Berrymama - Wednesday, 8 October My condolences about the loss of the baby. I pray you healing and a quick pregnancy that sticks. I am in the MIL forum and can relate to your situation. God Bless and Happy Baby Dust to you.
owensmommabear - Wednesday, 8 October LOL! My doc is a total loser!! The Monday before I m/c I went to see him about getting a positive pg test and me spotting, he then got me to go for a blood test. I found out that my HCG levels were only at 28, so I left it for a few days and continued to spot brown. So I called them back Wednesday, he didn't even see/talk to me, his assistant scheduled me for another blood test that next Monday. Saturday morning I started to spot heavier, so that night to the ER in the city. They did a blood test there and my HCG levels dropped down to 16. So he expained to me what was happening, and told me things with my body will go back to normal after this was all said and done. I refuse to go back to my family doc, but I haven't had a whole lotta time to go see my ob/gyn. I suppose I should go see him....
owensmommabear - Wednesday, 8 October Hey No I didn't have a cycle yet. It's due to come here in the 16th. I'm actually doing the whole Ovulation test thing because I really wanted to see where my cycles were. I miscarried on September 20th. I knew I ovulated late, I just had no idea when. According to the tests, I ovulate here in the next day or 2. What are your plans?
Canadianmomma2b - Wednesday, 8 October Hey Sheework! Was it your first pregnancy? How far along were you? I am sorry to hear about your loss.
I still kind of have a small amount of dark discharge and its REALLY annoying. I just want it to go away so my period will come back. Apparently it will come back around 3 weeks after you stop bleeding. This is the first time I think I have ever wanted AF to come. haha. Some days I get kind of scared because I emotionally feel so good and ready to be preggers again. I had a D&C 10 years ago and it took me years to get over although I was in a bad situation which compounded the emotional scaring.
My doctor told me to wait 3 months or 2 cycles but I have read many many websites and they all say that there is no increased chance of m/c after your first cycle. Hopefully it takes.
Hopefully you and I will have a BFP by Christmas time :) Stay in touch. xxx
JeniferTwins - Tuesday, 7 October Thank you~ Yes it really is hard I just live day by day. Yesturday was really hard for Jason and I. We were to go to the Dr and hoping to find out alot of things. We had reminders on our phones.....that we forgot about and when it went off it just killed the both of us. We will be ok and we can start to trying again in 4 months. We are both scared but we want a baby the twins were his first. We believe that the Lord will bless us with a healthy baby. We have great love in the both of us it is amazing the love that we have.. Our best wishs to you and your family!! God bless Jenifer and Jason
stargazer530 - Tuesday, 7 October I am so sorry! I found out about my "missed" miscarriage in 2006 and decided to let it happen naturally. I spent the next two months waiting. It was horrible. It doesn't seem like it now, but you will eventually feel better. It took me about a year and a half to even be able to talk about it. I am sure there's light at the end of your tunnel. I will be 20 weeks on Thursday. While it took us a while to decide to TTC again, I think in a way taking the time in between was a good thing. I truly don't think anyone can understand just how devestating and painful a miscarriage is until they actually experience it. Take care of yourself and know that most women actually experience a miscarriage at some point and they go on to have very healthy, happy babies. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
mexyplex - Tuesday, 7 October i'm sorry to hear what happened..i also had a m/c and had to take pills. i didn't bleed for that long, it was just mentally harder. i couldn't stop crying for months..but it does get easier over time. i got pregnant again after my m/c..took me about 3 months. i am currently 23 wks...i wish you the best of luck sweetie! hang in there!
xDanielleHxx - Tuesday, 7 October i did too its hard ano but keep doing the baby dance an it will happen very soon and maybe even sooner because you might be more fertile am hopin you are keep me updated and keep your chin up babes x
xDanielleHxx - Tuesday, 7 October hi am sorry about the misscarrige i ha 1 at the start of july an became pregnant agein straight away so it must be true your more fertile, hope you get your BFP very soon x
boneablaze - Tuesday, 7 October Thanks for the advice. I'll try it.
Lillymae1227 - Tuesday, 7 October Aww well i wish you the best of luck with trying again!
I am lucky i suppose since i am now symptom free. No M/S or anything. tired i suppose but thats about it. I went to the docs today for my appt and got to hear the heartbeat! thank god its there...
Shawshoo - Tuesday, 7 October Yeah isn't that crazy?? A whole month from the time my HCG level is below 5. At first I thought I just misunderstood him, so I repeated it word for word, and that is what he said. I'm def. not going to wait that long. And I'm sure we won't be using condoms, I can't even remember what that was like! Before we started ttc - I was never on birth control (only the last year). For years we just did the old "pull out" method successfully. I'm afraid to use a condom, like you said, it broke and that's my luck too!
ashley-blesseddaily - Tuesday, 7 October I do think you are overreacting, a little bit. It is natural to worry about "what if''s" Calm down, I am sure everything is alright.
Lillymae1227 - Tuesday, 7 October how are you doing? hanging in there i hope!
anisa - Tuesday, 7 October all the best i hope you get pregnant again soon. i am going for my app today hoping for the best.keep well.
lilpumpkin - Tuesday, 7 October Thank you for the input - my dr. told me 2 cycles - but after researching it more - i found anywhere from 1 all the way to 6 cycles. So, since we feel ready - and for the same reason you have, we don't want it to be another year... we are starting after just one cycle. Good luck to you both - and I hope to see us both expecting soon :)
Kathren - Monday, 6 October That was my opinion, but some people are just way too uptight. Being that I am an American I can say this with utter certainty. The person that complained was definately American. Only people from here are that uptight. ROFL!!!