flygirlrrt - Friday, 7 November Hi, my name is Lisa and I was just reading your story. I am sooo sorry that you have to go through so much. I had 2 m/c and at the moment ttc. My 1st m/c was a blighted ovum and I never had red blood, just brown spotting. I was at 9 weeks and they did a u/s and there was a empty sac-conception happens and implantation happens but something goes wrong right away and no fetus ever forms. Usually your levels continue to rise and you never know until you have a little bleeding or a u/s. If your Hcg levels do not make it to at least 1000 then you will never see a sac. It is a fluke and is very rare to happen again.I was given a choice to have a D&C, wait till I miscarry on my own or induce with drugs. I hope this helps. Once again I am so sorry and I am will keep you and your family in my heart. If you have any questions or just want to chat feel free!
amo - Friday, 7 November We have very similar stories and if you ever want to chat do know that I am here for you!
erikamd11 - Friday, 7 November im so sorry to hear this hun, i really am.
ema - Friday, 7 November hiya my heart really does go out to you i no exactly how you are feeling it happend with my 2nd mc i ended up thinking i was going mad but like you i knew i had been pregnant, sometimes when it is really early ( this is what i was told by hosp staff) it simply breaks done into the lining of your womb and will come away in the next period, how true this is i dont no i feel they would have told me anything to get rid of me, because like you i wanted answers, please remember to ask about those injections, i really wish i could help you, emma x
X-LeahsMummy-X - Friday, 7 November hellooo everyone. sorry to be a pain and ask another question. but i was wondering if im the only one or if it happens to everyone.... when i get a message on a blog, if its the latest blog it will tell me (for e.g. ) i have 7 new msgs on blog 50, so i go and look and its not 7 on that blog its 3, and the rest are on another blog, but i have no idea which one so i gotta search around, and sometimes i it doesnt even tell me i have new msgs, like today the blog i just wrote told me i have 7 msgs on there, but there was only 3 and the rest where on the blog before, that where written a few days ago, and i didnt even no :O does this happen to everyone, if so does anyone no a way to find the blog thats been messaged easily. sorry if thats hard to understand, im not very good at explaining....
hope everyones ok xxxx
RainbowRach - Friday, 7 November Hi babe, I have sent it x
ema - Friday, 7 November hiya my heart really does go out to you i no exactly how you are feeling it happend with my 2nd mc i ended up thinking i was going mad but like you i knew i had been pregnant, sometimes when it is really early ( this is what i was told by hosp staff) it simply breaks done into the lining of your womb and will come away in the next period, how true this is i dont no i feel they would have told me anything to get rid of me, because like you i wanted answers, please remember to ask about those injections, i really wish i could help you, emma x
Laceysmommy0208 - Friday, 7 November just keep you head high! you will have the baby you dream of!
jensolucky - Friday, 7 November Hello I have been reading your profile and I too am sorry. But I want to let you know, and it may not make you feel much better right now. You and your Husband are able to get pregnant!!! Thats GREAT! And that is soooo much more than many couples have. Conceiving is One of the hardest things!! At least you know you can get pregnant, and pretty easy being 3 times in 10 months. Now think, once the doctor finds out what the problem is in keeping you pregnant you have a great chance of alittle baby in your arms very soon. . It may be something not big at all and a med will fix this. . I lost one, and found my Thyriod was very very low. I now take a pill for Thyroid. Try to be positive, work with the Doctors, ask for testing, and keep trying... You are beautiful people, and I believe it will be happening for you,, and soon!!
emmareed84 - Friday, 7 November Hey everyone. I have put some pics up of baby bits....Ive waited soooo long to get it all sorted lol. Babys nursery looks like a bomb site though ha ha ha. Ive also put a belly pic up. I honestly though i was BIGGER i certainly feel it, plus i though i would have dropped more, again i feel like im carrying him BETWEEN my legs lol.....Let me know what you think xxxx
TracyB - Friday, 7 November Hi there. Just wanted you to know I was thinking of you all night last night and today. Can you demand some testing? Something is going on within your body. My first thought is low progesterone levels. That needs tested the day you get a + test, then a couple days later again, and then one more time (that''s what they do in the US). Low progesterone is easy to fix, you just take a pill or use suppositories. It's also possible you could have a blood clot disorder (that's what I have). I had no clue I had that until they did blood work to check. But once they figure it out, it is VERY treatable in a future pregnancy. Please demand some testing. You DESERVE a baby. Big hugs coming your way from the US friend.
Mummy-to-two-girls - Friday, 7 November HEY. HOW DID EVERTHING GO AT THE SCAN????
kelim - Friday, 7 November hi helen, how did you go on with the scan, i heard you were still going to go! hope your ok?xxx
**MOLAR**SURVIVOR!! - Friday, 7 November I am so sorry to hear that. It never gets easier unfortunately. I think you just learn to deal with it in a different way each time but the pain is always the same. Its so heartbreaking when you know you want it, you know you deserve and you know you will be good at motherhood but you dont get a chance at it! You have a great support sytem and that is so needed! I hope in a couple months you get the start of your happy ending in the pregnancy journey. Take care.
sarahann - Friday, 7 November Hey, I know my words won't mean much to you, and I know that nothing could make you feel better right now, but I am genuinely sad for you and I'm thinking of you. I will be hoping for some miracle for you when you have your scan, I do know that miracles do happen.
last.one.for.me - Friday, 7 November Good luck with your scan today xxx
JenB - Friday, 7 November Hey, I have just read many of your blogs and I just wanted to say that I'm so sorry for everything you guys have been through. I wish you two the very best and my thoughts are with you guys during this tough time.
Savvy - Friday, 7 November Hi Minky, I am really so sorry for ur loss. U r the strongest woman ever. U and Steve did not deserve this, not againg. I am sure u are good people, why does bad thing happen to good people only. Life is totally unfair. When u are doing ur blood test, ask ur doctor to run test on u and ur hubby's chromosone. That is the problem for me. I have a chromosone imbalance, that is why I m/c. Everytime I get pregnant, I have 1 in 4 chances of m/c. I hope and pray that is not the case with u. U are in my prayers. take care..... Savvy