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| 31-7-2008 - After the miscarriage |
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I had a miscarriage the 22nd July, im upset and i want to know why it happened again as it was my 2nd one and im still childless, me and my husband are taking a few years off baby making there is only so much pain and grief you can go through at one time, He wants to get out the army and us make a fresh start somewhere else before we try again which is what we both think would be the best option, Doctors refuse to do tests on me or my husband because i have only had 2 miscarriages they said to wait to see if i have a 3rd i cant go through the pain of losing anothe baby just so they can do some tests on us! It makes me so angry, but we are looking forward to the future and spending some time together when he gets back from iraq in december. Hopefully my time will come and i will get the chance to be a mum.
Thanks everyone for your kind messages of support
5 Comments on After the miscarriageSourScorpio -
Tuesday, 7 Apr So sorry for your loss. I can't imagine the pain of loosing a child let alone two. I wish you all the luck in the world for this pregnancy :) xxx -newnaam -
Friday, 1 Aug I am so so sorry. My heart goes out to you and your husband at this very difficult time. I know it seems like a massive mountain to climb but things will get better, just give yourself time to grieve. Take care and please remember I am here if you want to talk. All the best for your fresh start, Rach x Jamers27 -
Thursday, 31 Jul I am so sorry for your loss. I can't believe that doctors won't do anything unless you have had 3 miscarriages. That is just rediculous and cruel. Well I hope you and your husband have a wonderful fresh start and lots of babies in the future. Much Love! *Mommy*to*a*Miracle* -
Thursday, 31 Jul im glad to hear that you are doing ok. u are in my thoughts! i hate the fact that they wont do testing until 3 m/c too. its so upsetting to have to lose children in order to find out why. so pointless. i wish u the best in the future and u will def be a mom some day! with all this technology and modern science u'll prob have 10! :o) julianna -
Thursday, 31 Jul Oh sweetie, I am sorry for your loss. I, too, know the pain of multiple miscarriages. I actually had several of them before there was any testing suggested. Just when I was going to go to the doc for fertility testing & treatment I got pregnant again...this time with twins. i lost one of the twins, but I have a beautiful 1 year old son now. Iknow you don't want to hear that your time will come so all I will say right now is best of luck in everything you are doing! I hope that you & your hubby find your place to start anew & that you have a ahppy life with him!