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Hey everyone. My name is Danielle. My husband and I are expecting our first child together. Between the two of us we have three children already. It was a long and bumpy road on our way to finding eachother but God finally brought us together. We got married July 14, 2007 and are expecting the new adition to our family on July 14, 2008. That is really exciting for us. What a perfect gift! I'm just so glad that I have him to go through it all with. I couldn't ask for more, even though lately I think he feels otherwise. Lol... It's the hormones!!

march 1, 2008

We went for our 20 week ultrasound on Feb 28 and it was so awesome. We looked away on certain parts bc we don't want to know the sex. I did ask the tech if she could tell the sex and she said that she could definatley tell! That made it harder. Our little one is 14 oz already. That seems big but I'm not sure. Everything looked great and the baby is doing fine. I did ask if she knew how long the baby was but she said that they don't measure that bc the babies are all curled up and it's hard to get an accurate length. Oh well. I can't wait to hold our little baby!! I hope all babies and mommies are doing well!

Oh and......My doctor isn't going to change my due date but the ultrasound read that I am actually 3 days ahead of my due date. So my baby is 'due' according to weight and meassurements on July 11th instead of the 14th. It doesn't really matter to me though bc I have never really gone all the way to my due date, I've always delivered a few days to a week before. Lol....watch this one make a liar out of me.

June 20, 2008

It's late.....12:02 a.m. I'm very tired but still up... so I am still considering it to be Thursday 6-19! Went to the Doctor today not knowing if I was going to be checked for dialation and effacement or not. I kept my fingers crossed and was relieved that she did check me! I am 2 cm's dialted and 70% effaced!!! The baby is definatley in a head down position! I know that it could still be awhile but I am excited that my body is working on bringing our baby to us! YAY!! I lost a lb but the Doc said that was fine....that puts my total weight gain thus far at 28 lbs. I am hoping to keep it under 30 lbs. I think that won't be a problem bc my appetite and such is pretty much gone. I haven't been having a ton of contractions, I've been having some Braxton Hicks contractions but none that are painful. I think the weirdest thing is that I've been having very loose bowels for at least a week now. It comes and goes with lower back pain. I think it may be actually doing something. I still have a few weeks but I am getting very excited!!! I ask my Doc were I was with my daughter as far as being dialated and effaced at my 36 wk appointment and she said I was 1 cm and 50% effaced. My daughter was born 3 days before her due date. With both her and my son, my water just broke without having any contractions at all. I'm hoping this time will be different and so far it seems that way. The only bad thing is that it feels like the first time bc I've never had to try and figure out the whole contraction thing before. I'm trying to figure out if this one will come early or right on time.....I guess at my 37 week appointment, we'll know how fast I am progressing and get a better idea then. It seems so far away...but yet it seems like the baby will be here so fast. Either way, I can't wait to meet him/her!!!

June 27,2008

I went to my weekly appointment yesturday. The doctor told me that I am now 3cm dialated and still 70 % effaced. I was a little disappointed, I was hoping that she would tell me I was more dialated than that. Lately I have been sooo uncomfortable and very moody. It is just so close to the end and I am sore and huge and so tired. I'm not sleeping at night hardly at all. But the up side is that I go again next week!! I have been walking a lot (about 4 miles in the last two days) and I hope that helps. So far it's just made me sore. Lol. And my daughter seems to want to sit in my lap more now that I don't really have one. I hinted around to my doctor that I wanted her to strip my membranes at my 38 wk appointment. I think if I am dialated to a 4 or 5 she will. Otherwise, she is going to make me wait until I am officially 39 wks to do it. I plan on making an appointment on the following Monday(the first day of my 39th wk) to get it done!! If she does it next week I will be 38 wks and 3 days pregnant. Not too bad plus I have no idea how big this baby is or anything. Baby is definatley head down and a strong kicker. Maybe we have ourselves a soccer player!! We'll know soon enough. The ten months of being pregnant go by so slow when you are in them but too fast when you look back to remember. My oldest is 6 years and starting first grade next year. I cried at Kindergarden graduation. I don't want to rush things as they go by too fast as it is. These times are precious.





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Jasmine-G - Thursday, 27 Mar
Hey, thanks. I agree with you. It will all work out. I didn't gain a lot of weight in the beginning, so maybe I was just making up for it. Lol. And I have been eating a lot of healthy snacks when I'm hungry. Fruits and stuff like that. That's what I'm going to keep doing when I'm hungry, and then maybe once or twice a week I'll give myself a little treat.


JennSever - Wednesday, 26 Mar
keeping my fingers crossed that things continue in your favor. the ex thing just basically sucks. my bf soon to be ex is sporting a wedding ring and she isn't even divorced yet. weirdo! her daughter is so precious and it breaks my heart that her 'role model' is falling so short. i guess God has a greater plans for my life and it involves this little girl. take heart and know that your family is your best interest. good luck darling.


christinaa - Wednesday, 26 Mar
I totally feel short of breath during them! I am so glad it's not just me! I actually have to stop what I am doing. It is the strangest feeling!


presea - Wednesday, 26 Mar
Hello! Yes, i get the same feeling in my uterus, not really a tightening but it feels odd and i feel like my tummy is turning and im short of breath. I think it well could BH but i will ask my midwife on Friday when i see her and let you know. x


JennSever - Saturday, 22 Mar
i am curious to know how this weekend will go for you. what i have learned is that if you have a valid reason to make a 'stink' then it doesn't matter, you just do what you have to do to have a harmonious household. remember the saying - 'if momma ain't happy, no on is happy!' i met my bf when he was going through the divorce process and i was able to encourage him as to what to put in the paperwork in regards to the custody agreement. the ex balked because she thought she was getting rid of a mouse of a man when in truth he just didn't know what his options were. if she doesn't communicate effectively we have recourses that we don't hesitate to implement..she does so many selfish things that is heartbreaking. she forgets that the whole purpose of any form of communication is for the betterment of her daughter. some people never get over being left or seeing their ex happy. that is something you can't help. your family comes first, and there is nothing you can do thats wrong if that is your sole motive. good luck and keep me posted...jennifer


amandag7 - Thursday, 20 Mar
I know how you feel. With it being spring now all these cute girls are wearing shorts and they look so cute and thin and I feel fat and like a balloon. On top of it all my midwife told me I was gaining too fast when all I've gained was 11... We should be at 15 to be healthy this week. She made me mad. SO I just feel fat all together. You're not alone. Lucky for us though people think we're 'too cute' which is what I'm getting lately. Haha.


MooMommy - Wednesday, 19 Mar
Hi! Definitely feel free to vent away. I can't speak from experience but in my opinion I think you ahve every right to be angry. The EX only has say for what her son does while in HER custody. She cannot sign him up for things that are in YOUR custody. I don't think you should bfeel bad at all refusing to take him to classes that are in yourtime. Your family should come first and him integrating into your family especially with the new baby should be number one. BIG HUGS!!


babybarbados - Wednesday, 19 Mar
deep breath sugar bears. She is outta line! She should not be making any decisions for your son and that includes signing him up for things without discussing it with you. Perhaps you need to have some sort of calm sit down discussion about boundries and responsibilities with/for each others children with all of the adults who are involved with them. The key is to try to keep it diplomatic and calm. Talk to your husband first to vent your concerns. Good luck!


JennSever - Wednesday, 19 Mar
i have the same prob - i told the b/m that if she signs her child up for activities on our day then she can come get her 30 min before and return her when their done. that only lasted one sat because it then cut into the mom's alone time!!! its a power play- and very childish. tell her that if she commits her child to it then she commits herself as well! and NO you will not be buying equipment for what the mother has decided to enroll in. period! you are not being unrealistic in your expectations for your household, so don't let her dictate what should be happening! good luck honey and hugs...jenn


savvysmom05 - Wednesday, 19 Mar
You are right to feel this way! My sister is in the same situation and she goes to few things, but most of the time her husband takes his daughter. She used to go all the time and then it just got old. On the weekends they had plans, they didn't do the activity, which of course made the mom mad, but she can not run their lives. Just as your husband's ex doesn't have the right to control what happens on your weekend. Maybe your husband can say only sign him up for one thing and if it so happens that you have plans, you are not obligated to take him. You need to get your weekends back to your family, the whole family. The ex's always finds ways to make the new wife's life Hell! I am sorry you have to deal with this right now. It sounds like to me that the ex thinks her child needs to be involved in everything under the sun to feel wanted and what he really needs is just quality time with his Dad, you, and his siblings. Well, good luck and feel free to vent. That's what we are here for, SUPPORT!


dlind - Wednesday, 19 Mar
Listen is perfectly normal for you to feel that way. if i was in your shoes i probably would be flipping out myself. But one thing you have to do is tell your husband to confront her himself and to put his foot down. She is trying to manipulate your time together by using the kid. Your husband has to tell her that his weekends are for his family and that includes spending equal time with all his kids and being involved in all their activities. She is using reverse psycoligi by flipping out when she is confronted so tell him to stick to his story and not let her manipulate the situation. Just my opinion. Hope things get better. good luck


araya-sunshine - Friday, 14 Mar
Baby showers are to shower you with gifts. If you have a two year old you probably already have all the important stuff. I would not have a shower unless there are things you need. Instead I would have a potluck in celebration of the baby. Some people will bring gifts anyway but it will seem like their idea.... not like you asked them too.


ChristineA - Thursday, 13 Mar
What they said :)


chastin - Thursday, 13 Mar
about the baby shower thing...It is about the celebration of the new baby, not nessacarly 'bring me gifts' type thing! I read instead of a baby shower have a 'baby sprinkle' just a smaller version of a shower!


mom2bx4 - Thursday, 13 Mar
Hey i seen your post about the baby shower thing . and cause i just had a baby in aug and am due again in june we are going to have a get together just for a chance for everyone to see baby and i will be telling everyone NO GIFTS PLEASE!!! if they want to do it on their own time on a different day thats fine. IM SURE THEY WILL KNOW ITS NOT ALL ABOUT THE GIFTS . I just find it to hard to run around to see all my family and friends and this way no one feels left out ! good luck and let me know how it all works. good luck and take care!!!!


tto - Thursday, 13 Mar
If you really want to just celebrate the new life, simply request no gifts on the invite. Use the invite to make it clear that this is just a celebration. Anyone who wants to give you a gift will anyway.


AnSo - Thursday, 13 Mar
Hi! I don't know much about 'shower etiquette' but here is a thought: make the shower more of a celebration than about the gifts, you can even say as much in your invitations! I also saw a comment by one of the ladies here a few days ago (sorry I don't remember who/when) that talked about making a scrapbook instead of games/gifts and I thought that was a really sweet idea.


savvysmom05 - Wednesday, 12 Mar
Yes, I have been carrying them everywhere. I didn't have Heartburn like this with my daughter and she didn't have much hair. I am wondering if the myth is true. Well, have a good day.


momofthree - Monday, 10 Mar
Hi..I NEVER have yeast infections... except when I'm pregnant that is! Then I get them all the time. I just take Monistat... you should make sure you don't push the egg shaped medication to far up...just part way.


teresa262 - Monday, 10 Mar
I have had a couple of yeast infections so far. Pretty comon with pregncny, guess to many hormones. Anyways my doc told me monistat 7 day cream is safe, but i'm sure anything over the counter is fine. Did your doc tell you had yeast? If not have doc check you to make sure it is not bacterial vaginosis, which is more serious but resembles yeast. Good luck.


april mcspadden - Saturday, 8 Mar
oh I agree!! I dont want to knoweither.. we have a boy and girl, sooo I want another girl! =)
sooo much MORE fun to dress~ but we will probably end of finding out only becuase we just had a baby 6 months ago,and if this ones a girl, we need to buy girl colors....we have TON of boy stuff!
I think this one is a girl...just have that feeling. I had the feelings with both my other ones and I was right both times...although itd be MUCH easier for us to have another boy!lol....we wouldnt have to buy anything! I have a couple names picked out but of course hubby dosent like any of them...back to the drawing board...lol...


april mcspadden - Friday, 7 Mar
who needs clean clothes and a shower anyway?? There highly over rated. lol... I feel your pain! lol...congrats on your baby! Do you know what your having? names???


BriBri1978 - Tuesday, 4 Mar
Exactly! That's exactly what I am feeling! I thought for sure I was going crazy, I KNOW this didn't happen this early before. I was worried, but if I am not alone I suppose it's nothing to really worry about. Thanks for the input.


presea - Tuesday, 4 Mar
Thank god i wasnt the only one experiencing this! I do feel bad after though because im not sure what effect it has on my baby after reaching orgasm! I know for sure that the contractions play a part in making the baby react but if its in its little bubble, im sure its alright. Congrats on your baby! :) xx


savvysmom05 - Friday, 29 Feb
Do you have names picked out yet? We are thinking Cole Benjamin for a Boy and we don't have any Girl names picked out yet.


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