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22-1-2009 - CD-11.......DH

My mood while writing this blog: irritated

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Well, this morning DH decides to wake me up at 3am! Yes, to BD.....I didn't say anything to him, but in my head i was yelling! : But i need to temp in 2 hours!GRRRRRRRRR........And TMI alert: DH hasn't been able to "let the soldiers out" in a week.......we can BD forever, but nothing is "being released".....I asked him in a bi&&hy tone, what the heck are you taking that is making this not happen?? I said "did you take that Zoloft??" he said "no, that was last week".......cause he my friend give him a couple the other day, for him to take during anxiety moments *DH is stressed right now with work*.....Im sure that is what his problem is, but im not used to it, he's never had this problem before......So he was all pouty this morning at 5am, before he left for work, asking me if I would not get mad if he wakes me to BD. I calmly explained to him about my BBT and how todays temp was way higher than yesterdays cause he woke me up early, and he said "I don't understand why you need that BBT anyways" and "why can't we just get pregnant like everyone else?" I said "we have tried to do it like everyone else for like almost 5 months almost and it's not happening"......Grrrrrr......I just want to BD early in the evening and then get to sleep without being woken up before time to temp!

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4 Comments on CD-11.......DH


**MOLAR**SURVIVOR!! - Friday, 23 Jan
personally to BD would be more important then temp. You can take your temp every morning but that aint gonna put the bean in there! If your hubby is waking you, no matter the time, I would jump all over the opportunity because he is in the mood and that might help with acheiving the end result more so then if you were to try to BD at a certain time of the day on a schedule. Goodluck and dont stress with the bbt to much. I took mine for 7 months and nothing happen. The month I conceived I took my temp sporatically, about a total of 6 times in the first 2 weeks and once I noticed ovualtion had occured during the last couple days (checked my cervix also) I stopped temping during the 2ww and we ended up pregnant. The month I thought I had no chance! I know easier said then done but I was adamant about the bbt like you were and now I can honestly say and agree with the ones who say dont stress so much and it will happen. Take care and try not to put added pressure on your hubby because I was doing the same thing and got no where. Goodluck and hope it happens for you soon:)

Vicki--mommy of 4 - Thursday, 22 Jan
I'm sorry your having so many issues with trying to temp hun. I think I would have to strangle my dh if he woke me up at 3 and then couldn't finish. You have a lot more patience than me. Take care hun, I hope the deed gets finished soon.

RainbowRach - Thursday, 22 Jan
My DH would have been told to see to himself!! x x

trinity - Thursday, 22 Jan
On a positive note they say first morning sperm is the best to use. So once he is feeling better take you temp and then get busy.