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21yrmommy2be
Age: 22
Country: US
Province/region: Louisiana
City: Marrero
Partner: Husband Robert
Children: Yes, 1
Pregnant: No
Due date: 09 0 ,0000
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I'm 20 Weeks now, and had my second ultrasound last week, but unfortunately couldn't tell the sex of baby, but the Heart Rate was 144, and baby weighed 11 ounces!!

Well, I'm 10 weeks 2 days today, Jan. 8, 2008. I'm due August 3, 3 days before my birthday. I'm very excited and can hardly wait to meet my baby!! Hope everyone else is doing well. Congrats if you've already conceived, and good luck if you're trying to conceive!!!!

In Order: 17 weeks (this is what I REALLLY look like now...blah), My other baby!, 17 weeks, 20 Weeks, 19 Week Ultrasound

Pregnancy Survey

About You

Name?:

Cort

Age?:

21

Height?:

5.2 1/2

Pre-pregnancy weight?:

about 225...i gained back all the weight i had lost..blah!!

About The Father

Name?:

Robert

Age?:

31

Height?:

? about 5.9

Are you still together?:

soon to be married

About Your Pregnancy

Is this your first pregnancy?:

yes

When did you find out you were pregnant?:

November 28th

Was it planned?:

Sort of...we had started talking about having a baby together

What was your first reaction?:

well, I think I had an early miscarriage in August, so, my hormones were already screwy, and I really just wanted to get preg, but then I started freaking with the hormones and realizing it was really happening...

Who was with you when you found out?:

Myself...Rob was sleeping, b.c I wanted to use 'the first of the day'...I was soo anxious...had been testing since August since I think I miscarried, I was already having symptoms, but neg. tests... I thought I was going crazy!

Who was the first person you told?:

Rob...when I walked in the room and woke him and held the test up, he looked upset and turned over and burried his head, but once he woke up, he was really happy!! He was a little freaked I think.

How did your parents react?:

well, I went to work with my dad, and driving in the car told him I had something to tell him, and he asked me if Rob was pregnant...I said, kind of, and he said, so ur preg.? well, I thought u were gonna say that... lol...he was happy tho... and my mom has been wanting g.babies, so she was really happy...shocked, but happy

How far along are you?:

Almost my 21st week!

What was your first symptom?:

aching breasts and bad mood!!!!!

What is your due date?:

August 3, 2008

Do you know the sex of the baby?:

nopers :(

If so, what is it?:

...blank

Have you picked out names?:

yep!

If so, what are they?:

Girl~ Khloe Alaxzandra

Boy~ Alexander 'Xander' Jamison

How much weight have you gained?:

too much...like, 17 pounds

Do you have stretch marks?:

in my underarms and lower belly...legs, boobs...

Have you felt the baby move?:

Yest. I felt the baby kick from the outside for the first time, it was the most amazing thing ever to realize baby's REALLY in there, not just gas... lol..I cried a little the second time I felt it!!! I finally feel connected to baby!! And the little kicks are getting stronger every day! :)

Have you heard the heartbeat?:

Yep! At my first doc. visit

About the birth

Will you keep the baby?:

YES!! I am soo in love with this baby!!!

Home or hospital birth?:

I wish home, but it will be hospital

Natural or medicated birth?:

natural

Who will be in the delivery room with you?:

Robert, maybe my sister if she wants to tape the birth and take pics for us

Will you breastfeed?:

deff.

Do you think you'll need a c-section?:

I hope not, but Rob just told me this morning he was like 11 pounds!!!!!!! I hope this baby's small!!!!

Will you cry when you hold the baby for the first time?:

most deff.

What's the first thing you might say to him/her?:

"Oh, oh, look at your daddy!!" (i dont know really...lol)

Would you let someone videotape the birth?:

im hoping my sis will

Are you excited about the birth, or scared?:

excited, just hoping baby's not 11 pounds!!!

Congratulations!

You have a 52% chance of having a boy.
And you have a 47% chance of having a girl.


It's a boy!
67 % chance of having a girl





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2ndbabybump - Sunday, 20 July
haha how funny!! yeh the full moon gave me contractions which have lastd pretty much since....i 2 lost usm of my plug last nyt, very long n stringy, n this mornin a big glob tinged pink, also i had a trickle down my leg n i hadnt sneezed or coughed n i didnt needa go toilet, plus loss of appetite n physically n emotionally exhausted, i rand the hosp they said it defin8ly was my plug, n 2 put i pad on n keep watch in case it is the waters breakin, n everything else is defin8ly the onset of labour but cant say when its gunna happen....im soooo relieved 2 noe things r startn 2 progress lol....yeh my next check up is on tuesday as well, im gunna tell her everything i just said n im gunna ask if she can do an internal n check things down there coz its drivin me insane i needa noe lol!!! yeh im hopin im around 3cm at least hehehehehhe, well the moon might not have done much but it mighta helped along a bit heheheh.....im not sure if i got that group b strep thing i find out on tues, im hopin not....


brandy - Saturday, 19 July
My little one has been strangely still here lately too. It really worries me, but Im thinking that maybe he doesnt have enough room in there. I have been haveing a lot of comtractions too but nothing. My Dr wants to induce probably the end of next week if I make it to my next appointment wednesday because he is getting so big and are trying to avoid a c-section. (I have big babies haha)


jlynnetaylor927 - Saturday, 19 July
Thanks so much for responding to my post. I Appreciate it. Hopefully it is nothing too serious. I will definitely ask them to check me out at my appointment on Wednesday!!


salo - Friday, 18 July
i dont know, today i experienced the first time of swollen feet and hands. they looked hillarious. i was calling them hobbit feet. lol!!! and well my hands felt kinda numb but blah its ok, im trying to concentrate on the fact that its just a couple of more days, haha. and well i dont know, i feel really weird i mean i feel her move and i think im gona miss her once she is out. i would rather keep her in, yup yup. im really tired. i have a hard time laying down but once i find a comfty position away from my husband hugging me, i fall asleep so comfty , its not the pregnancy that makes me uncomfortable. is my husband with his arm around me and baby hates it also. she kicks his arm but hes too sleepy to even notice. lol!

as for other things. well we do live with his parents but they are pretty much used to us showering together, we've done it since i moved in, and we do it like at 2 am, our bed time so by that time they are asleep, and well they are never home so we have the house pretty much to ourselves all the time. yup yup . oh yeah i tested positive for the group B strep. so you are not the only one whos gona have a huge nasty needle enough about me... anyways when do u think ur baby is gona come out??


2ndbabybump - Thursday, 17 July
yeh im the same i cant really drink 2 much water... i pee enuff without hahaha!! n ive been havn contractions 2, but nothing 2 write home about yet lol, altho all 2day ive been feeln very nauseous n had a constant backache, but i dnt wanna go gettn xctd if its nothin...which it probably is, but i guess i just gotta w8 n c....i hate w8n haha!! yeh trust me i do go crazy i sooo badly wanna noe how dial8d i am if any.......yep i agree bring on the full moon hahaha


2ndbabybump - Thursday, 17 July
yeh trust me braxton hicks can seem like the real thing, wen i was preg with shay they started at 20 mins n just like lil hardenings then they kept gettn gettn closer n clser 2geva until i got to 2 mins apart so i fort it was tym went to the hosp n dey stopped, thats y wen i was actually in labour i didnt noe it n i was oredy 9cm wen i got 2 d hosp, n i noe itll b the same this tym, its pretty dangerous really, coz i honestly didnt noe it was labour n if i didnt go 2 hosp baby wulda cum out at home...
yeh im feeln ok, lastnyt i was very nauseous n felt lyk i needed 2 throw up, but i didnt n i had headaches n was very tired, n i keep gettn period lyk cramps, but apart from that im doin alright jst tired coz ive been paintin my house all week....im not sure if im effaced n dial8d unfortun8ly dey dnt do those checks over here, but id really like 2 noe!!
well its a full moon 2moro lets c if that can kick start our labour hehehe...


salo - Tuesday, 15 July
oh god. my message sounds horrible like i dont want my baby, but i do, its just that i like to spend time with my husband , i hardly see him, he works from 7 til 7 so when he comes home we act like leeches to each other. following each other everywhere and stuff. so i know once baby is here its gona be even less time for him and me..do i sound like a horrible person???is that selfish from me???


salo - Tuesday, 15 July
no. it wasnt sarcasm, i feel really good. i dont hurt, nothing at all. and well i think the babys head dropped cuz i can breathe better but now my underwear seems to chocke the hell out of me. and its funny cuz now i feel her hiccups really low by her head, it feels funny. Even after that im pretty sure she wont be here probably for another two weeks, i just dont feel bad or sick, just reaaaaaaaaallly sleepy, i can sleep all day and all night and im not hungry at all. my husband says i have to eat but im tired of eating everything seems so plain, all i want to eat is salads!!! delicious lettuce dripping with ranch dressing!!!!! yummmmmmyyyyyy... good stuff.. hahah that and milkshakes... good good food. but other than that, everything seems so blah.. hahaha. yeah, im kinda tired of being pregnant, but at the same time i stop and think about it and well i'd rather keep her in than out cuz once she is out. zero naps for me, and well a whole of more things we wont be able to do together, like go out at night, go out to the movies, and well even shower together now we are gona have to take turns on everything. even to eat once she starts eating solid foods.. ahhh i duno , theres gona be big changes and im trying to cope with them since now but it just seems like i duno. its gona be a 180 turn in out lives...


2ndbabybump - Tuesday, 15 July
dats d same as me 2, over the w/e i felt like i was ready 2 have him, but then it just seemed 2 stop, but ive had an increase in pressure down below n in my thighs, n also increased back pains, so maybe just maybe its early labour lol...oh n its a full moon this friday n apparantly that can trigger labour but only if a womans ready to go....so lets c how we go hehehehe....ive been keepin so bz painting my house the past cuple of days so hopefully thatll trigger sumthing lol


2ndbabybump - Tuesday, 15 July
hey hows it all goin??


salo - Monday, 14 July
im feeling too good to be true... i just know im gona be walking around for a couple of more weeks... ahhhhhhhhhh!! im tired and i look super huge. ppl stare at my belly a lot..


Natalie1984 - Monday, 14 July
oh god hun well good luck with that, keep me posted, it will be ok if shes born now. ive been getting weird pains and period cramps 4 a while now but i dont bother to tell midwife shes not very good, ive also got alot of presure down there to, and its bloody painful sometimes i think my bladders going to explode coz its so full but i get to the loo and a few drops come out, sorry TMI so it must just be her head squashing everything. good luck darl xx


2ndbabybump - Sunday, 13 July
yeh sounds like babys heads engagin!! yay!! ur goin thru wat im goin thru...i get contractions dat r reg. but den i feel d next 1 but it aint that painful or i dnt feel em at all, but lyk u im feeln lyk im comin down with something, so hopefully its the labour bug hehehehe!! my aunty had i dream last nyt that im givin birth on 17th july!! yay so this thursday heheh!! well im hungry n gunna go my sum lunch let me noe how everything goes xoxox


2ndbabybump - Saturday, 12 July
hey, yeh i had exactly wat u experienced yesterday aswell, i even had a bath 2 c if theyd stop but they didnt so i went to bed n i just woke up so ill c how i go 2day n ill keep u upd8d...lyk u i dnt fink nefing will happen now, but maybe in the nxt week or so....hopefully we'll go soon tho hehehe...keep in touch xoxox


Natalie1984 - Saturday, 12 July
god mate i know exactly what u mean ive given up trying to get her out cant be botherd she will come when shes ready and right now im so tired i cud quite happily wait another 3 weeks. SPD is SYMERSIS PUBIS DYSFUNCTION its where everything softens coz the hormone relaxin comes to early and also makes ur pelvis start sepersting ive had it from 5 months but and it wasnt to bad i jst had a fembrace but had to go physio the other day coz i cant walk to well anymore so im now on crutches, cant do anything feel like a dam invalid i hate being so resiricted. i havent had any braxton hicks as far as i know but me midwife said that not everyone feels then and alot of women dont even get them so i would go to much on that hun. r u still at work?


2ndbabybump - Saturday, 12 July
hey hey hows everything goin??


salo - Thursday, 10 July
well im sure my baby hasnt dropped yet. i still feel suffocated and stuff. and i know that just because i hate being pregnant im probably gona last til the 40th week.. anyway. so yeah, i havent had any pains and im pretty sure that i havent had the braxton hicks either because i just dont feel anything but baby moving, no pains no tightening nowhere. nothing at all... im pretty sure yours is gona be out way before mine.. hahaha... ummm oh yeah about the hospital i knew that, i went to pre-register when i was 5 months hehehe, smart me! and idk, we took the lamaze classes or however u spell it. and the birthing classes and the babycare classes... they were pretty cool. and they gave me free food!!! hahahaha my sister has been telling me to walk alot so i can hurry and have the baby but seriously i cant , everytime i get up i feel like im gona pee... but when i lay down i feel like i cant breathe and sitting down suffocates me, i dont know, im just a lil uncomfortable but im glad im not in pain im pretty much sure we should be able to tell the difference in between false contractions and real ones. i mean if i start getting any pains that i can relate to maybe contractions im not going to run to the hospital. after all there is the three stages. so im pretty sure that by the one which is the opening of the cervix from 4 to 7 cm. im gona run to the hospital because that is known to be the most painful one, im just gona chill at the hosue till i feel horrible pain yup yup... but i mean that is what i say, i bet that as soon as i say i feel something everyone here is going to go nutz and drag me to the hospital. i really dont want to go to the hospital as soon as i feel a slight pain cuz i dont want to be there for days, i just want to go lets say at the second stage of labor so i can go in and they give me the magical epidural and hopefully progress fast and pop it out and one or two days later come back, i hate being at hospitals is cold and boring!!!! anywys, im probably just sayind dumb stuff that is probably annoying u so i should just shut up anyways ttyl take care


2ndbabybump - Tuesday, 8 July
hey howd ur c/up go?? well now u can start gettn dat baby ready 2 cum out hehehehe!! had mine 2day babys heads jst about engaged, she sed its low n fixed n d pelvis n she finks ill have him in 2-3 weeks hehehe i hope shes right!! yeh i still need a nursin pillow 2....actually i fink my mum myt have bort me one!! ive got pretty much everything i fink lol my baby showa completed d list lol


Natalie1984 - Sunday, 6 July
lol sounds like u got it all sorted lol. i can only walk so far coz ive got SPD but im planning on moweing the lawn tomorrow! i cleaned the house from top to bottom today too i think im just going to stay active the best i can and eat alot of hot curry!!not sure how true that 1 is but worth a try oh apparently driveing over speed bumps and uneven surfaces but again not sure how effective that wud be. dont worry im no prude, yeah i could try toys but they say theres a chemical in the mans seimen that brings on the labour its not just penetration altho that can help to loosen the mucus plug.have u fort of raspberry leaf tea? im not sure what it does but it keeps crooping up in conversations. good luck to you to, 36 weeks today 4 to go woop woop!!!!


2ndbabybump - Sunday, 6 July
hey hun hows everything goin?? r u gunna get mor active n kickstart labour now?? hehhehe!! howd d baby showa go?? did u get everything u need?? yep i noe the feeln im startn 2 get nervuz 2....my pre-labour signs r gettn stronga, i guess ill find out on tues how everythings goin...lol


salo - Saturday, 5 July
omg i just read that last message u sent me... thats pretty exciting but also scary, im pretty sure im gona last until the 40th weeks or maybe go over jsut because i hate beign pregnant.. hahahah well good luck, keep me posted


salo - Saturday, 5 July
well as a matter of fact. im great. no more pains nowhere, and my husband started sleeping on the floor cuz his back hurts cuz he has gained so much weight, more than me probably.. hahah so i have a bed to myself. all night and all day, im so sleepy all the time, no insomnia and same thing no heartburn or none of those things everyone warns about, im pretty much feeling better than a couple of weeks ago. and i can still eat and drink whatever i want, but now peeing is the only problem. it pisses me off to have to get up at night but that is mainly it. so yeah... idk,. im sorry u have to be going through that i wish you could have it as easy as i do


Natalie1984 - Friday, 4 July
oh god hun well i defo symperthise with u, i really cant sleep more than an hr or so at a time argh!! god those pains dont sound good, id go hospital just to be on the safe side coz if she is comeing early and the docs say she aint ready at least u will be in the best place, tho over here if u go in to labor 34 weeks and onwards they dont stop it as baby is developed and just gaining weight, also a friend of mine had her baby at 35 weeks and was home the next day as baby was well and weighed over 6lbs!! so dont fret to much hun and jkeep me posted good luck! xx


2ndbabybump - Thursday, 3 July
by d sounds of fings ur in d very early stages of labour, n u shuld ring d hosp n xplain wats happened esp since dey wanna w8 a wk!! have u got a dull back ache?? or have d runs?? sorry if im freakn u out, jst hpe everythings ok


natalie1984 - Thursday, 3 July
god thats good tho just think u could have ur littleun by next week, thats so great i hope mine comes next week lol but ive got a feeling that shes going to be late, which wont be too bad tho coz her daddys wawy with work till the 1st augest and id hate himto miss it.i was up all last nite, in the end i got up at 5 and had a shower and got dressed, couldnt bare to lay in bed awake stareing at the walls for another second!!! hows ur sleeping going? r u getting any?


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