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Clarissa Sex: girl Born: 24 May, 2005 Age: 6 years & 268 days Birthday in: 97 days Starsign: Gemini Development: See the 32 months page. Biggest achievement so far: Kindergarten ROCKS! I know how to tie my shoes, read level 1 books, and enjoy trying new things. |




My name is Clarissa Elizabeth
I have more updates and my birth story below. Feel free to check them out THANKS!
Clarissa is a kind, gentle, and loving 5 year old. She loves to sing, dance, watch football, and get pampered. Her favorite color is pink! She is truly an amazing girl. She is in our local E.D.G.E program (every day god experiences) , soccer, swimming, and has shown interest to take dance again. She attends Kindergarten at our local private school. SHE LOVES IT.
Clarissa loves to be called by her nickname Clare. She also has made so many friends in school. She loves learning and like I said before loves to try new things.















May 23-24 2005 The birth story
I was 10days over due and so I was enduced at 7:00a.m. We started Pit and I was walking all over the hospital. Things where moving but not very fast. I only dialated to 4cm when I started at 2 so I was thinking A-going home B-c section. They took me off the pit around 9:00p.m. and my contractions continued on there own so they gave me a pill to help me sleep. At 2:00am I woke up in the recliner and woke my husband up and said get the nurse he sat up in the hospital bed and pushed the nurse button. I had felt alot of pressure and thought my water may have broken. She came in and said I leacked a little but not enough to consider it a raptured membrain. I was a little sad but she gave me the option of checking how many cm I was and I just said I will wait 4hours or so when my docter comes in. So in the morning around 7:00am or so my docter came in to check me. His exact words where we have a problem. I thought oh my God the baby's breach. But no I was 7cm and thined out. I was going to have this baby very soon. My contractions were getting harder and I was very tired and still had a little wase to go. My parents showed up and I wanted to get in the tub. It was the best I felt no pain and was able to relax. Since I had no pain meds. After a few hours my nurse said we have to get her out now or she will have the baby in the bath so I got out and was 10cm. I pushed for 1 1/2 hours but couldn't tell I felt like my pushing wasn't doing anything so asked for the mirror and then pushed over and beyond what they expected. Not knowing the sex for sure. I was very sure it was a girl. When she came out Quentin didn't say its a girl he instead told me her name Clarissa Elizabeth Painter. With some complications she was in a stablet for 7hours before I could hold her to feed her. Her embilical cord broke and she was only inches away form dieing but didn't. My 9lb 10oz baby girl made it and was apcar scores of 8 and 9 with complications. I went home after a few days and we began our new chapter.
A picture of me and Kimberly
Clarissa has been in swim lessons and her last day was July 16th and she passed and is able to move on to level 1! She can front float and back float, front crawl, go underwater to get a ring, jump into the water with out help, and swim to the nearest ladder. On the last two days the teacher asked who wanted to go off the diving board in the 12 foot deep pool. Clarissa said ok and then went off several times. This was the smallest video that I could up load. Sorry for all the talking and moving around lol. This was her 2nd time going off the board on July 15, 2009!!! Please enjoy :)
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Aiden Sex: boy Born: 15 February, 2006 Age: 6 years & 1 days Birthday in: 364 days Starsign: Aquarius Development: See the 32 months page. Biggest achievement so far: -Aiden would be 4 on September 15, 2010 if he wouln`t have been born at 8 weeks. I often wonder what life would have been like if we didn`t loose our precious baby boy. |
Aiden Morgan



This is for baby Aiden Don�t let them say I wasn�t born, That something stopped my heart, I felt each tender squeeze you gave, I loved you from the start. Although my body you can�t hold, It doesn�t mean I�m gone, This world was worthy not of me, God chose that I move on, I know the pain that drowns your soul, What you are forced to face, You have my word, I�ll fill your arms, Someday we will embrace. You�ll hear that it was �meant to be, God doesn�t make mistakes� But that won�t soften your worst blow Or make your heart not ache. I�m watching over all you do, Another child you'll bear, Believe me when I say to you, That I am always there. There will come a time, I promise you, When you will hold my hand, Stroke my face and kiss my lips and Then you�ll understand. Although I never breathed your air, Or gazed into your eyes, That doesn�t mean I never �was�� An Angel Never Dies.

My name means little fire. On a bad day I keep you warm a gental reminder your not alone. You rang the bell to give me wings and when you think of me my heart sings. I'm always here just look around its just I was to be and angel and thats what I am now.
Aiden would have been a September of 2006 baby. He was born at 8 weeks and so he would be turning 4 in September of 2010.
In December of 2005 I found out that I was pregnant. I felt very sad and angry that I could have gotten pregnant with my oldest daughter only being 7 months at the time. In January I really started to think of what a true blessing he was and I couldn't wait till September to have him. I was due September 15, 2005. I always wanted a September baby and so I was getting more and more exited I even bought him his first sleeper and some blue binkies. I was 100% sure I was having a boy. I was right on with both girls so I was and still am sure we were having a boy. In February Quentin took his girls (Myself and Clarissa) out to eat. I laughed thinking that every Valentine's day that we had been married for I had been pregnant, oh and backing up again I took 10 test and only one came back positive. I knew somthing wrong but I didn't let it bother me. On February 15th I was 8 weeks to the DAY. I went to work and Quentin had the day off and was at home with Clarissa. I started having contractions I could hardly stand there and ring up customers. I pulled my manager aside and said I have to go home I'm pregnant and I think I'm loosing the baby. She sent someone to punch me out and asked if I could make it home I said YES I lived a few blocks away. I drove home in tears but MADE IT. A blizzard had closed roads to my hospital that was in a different town. We called my docter and he said DON'T RICK IT. Wait till March 3rd for your appointment. He told me to put my feet up and relax. Little Clarissa only 9 months old put her head on my tummy and at that moment I felt no pain. I then felt a gush and screamed. Quentin took Clarissa to her room and he helped me to the bathroom. I screamed again from the site of all the blood. I stood up and looked I cried for a long time then said a prayer and flushed. TO THIS DAY I wish I would have reached in there and see if there was anything I could put in a box and barry him. We had a small memorial service where I read his poem and explained the meaning of his name. We rang bells so he could come down and visit. I have a blue candle I light on his due date and the day he went to be with God. I have a small box with my first month pregnancy picture, the pregnancy test, my poem to him and a few other things. I love him and miss him everyday. Sorry if this was to graphic.
March 2010- As I sit here thinking I wonder what life would have been like if little Aiden would have been born. I know that my doctor said that his chances of making it after delivery would have been very slim. I wonder if this was God's way of saving me the pain of having a still born. I think that my little boy would be entering Pre School in the Fall. He would also be walking, talking, and most likely potty trained. My husband would have already taken him to his first hockey, basketball, and football game I can be sure of that. We would have more boy things around the house for sure. We would each have a special weekend (daddy/son and Mommy/daughter) that the boys would do boy things and the girls would do girly things. I always thought that would be fun. I'm happy with the way thing turned out and I'm truly blessed that God chose me to have Aiden (even if it was a short time) I'm so happy God chose me. I love my little fire and will always think and dream about him!


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Kimberly Sex: girl Born: 16 April, 2007 Age: 4 years & 306 days Birthday in: 59 days Starsign: Aries Development: See the 32 months page. Biggest achievement so far: Kimberly is ready for Pre School this Fall. She`s an outstanding swimmer. |



I have more updates, pictures and my birth story below. Feel free to check them out.
Kimmy is a happy go lucky 3 (almost 4) year old who LOVES to be creative, silly, and over all the prankster of the house. Her favorite color is purple and loves to play Barbies, watch Tinkerbell movies, and dress up. Kimberly will be attending Pre School THIS FALL!
Kimberly is a high energy little girl who love climbing on everything. her favorite day of the week is Sunday and I enjoy it most of all becasue of Sunday School. I love doing the actions to the songs and coloring. I'm getting alot better at coloring and painting. She also love swimming, running, playing with my friends, and Dancing. Kimmy enjoys getting her nails done and reading.














April 16, 2007 My birth story
On April 15th a Sunday my mom went in to get enduced a little early. It was at 8:00p.m. and the started mommy on cyrvadril and that worked to well so they flushed it out of her system. Still haveing some contractions they gave her a sleep pill and desided to start the pit in the morning. At 8 in the morning the docter came in and mom still was at 2cm witch is what she was when she came in so they started the pit and mom was getting ready for a long labor again. With things moving along but getting stuck at 3cm Mama Mary and Papa Ray showed up this day also being there wedding anniversary. So mommy broke down in tears a few times thinking she was going to be in labor for two days again. Around Super time they broke her water at 5cm. At that point in time Mama Mary and Papa Ray wanted to go get somthing to eat being told that I would be born in 3-4hours puting my delivery time at 10or11. After they left mommy couldn't find her center and broke down and asked for the drugs. The nurse left and came back I have to check you first. Mommy was now at 7cm and going fast. Daddy left the room to call his parents and call mommy's parents to get back. They where also trying to get ahold of our docter. The drug docter came and asked it Mommy was going to sit up or lay down. Mommy couldn't sit still and felt like she had to push and yes she started. The nurse was saying NO NO NO DON'T PUSH. but mommy couldn't help it. She was beyond 10cm and my head was coming out. Daddy came running in and the drug docter said ok lets do this and our nurse said Its to late for that now. Then daddy was saying STOP PUSHING MOLLY SHES CROWNING. Mommy was trying so hard not to but couldn't help it. The docter finally showed up asking why nothing was ready mommy's nurse basically said we didn't have time. With the bottom half of the bed still on and mommy laying flat on her back the Docter came running in yelling OH MOLLY DON'T PUSH HUNNY WE ARN'T READY YET. With that said He tuned and knocked the tray over with all the steral tools on it. Saying OH CRAP meaning OH SHIT the baby nurse got a new tray for him Ok Molly now push. So Mommy being a good pusher pushed hard my head was out and the cord was around my neck STOP STOP DON'T PUSH. Mama Mary came in and got the camera ready the nurse looked at her and said don't touch the tray. Mama Mary not knowing the funny story behind the tray looked confused and wondering what all was going on. Mommy didn't even have to push and I shot out, and placed right on mommy's chest. Daddy told her my name Kimberly Rosanne Painter and then Papa Ray came in. Dr.Melhause said are you cutting the cord to my daddy and He said no He is talking about Papa Ray (aka Mommy's dad who didn't get a chance to cut any of his kids cords and really wanted to but for different reasons he couldn't) He cut it and mommy held me for a little while giving me tones of kisses they weighed me and I was 7lb 10oz. 2lb smaller than my older sister. Thats my story and we couldn't be happier with it.


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