cheshcat82 - Saturday, 31 May Well, I hope it will be that easy!!! Actually, I hope he'll just decided it's too hard and give up on his own. Kind of like he's done with everything else. I REALLY don't need whatever small amount I might get out of him for child support. I would rather he just bail completely and I think it would be better for everyone involved, ya know? Best of luck with everything. Do you have a lawyer? I'm shopping for one now...I kind of think I don't need one with his obvious issues BUT I'd hate myself if I didn't get one and things went to crap. I dont REALLY know what I'm getting in to =)
corrin - corrin, your answer on froggy`s question was given the highest rating. Thank you for answering!
BunInOven21 - Thursday, 29 May Hey! thank you for taking the time to answer my question, it definately helped alot!
modelmom - Wednesday, 28 May like SOME OF THE LAWS STATES that if the father dont hurt the child then nothings wrong okay if the baby has already been born u tell the courts you've tried to get him in his childs life and he doesnt want too...you tell them that one u are breastfedding not bottle feeding at all you go get a restaining order on him saying he has seen the baby(at a park or something somwhere not at ur house not a friends or family house, and grabbed your child, raised his voice around the baby,and was holding the baby as a football too rough like shaking the baby as he was talking to you and you had to talk calm to him just to get the baby back...listen though DO NOT DO NOT AT ALL GO IN THERE CRYING LIKE A MAD WOMEN U GO IN THERE AND BE CALM DONT CRY AT ALL BECAUSE THEY WILKL THINK U ARE NOT STABLED LIKE HIM... YOU TELL THEM THAT BECAUSE OF HIS WAYS U FEAR FOR THE CHILD AND ASK THAT UNTIL HE PROVES TO THE COURT THE COURT THAT IS TRYIN U SHOULD GET FULL CUSTODY THEY WILL GIVE U TEMP CUSTODY UNTILL OTHERWISE BUT U MAKE SURE U DO THAT TRUST ME IT WILL WORK
cheshcat82 - Wednesday, 28 May Hi, hope you don't mind me asking...I saw your comment on sunny3's profile and would you mind telling me what state you live in? I plan on seeking full custody and having my bd only get supervised visitation. IF he figures out how to put his name on the bc at all. BD also has assult charges (2 felony assaults w/ a deadly weapon) on top of the fact that he is bi-polar. I figured that alone should seal the deal but I think it's crap that you weren't able to make them do supervised visits!!! You're right, it only takes once to shake a baby and ESPECIALLY when they are that young, it's not like they can tell you if it's happening! If you are in California too, maybe I don't have as good a case as I thought... Best of luck =)
eastern-Canadian-Lady - Wednesday, 28 May OMGoodness! What in the world was he thinking?!?! I would have totally gone berzerk on him, then called the cops. Is there any possibility with respect to reconciliation? sounds like a strange question considering what he did, but if not, then I would call bc it's your baby's safety that has to be the # 1 priority. Whether he wants to listen to crying or not is not no reason to endanger her. Maybe he really thought it was ok??? Do you think so??? At least call the mediator, so that they are aware, and then ask for advice. I hope this all works out for you.
BoyStruckX2 - Wednesday, 28 May oh wow thanks for that insight!! lol I guess ill just have to roll wit it :)
fla1st - Monday, 26 May I just saw your question on chunky babies and I laughed so hard. My son is only 6 weeks but eats like crazy, and my husband always says "we're gonna end up on Maury with him!" See you there, I guess. lol.