing for 2 months and she is neglecting herself and that baby. It disturbs me so much.. That baby is probably dead and the girl is so fucked up on drugs she doesn't care.. I feel so sorry for that girl because she feels she is not worth anything to the point she has to kill herself and the baby inside her. I am disturbed because that baby is probably doing real bad and is going to be born stillborn or high on drugs and having issues for the rests of its life because the girl doesn't understand what she is doing is wrong, and feels she has to get high to fullfill her self.....

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3 Comments on Soo Today at work...


Bella-aye - Friday, 23 Oct
i'm still trying to wrap my brain around the issue that this poor girl was pregnant at 14 and your coworker was with her.. how old is she? and for this girl to be 16 on baby #2 and strung out i can't hate her i feel sorry for her because she is still a child in my eyes and somewhere someone failed to guide and love her smh :0|

mals313 - Friday, 23 Oct
thats so fucked up. thats all i can say......

ckingland - Thursday, 22 Oct
people like that make me so upset.. it's one thing to not give a rip what happens to you but when you get pregnant it isn't about you anymore, and i don't care how old you are. you need to get your shit together and take care of yourself for that baby.. i wish there was a way you could take away the baby from women like that and give it to someone who's deserving!! :(