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supermammy123 - 5.1 hours ago
hi there ive just read your message. when i had my misscairage i thought i were 21 weeks as i went for my 20 weeks ultrasound and to find out my baby had no heartbeat! postmortem results came back and showed my son died at 16 to 17 weeks and i had no idea at all. i was devistated and still am. i am currently 17 weeks pregnant now and so nervous! there is no cause found which i find is worse as we will always be wondering what it was. my current pregnancy seems to be going well and baby is fine up to now and i just pray that things will be ok. and i know what you mean i dont mind having a section again as long as i get to keep my baby. i write alot of stuff down thats on my mind as i think it helps to. and you are very welcome im here anytime you want to talk :-) x x

supermammy123 - Sunday, 22 November
it is a shock when you plan things then they all get changed at the last minute! i never thought i would have a section at all as my midwife gave me the impression that only older women and women having multiple pregnancies had c sections. so i was thinking that there were something wrong with me. i have had 2 sections now and will have a 3rd as i cant go naturally now after having more than 1. although i did have a late misscairage in april this year and had to give birth naturally as i wasnt full term so there were no risk of rapturing my scar. i never thought i would have my natural birth like that! it will take time for you to come to terms with it and who knows, you might have your next baby naturally. its possible to have a natural birth after 1 section. i tried with my second child but things didnt go to plan (again) but it doesnt mean it wont for you! it took me ages to figure out why i felt so bad about it too. i was looking at others on the ward who had natural births and felt a bit jelous! i felt as tho i had failed the one thing every woman should be able to do. but at the end of the day we are very lucky to have our babies as if it wasnt for c sections we might not have our babies with us, or even we might not have been here ourselves. scary to think of but thank god for surgery lol. and i dont mind at all you can vent at me anytime you like. i know its a hard thing to overcome, and you will eventually. x x x

jynxxd - Sunday, 22 November
I had to be induced and they let me go for THREE days on the drip and made me push before they finally decided that my contractions were not regular and baby was stuck, resulting to me in EXTREME pain and an emergency c section.

supermammy123 - Friday, 20 November
Hi there. just got your message. I had to have my first c section due to failed to progress in labour and stopped dilating at 6cm! I never thought i would end up with a section either and my midwife never thought i would have one too. So it was a bit of a shock after, i felt as tho i didnt give birth properly and i felt as tho i failed myself in a way. In time you will get over it, i have just come to terms with it and my oldest child is 6! i have come to realise that its just the way that i have my babies and am greatful that i can have babies as i know a few people who cant. I just think to myself this is the way i do it, and thats the way it will always be. i know i have to have an elective c section with this one at the end of april ( a week before my due date) but i did feel the way you do now and i think its normal to question yourself about why and how you ended having a section. i found that it does really help when you talk to other women who have been in the same situation and in time you will accept that, i did but it took some time. ash x x

supermammy123 - Thursday, 19 November
hey there im ashleigh. i left a message for you on csection delivery. i have had 2 csections now and with my second i tried for a viginal birth but ended having an emergency c section as my baby was in destress so that was the only safe option. so i was a bit gutted that i had to have yet another emergency section. but hey i suppose my son is well thats all that matters. xox

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