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Kayden Havier Sex: boy Born: 31 March, 2009 Age: 2 years & 321 days Birthday in: 44 days Starsign: Aries Development: See the 32 months page. Biggest achievement so far: -

Birth details

Original due date: April 2nd, 2009
Type of delivery: Vaginal (with pain relief)
Duration of labor: 12 hour and I think a little more...
Weight @ birth: 7.14 lb.
Length @ birth: 20 in.

Kayden-Havier`s birthstory

well as many of you know I was in L&D on saturday night because I had reagular contractions from 5-2 min. apart since the morning... so at night I didnt feel the baby move for hours and contrations were getting stronger so I called and they said to come in .. so I did and they checked me and said I was a finger tip to almost a one cm. dialated they monitor me for 2 hours and then they checked me again nothing had changed and they said I was high up so they send me home. I was like ok at least Iknow baby is doing ok.

so sunday I got this urge to clean the apartment.. dont think I did like a lot... I did what I could but I was up all day almost. at the end of the day I had some conttractions but nothing regular or really painfull but my legs were almost to pop ...jajajaja

Monday morning I had vowel movements all day like 20 times I had to go (sorry TMI) and having contractions but very very spaced out so I eat very light during the day but in the afternoon I was like so starving that I told my hubby please take me out to eat cuz I cant handle it anymore and I dont think I am goint to labor anytime soon... we went and had such a big meal little did I now right?we came home and had a pretty normal evening....

monday night I just couldnt sleep the contractions were strong but spaced outthey became more painful and more close with time so passed 1 in the morning I was like awake every 15 min. or so ... at 2 I was like what is the point on going back to bed if I am going to have to get out to go pee pee cuz of the contractions... I turned on the computer and sat down for a little while reading the pregnancy forum and stuff... then I just couldnt be sitting down I started to walk and thenn the contractions started to picking up in intensity and been closer together... so at 3 my hubby woke up and stayed with me but I send him right back to sleep cuz he had to go to work the next day early so I was like no thinking at that time still that I will be in the hospital the only thing going throught my mind is that the next day I had an apoinment to see my midwife at 8 am... I just had to make it for a couple of hours... ok I sat down again and started to send messages to my mother to let her know what was going on when I felt this horrible pain I screamed and said to my hubby to help me please... and he came running to me and I couldnt even to stand up from it in tears I said we are going to the hospital.. and if they have the nerves to send me home they will do it but they have to give me something for the pain... at 4 we were driving to he hospital and we arrived at 4:20 to the L&D they gave a room and checked me they said 4 cm dialated so I was like what?????? and I said what does that means? the nurse ssaid means your staying ur in labor... I was like what??? no I cant be I have an appoinment at 8... she was like sure you are in labor.. she hocked me to the monitors and gave me an iv... then she offered en epidural and was xplaning about pain and all those nice stuff they admitted me and so... so from 4 to 6:30 I was without any concern about the pain I was doing a brave face to it as I was not sure about epidural ... but then doc. checked me before he had to go at almost 7 am and no progress even tho I had all those pains .. it was frustrating..so it came the time when the nurses change and a new nurse came in and said listen to me the pains are gonna get way worse and we have a lot of c-sections going on today the anestesiologist may not be available later and what a luck I had 3 contractions while she was saying that and I was like sure I want it there is no way I am going to handle this pain even if it doesnt get worse... what I didnt new was that I was having up to 3 contractions in one big one... ahhh what a pain... so the anestesiologist came and did what he had to do (i cryed like a baby everytime he touched me was so painfull... and then he had to put 3 shots on me because I still felt every single touch so after finally he found a "right place" he was officially done... ok everything from there I was in heaven... so at almost 10 the doc came and checked me and said I was 8 cm dialated and I was like OMG so fast??? I thought that epidural made things slow down but it didnt happen to me ... so I a little after that I felt that my gown was a little wet from the place they taped the epidural cord thing and I called the nurse and she was like hold in there a min. I am calling the anestesiologist I said ok... when he came he said ahhh it has blood on the tube so the epidural cant pass... so it means that we have to do it again... so he said please could you please cooperate.. and I am like I will make my best I just dont want it to hurt so much... but for our surprice I didnt even wink I felt nothing at all like it is suposed to be... I guess local anastesia it is not enough for my body to stop pain... so after that I felt almost nothing... the contrations were going away tho and the doc. came like after 11:30 and checked me again and said I was totally dialated and so I was like are u sure and he said yeap... so practice pushing.. I did that for like half an hour... but the nurses where rushed out cuz someone was having a baby at the same time but having problems so the doc. and the main nurse come in and said no push at all and I was like ok.. the doc then brings another doc and said I need to go to do a c-section emergency and she is going to deliver your baby for me.. and I was like ok. as long as someone is here to do it whatever... right? so I started pushing again and at 1 pm after she got changed and I dont know what else she came in and said ok pushing and I did ... the doc. asked me about episiotomy and I was like but what exactly is that and she said well I cut and if you tare it will follow where I cut and then I said if you dont do it? she told me that I will tear and it will be worse because baby head was big and she thought that I coudlnt make it without at leat a tear.. so I said ok the episiotomy sound something you can controle right? and she said yeap... and I asked will you give me some medicine aftersward for pain and she said sure we will... so ther I was pushing and omg I will never forget that with 4 pushes he was out... I felt his head come out and then they said no morepushing.. the cord was traped around his neck so I was like no pushing no pushing no pushing... and then they told me to do it again.. and I did and then I felt the rest of the body come out and at the same time I felt the emptyness on my stomach.. I started to cry and said my baby like 5 times.. the nurse was like I am tacking him and I was like my baby so they let me have him for alittle bit.. after that they took him and did all the regular stuff... and then they let me have him and I was like am I dreaming???? I loved him there more than ever.... the light of my life... at last I am looking at you.. and I said to him I LOVE YOU MY LITTLE MUNCHKING...

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