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4TimesTheLove
Age: 31
Country: US
Province/region: New york
City: Brooklyn
Partner: Kendal
Children: Yes, 4
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Due date: 31 Jan ,2008
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9 months officially on OCT. 27, 2008 Photobucket Lilypie Breastfeeding Ticker

NO SLEEP!!!!! THAT IS WHAT HAS BEEN GOING ON SO FAR IN MONTH NUMBER 9 Poor mama bear. Surviving on hot chocolate and text messages to make it through. LOL I did snag this delightful picture for you all to see. It is of KJ and his new snow suit. I was trying it on him and let him wear it on the way to pick up the kids. He seemed quite pleased with it on. It even has a lil tail in the back. I am excited about my choice and the price I paid 14 bucks. wooo woo LOL KJ is still eating like a truck driver and becoming more vocal. I'm letting him get more floor time so he can start walking. Believe me, I'm not trying to rush him, but after winter I'm sure he will want to chase after his older siblings. Boy they better watch out!!! KJ is in the house. I love him to pieces...he is my M.G.B.!

8 and 3/4 months update 10-22-08

KJ aka BABY MONSTER LMAO Finally...2 minutes to myself in this rough day. While this should have been an 8.5 month update its more like a he'll be 9 months next week on the 27th update. He is doing everything but walking. As we speak he is trying to break out of the stroller and tear up the computer desk. HELP I was finally able to finish braiding his hair today. Can we sing the praises of mommy!!! HOO-RAH maybe that is the marines or the army? Whichever one it is they have nothing on a mommy!!! KJ is: clapping,dancing taking a few steps, climbing,smacking, kissing LOL at his own antics,wrestling daddy, yelling at his brothers and sisters, spending time with his grandma when she comes to visit, becoming a night owl, eating like a truck driver, getting taller,screeching,Taking at least one stroll a day,mean mugging ,being mommy's M.G.B. & still rocking a size 2 swaddler( yeah hes long not too chunkalicious ) Wooooooo that is one busy baby! Here are some pictures enjoy!!!!Taken 10-22-08 below PhotobucketPhotobucketPhotobucketPhotobucket

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8 months old (sept 27 2008)

Soooooo its official KJ is the big 8 months! I am so proud and in love with my lil one! He makes me smile more than any other on this earth. His personality is really blossiming and he shows it to us everyday.

I fully believe that he will be walking before his 1st birthday because, he is standing for longer periods of time every single day! I have it on video, but I can't seem to upload it to my computer. Sooooo I am providing pictures.Photobucket PhotobucketYes, I know he looks like a zombie, but that is the best I can do for the moment.UGH

His teeth are really out and he uses them. Ouch said the boobie. He was falling asleep so it was not on purpose. I forgive the two teeth bud! He eats like a champ and I'm still making his "baby" food. This week we are doing steamed sweet potatoes. Yummy. He is my still nursing, very vocal, almost walking, standing alot, not wasting time on crawling, super gripped,size 2 swaddler wearing, affectionate, curly fro fro having, eats like a man, 8 month old most gorgeous boy! I LOVE YOU KJ

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Almost 8 months but not yet....KJ has had 2 things going on in the span of a few days. Yesterday, he started clapping on his own no prodding.

He is STANDING even more steady now. He does over and over until he gets tired letting go like a fearless lil one. I think he will be walking by the end of the year. His first birthday is Jan 27th, 2009 so we shall see. KJ is also saying mama. Sweetest words a lady could ever hear . Especially since he skipped dada yay small victories for mommy!!! LOL He adores his father and waits to hear his rock a bye baby sung by daddy every night. I am so in love its crazy!!!

Photobucket Photobucket UPDATE 7.5 MONTHS KJ has 2 teeth showing and one on the way down.hip hip hooray! He does not know they are weapons yet so I can cheer the loudest! How big is KJ soooo big and getting into a new adventure every single day. He is standing by himself on the bed for a few minutes at a time. I swear this just came out of the blue one day. They grow tooo fast my lil booba was just a baby yesterday. Here is a picture that I took today. (see above) KJ is 7 months as of August 27th. I am loving the fact that this little one came into my life. I know that every child is a blessing, but I feel as if love is pouring out of me onto him. He is fully crawling now. This little one has good coordination.KJ also loves to rock back and forth and then tackle the object he is going for. He also sprouted his first TWO teeth.Bottom right and top right. YAY I feel sorry for my boobs, but I am happy that he has a teeth. He was drooling forever.I wanted to take professional pics of him before he got a tooth and low and behold I just squeaked it in. They are not the best pics as, they were a free promo from babies r us. However, its still a pic. I am going to take him back soon though.

I have a coupon for a free 8 x 10 .

He also had his first ride on the ferry last week and stayed in a hotel 2 weeks ago. He's a mover and a shaker.LOL The other things that KJ is doing include, whining, yes, whining in this horse kinda voice. Letting strangers know he is not going to smile just because they are smiling at him. Reaching to be picked up. Trying to feed himself while you are doing it. (makes me crazy) hanging out in his johnny jump up. Wrestling Cookie Monster. Taking long strolls with mommy. Cuddling between mommy and daddy. Being tickled. Giving wet drooly kisses. Pulling hair and trying to stand up while nursing. Yeah, you just gotta be there! LOL KJ is my afro rocking, bouncy butt,affectionate, size2, swaddler wearing, most gorgeous boy!

6.5 plus update (8-18-08)

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Soooo KJ is snoozing at the moment and I have just finished retwisting every single loc on my head. Wheeew! I am amazed that he did not wake once in the whole process! I am ever so greatful that he did not either, because its not something that you can just come back too once KJ gets into the groove. We (KJ and I ) are supposed to be traveling tonight and I have finally gotten all his things into a bag. Kendal, does not want me to travel with the stroller instead put KJ in the snuggli and hit the road(taking the bus) My stoller only weighs 12 pounds. KJ weighs almost 20. THE STROLLER GOES! LOL The bigger kids are off to FL for almost 2 weeks and KJ and I are spending time with daddy out of town for a few days. I guess we can catch up on some R&R/ couple time.

KJ has been doing some exciting things this week. Making serious faces at strangers as if to tell them to back away. He also has been trying his hand at leaping forward. Not crawling, but leaping like a frog. Hes laughing outloud more at his own and other peoples jokes. Giving wet drooly kisses to me and playing hide the bob from daddy! (you gotta be there) He is still eating like a man. Maybe, I should enter him in a pie eating contest lol. He is trying to take steps if you hold his hands. I snapped a pic of him trying his hand at cruising around the coffee table which I am selling soon as someone wants it. Nothing wrong with it just tired of it. his hair and nails are growing like weeds. Still gumming it and size 2 swaddling all the way, he is my most gorgeous boy!!!! Blessings and wet drooly kisses from KJ.

6 month update

KJ is expressing himself more and more these days. LOUDLY I might add! He knows for sure how to turn up the volume on his requests! He has even learned the fine art of fake crying to try and get his way. Sticking his tongue out and pretending to cough and cry. Is he for real? There were children before you this does not work young man! Grabbing and biting are his two of his favorite things. He is sitting up now, but mostly in tripod mode. Using a free hand to help him balance. He is also going forward crawling. No real speed attached to it yet. No teeth yet, but gumming everything in sight. KJ also loves to eat and rarely does he leave anything behind in the bowl. 17 pounds and 27 inches long he is so solid. Still rocking size 2 swaddlers, he is my most gorgeous boy!

5 month update

Soooooo KJ is still snoozing away on his 5 month birthday. That is great for me cause I have time to catch up with you...Yay. He is doing so much now. Besides rolling over, he is trying to sit up and is reaching for everything in his sight. His sense of humor is also expanding and he laughs at every single goofy song or face that I make up. However, his favorite is "I love you" I sing that when I want to bathe him and take his mind off things. Simple lyrics if you want to try 'em out for yourself. " I love you, I love you, I love you so much! I love you, I love you, I love you so much! I-LOVE-YOU! Then he busts out giggling. I wish that was all it took to make a mommy happy. Then again coming from a child it does! It's the daddy's that make us crazy!

He is still nursing (amen) That drives his daddy crazy cause he can't just pop a bottle in his mouth. KJ is very particular about where his food comes from. If he does not like it! Hmmmph you will hear about it loudly, I might add! I have been pumping with my Medela Swing. Still that is on no regular schedule because KJ likes it from the tap! I recently started him on rice cereal and breast milk. Some days are great and other days not so much! Yesterday he had two sep. servings in between nursing and some BM(breast milk) in a bottle.

When he is not eating, he is chewing on his BBQ fingers as I call them. He sure tears em up like they are covered in sauce. Since I have 3 other kids in the house, he is well entertained. For the next 5 days he will have all of them here to do it. Then...they go to camp. Hooray! (Do I sound excited?)

This weekend he will get to spend time with his sisters, (daddy's girls &my bonus babies. )That's right I'm a stepmother in training. All together we have 7.(yes, 7) beautiful children between us. KJ being #4 for both of us. Amen, there is no baby-mama-drama. I can't hang with crazy my temper is not built for that stuff.

UPDATE------->7-11-2008
I'm back ladies! Yeah, I found 5 minutes where I can try to update you on the KJ chronicles! He is eating a lot more cereal and fresh fruits these days. I mean scarfing it down like its going out of style. His daddy doesn't want him to stick his fingers in his mouth when he eats. Personally,I don't care what he does ...as long as he gets something in that belly. This week he has also learned that if he braces his feet against the bottom of the bouncy seat, he can slide upward. Mama was readjusting the straps quick fast when I saw that one. Believe you me he can move.
He is mostly rolling over and going backwards, but he makes his way to where he wants to be. I want to get him one of those activity chairs soon so that he can stand up and play. I hate that we don't have a Wal-mart close by : (
In other news the nursing is still going well. We won a free Playtex double breast pump from an online survey. After that, I filled out for a few more contests, so I will let you know how that goes. Now is the time to score summer clothes for next year for your little one.Be sure to check your online clearance. Retail is always a season ahead. My next venture is uniforms for all of my older kids 5th grade,3rd grade and Kindergarten! Hooray! You have to do that early here or you won't get the sizes that you want. I want to be locked stocked and barreled.
Can I share a secret with you ladies??? I miss being pregnant. Seems like to me that you get a lot more love when the bun is in the oven. Afterward, the focus shifts to the baby. I was talking to KJ's dad and he was saying that he felt like I did not have time for him. He has a management position so his hours vary. I'm home when not taking care of business outside the house. By the time he gets home the 3 older ones are usually almost in the bed and KJ may or may not be sleeping. However, he is still nursing and seems to know when daddy wants to be close to mommy. He starts to cry as if on cue. I expect it. I think daddy is still having a hard time adjusting .I made Thursday,date night. Last night did not go so well...What do you do to keep it spicy?





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luv.of.my.life. - Thursday, 13 November
This site is pretty good
its got some great baby shower games etc on it-hope it helps =)

http://www.babyshower101.com/baby_shower_games.html


joelisa - Thursday, 13 November
ya girl...your right...he keeps sayen that he cant wait till she gets a little bigger so he can bring her places. He is good with her I just want him to spend more time with her then his boys. Although I do understand that he just got out, he better not make a habit out of it. He did do good last night, he got up and made some bottles, so he made me proud. He just has to get used to it. I still cant believe that im a mother, it didnt hit me yet...I just feel like im babysitting


lil one mom - Thursday, 13 November
Oh my bad...I seen Jan on the pregnancy thing and didn't bother to look at the year....LOL! Yeah we have a one bedroom apartment until May 2010...I know...I family of four in a one bedroom is crazy but God will see us through.


hardlyshowing - Thursday, 13 November
http://www.creative-baby-shower-ideas.com/baby-shower-games.html

I got a lot of good ideas from this site


delanyssa - Thursday, 13 November
BABY SHOWER GAME SUGGESTIONS 1
NAME TAG GAME: Have name tags pre-numbered, draw
numbers and the number drawn wins a small plant.
PLATE GAME: Place a baby sticker on the inside of strong,
thick, paper plate, pass plates out to all guests, ask that they
keep them face down. Instruct them to turn over plates, who
ever has the sticker wins a price. On the same plates you can
also write a number, or use number stickers, draw a number
and the number drawn will win a small plant. Use the plates
for writing surfaces for games.
Q-TIP GAME: Fill up a baby bottle with Q-tips, pass the
bottle around to each guest. Have everyone write their guess
down, closet guess wins a prize.
NAME GAME: If the baby is already named, write the baby's
name down, (the meaning of the baby's name can also be
added.) Have each guest make as many words as possible
from the name. The person with the most words wins.
STRING GAME: For this game you'll need yarn and scissors.
Pass around the scissors and yarn (pastels colors are nice),
have each guest guess how long of a piece will wrap around
the mom to be's waist. Measure the yarn around the mom's
waist, cut and pass around to each guest to find the closest
one. The closest in length wins. This is a fun keepsake for the
baby book.


delanyssa - Thursday, 13 November
check out my Thanksgiving page....


Beauti - Thursday, 13 November
Well the ONLY game, we are having @ my shower is the baby pin game because that is all, we could think of. Perhaps you can do a search on google, and get some ideas from there?

*smoochies*
~Beauti


Anesha - Thursday, 13 November
How about the one where you take like four diapers and crush 4 different types of candy bars in it. You send the diapers around the room and the people have to write down what type of candy bar is in each one by smelling them or by what it looks like. They write on a sheet of paper diaper #1 - Snickers, diaper#2- Almond Joy, diaper#3 - Hersheys and diaper #4 - Twix.


ihave6kids - Thursday, 13 November
look how big christopher has gotten,look at him riding his first pony






HaveFaith050108 - Thursday, 13 November
This is one cool one that we played at my shower. You get about 7 or 8 volunteers to stand in a circle and here is the link to show you how to play. Hope it works out for you cause we had a ball with it. Let me know how it goes if you decide to use it.

http://www.any-occasion-free-christian-game.com/printable-left-right-baby-shower-game.html


lil one mom - Thursday, 13 November
DANG!! All this time and I didn' t even realize number 5 is on the way...congrats....Who knows mom is a great game for baby showers...go to google in type in baby shower games...there are many people who think about this little things for us.


luvnyou247 - Wednesday, 12 November
we played bby shower bingo, and did like unscramble words that deal with the baby, we did the clothes b\pin game where u can't say baby or u give up ur pins, the baby food game where u guess what food it is...


mom-of-4 - Wednesday, 12 November
Here's a site that I found...hope it helps....

http://www.babyshower101.com/baby_shower_games.html


mom-of-4 - Wednesday, 12 November
Some games that was played at my shower was:

1) poopy diaper - it was a lot of napkins but 1 out of the bunch had some mustard in the middle and who ever got it won a prize...the napkins were folded like a diaper with a small safety pin attached.

2) guess the size of the mother's belly - everyone was given a chance to guess how big my stomach was, they used a plastic roll out thingy...but I've seen people use toilet paper

This was just 2 games...the person that did my shower had a couple more games....I cannot remember all


lilmissk - Wednesday, 12 November
I'm probably not much help since I've only been to one shower. I remember doing a word search that was baby related. Besides that, I can't remember. Sorry.


4timesthelove - Wednesday, 12 November
If there is anyone that could suggest some baby shower games that would be great!!! Shower is on Sat.


joelisa - Wednesday, 12 November
I am so happy that Im not pregnant anymore, and Im so happy that I am holding her in my arms. I dont get much sleep and Juan is no help although he dose love her. I am so blessed to have such a beautiful daughter. How is the famz?


TheMommyOfAngels - Wednesday, 12 November
heyy ladies.
todays been a rough day...

its a year since i gave birth to my twins and my son died that same day. im goin nuts... n ive had lots of pain from the baby puttin pressure so im trying not to drive myself nuts and put myself in early labor!

please keep my lil man and i in ur prayers
things are starting to look up... and im hoping God is blessing us in so many ways...

xoxo.

RiP My Little Ones. Mommy misses you...


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