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AshleyAnn116
AshleyAnn116 has 39 days to go and is now in week 34
	Age: 21 Country: US Province/region: City: Crookston Partner: Not anymore... Children: Pregnant: Yes Due date: 25 Jun ,2008 Occupation: Addiction Counselor/Skating Coach
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My name is Ashley and I am pregnant with my first baby. It was a complete shocker at first because this wasn't planned as I was on the pill, but now I would like to consider this a blessing. My boyfriend was a little shocked at first but now we are both excited. My parents were upset at first but excited to be grand parents again! This will be their third grandchild and his parent's first. So far my pregnancy has been fairly easy no morning sickness and barely tired!! I really have been counting my blessings!!

Thursday, 31 Jan

January 30th-Wel I went to the doctor today and it was the first time my boyfriend came with. I felt so bad for the guy he looked white like a ghost!! The doctor said everything was running along smoothly. I have only gained 6 lbs!! I thought I would have gained much more but I am very happy with that number. We go for an ultrasound on Feb 6th to find out what the little darling is! Yikes! I am so excited! I also got to hear the heartbeat today which was music to any mothers ears! For some reason I just feel so much better when I hear the heartbeat!

Thursday, 7 Feb

February 6, 2008-Well we went for the big Ultrasound. It was the first one I ever had! I am so suprised I didnt cry! We found out the little darling is a GIRL!!! She was quite the stinker though! She was curled in a ball, had her legs crossed and had her hand between her legs! Finally she moved and we got to see! She looked so beautiful!! Her heart rate was 146 and she weighed a whopping 12 oz! I am so proud of her. My mom and boyfriend came with thank goodness! Justin and I have decided on the name Teegan Grace. I really love the name Grace and would love to have a little Gracie running around but I will settle with Grace for a middle name. I go back to the doctor on the 27th!

Thursday, 21 Feb

2-20-08So Friday is my birthday..the big 2-1 whoot whoot. Anyways I dont know if i am just being hormonal or what but on Friday I had planned my family and a few friends to go eat at a restaurant where your meal is free on your birthday. Anyways my best friend cant go because she planned a shopping trip for that weekend because she figured I cant go out and drink so she would do somethine else. Who cares if I cant drink. I still feel I am a fun girl without the booze. And then I was talking with my mother and she said she can `t come because she does foster care and has extra kids. Wow imagine that! It wouldnt be the first time my mother hasnt been able to make it to family functions because of kids. I mean I know what she is doing is for a good cause but sometimes it would just be nice to have my mom to myself. Selfish I know but since I have been pregnant we have become ALOT closer! My boyfriend doesnt want to come because he would rather go to the bar with his friends (he is 23). I would rather just forget its my birthday! I dont know if I am just being very hormonal right or what? I hope I start to get better an better `tude by the time the big bad b-day comes!

Thursday, 21 Feb

Oh ya and I just went to High School Musical on Ice....I really miss my skating body...but I know this little girl is totally worth it in the end!

April 2nd-Just went to my dr appointment today. I gained 10 lbs in 1 month! YIKES! My total weight gain so far has only been about 22 lbs but I just wish it would have been a tad more even throughout. Everything looked well! Heartbeat sounded amazing! I have am going to have another ultrasound in about a month and I can't wait to see my little girl! I had my glucose test today so I am hoping everything turns out well. I have been on a house hunt but have had no so luck with finding 'the' house. I feel like I have plenty of time but my how these 28 weeks has flown by!! Hopefully I will find something soon!

April 12th, 2008

OH my! Its been quite awhile since i have updated on here! Well where to begin? I went to the doctor last week and I have gained 10 lbs in 1 month. That means my total weight gain is 22 lbs which isnt bad but it was just shocking that 10 lbs in 1 month! Holy! Well my boyfriend decided that we are better off just as friends, and of course being hormonal i have been having a really hard time with it. Lately we havent really been getting along but he works 8-4:30ish and I work 12:30-9pm and it just was getting to be a hassle because we would never communicate because either he was tired or I was tired. Well so he called and told me he thinks we are just better off as friends and I was kind of in shock, I knew that we kind of needed some time apart between us both being stubborn and me being hormonal, but this was something I wasnt ready for. I told him how I didnt feel he needed to spend $80 at the bar every Friday night and he said it was his money not mine but i just gently reminded him that $80 is 4 days of daycare here. And he has been spending alot of time and money there. I guess I dont care about me, I just care about our baby. He tells me he is excited to be a dad but everytime i show him something that i have boughten he just rolls his eyes and says a smart ass comment. Well i just quit fighting because i dont want to be with somebody who doesnt want to be with me. I finally poured my heart out to him saying how since I was 14 ( you know how it is ladies when you are 14 and the first guy that says your cute! your totally in love with...) (plus we have been dating on and off for 7 years. We stopped dating when he went to college and then when i did) I had dreamed of having a family with him and be married and spend my life with him. And now being pregnant, I thought this was kind of a sign from God. Well the only thing he told me was that dreams dont come true! I was crushed. I didnt go to work on Wednesday because I was to busy having an emotional breakdown and there was no way I could have met with my clients and tried to help them improve their lives. He came to get his stuff and I put the ring he gave me (the June birthstone) in a bag. He said for me to keep it but I honestly cant because everytime I look at I start to cry. He said that it looks good on my finger and its mine. Well I told him it was mine but no longer is mine. I told him he can give it to our daughter (if he doesnt lose it) when she is old enough. I also bought a house today by myself. It was something we were supposed to go together but not anymore. Its just a perfect starter home for me and my daughter. Thats the one good thing that has happened. Well that and feeling my daughter move all the time!

May 6th, 2008

Last friday I went to the dr and they weighed me in at 158. So far that is a total weight gain of 28lbs. Not to bad I feel. I asked my doctor about having a cough in the morning and at night. He told me that I get acid reflux in my sleep and need to start taking Prilosec. Other than that he told me everything was going wonderful and so far he had no concerns. I didnt really have any concerns. I start going back to the dr every two weeks now. I just got a call from my bank on my house. The owners have to fix the paint on the exterior and add shingles to part of the house and something with the basement. I hope they get it done by the original closing date of May 15th! I have recruited my friends to help me paint since I can't do that and I have this schedule of when things need to be done. I would like to get Teegan's room done and everything set up. My nesting is starting to kick in and I think my dad is tired of me overcleaning his house. I would like to use nesting as an advantage to get my new house ready!!

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kandyseandbrandon - Friday, 9 May
More than welcome.I agree with you by taking it day by day and doing what you feels is right for you and your child. It's never an easy thing but I hope that all goes well for you.

kandyseandbrandon - Thursday, 8 May
Do what's right for your baby. My mother had 4 of us and was only married to my father. My brothers both got her last name and my sister got her father's last name. The same thing happened w/ my cousins, they gave their babies their last name (since they weren't married or in a committed relationship with the father). Think hard about it cause and if he gets made that you give the baby your name, he's gonna have to get over it. You are going to make your own decision but I think it's best to be civil with him but don't put yourself in a situation where you end up feeling used or dumb in the end.

yari - Thursday, 8 May
Yuck!!! Well, I have had baby daddy drama (not while pregnant) but still have had it. Labor is pretty intense, you really won't have the time nor the energy to be worried about someone who is going to bring you stress. Think about how YOU want to remember the day. Do you want to be able to tell the baby that "daddy" was there and he did this or that as in your perfect world scenario, or maybe more realistically on how it is going to go down. If he wants to be there for the baby's birth, I would treat it like a meeting (easier said than done) such as what is the number you absolutely will answer, do you care what time it is (has he already planned on taking a day or so off?) Ask does he want to be there for labor/delivery, or once the baby is born to visit. Also, no matter how things end up, don't use the baby to get thing here nor there, both of you. If he wants to help, let him, why do it alone if you don't have too? Also even if you two get back together, you are gonna think you do things better than him (cause well you are mom lol) but if he wants visits etc.. use your judgement but don't be all against it, I would try to agree on an age, such as one year blah blah. I am a good baby mama, I don't have time for the drama and my son is now 10 and he still asks why we broke up, I do not say, because i didn't like him or whatever, keep it positive as that person is the reason he is here. My husband does not have a nice baby mama and it infuriates me how she thinks because she gave birth she is better than everyone else....don't be that person =) whew, sorry, just a passion of mine since I am living both sides =D! Good luck!!!

chastin - Monday, 5 May
well I have been having a sharp pain from the middle of my lower belly all the way down to my girlie area last week. When I went to the doctor friday I asked her about it and she said its probably just the baby getting more stronger and kicking harder or sitting on a nerve....she couldnt really give me a for sure answer but told me not to worry about it too much.

NumberFive - Friday, 2 May
omg what a jerk......... thats all u need at 7 months pregnant, not trhat stress, men are such jerks
yeah nothing worse then feeling huige and seeingallt hese hot skinny women around, I hear ya, my an hasnt got caught looking yet, but I know he does!
yeah theya re nice the 3d's but man the price is so much $, I want another one so bad, but I really cant afford it! And i did have one, but I was impatient and had it at 23 wks, lol I want one now at 32 wks!
omg ur so lucky i wanted to rent pne but i couldnt afford it!(dobbler) wellt hats awsoe always knowing where the baby is and what posittion, cause dr tell u nothing

NumberFive - Thursday, 1 May
oh and that sucks u cant post pcs:(
Was it clear and was the head down, see all i seen at 28 wks was a back of a head that was bklack darka nd blurry, real exciting, i was so disapointed,,,,, and i was so lookking foward to it, I want to get another 3d one done but they are so much $$$$$$$$$$$

NumberFive - Thursday, 1 May
sperm donor ha ha i love it, oh we need counceliing, i gues si am a lil controling, but he lies alot tocover his ass,and its hard, never cheated butlies about dumb things like cell phones and stupid shit,like were 12..........errrrrr
so are u and him broken up>

NumberFive - Wednesday, 30 April
thanks, well I am not so strong I think i am giving in and letting him home tonight:(omg do u ave pics from ur u/s i so wanna see them
I will be 32 wks on Friday, so u are a dya ahead of me!!!!!!!!!!!!11kk I am gonna go look on ur profile for some pics!lol

NumberFive - Tuesday, 29 April
good for u for being strong, I dont know how u do it, my bf and I of 6 yrs and 4 kids , well 3 are his just kinda had one of them yesterday and i cryed all day,e ven know it was sorta more me, I cought himieing baout soething petty and it killed me, I am so not strong, and itshard seeing all oar fam pics on walla nd all is shit here when we are clearly not tlaking....
Well anyhow hang in there and good for u , I wish I could buy a house!!!!!!

NumberFive - Tuesday, 29 April
i was reading ur comment on wk 31, same palce i am?!!
well how many wks were u when she weighed that much? 4 lbks I think...I had one at 28 wks and mine was 3lbs
Teeagan I love that name

Rachel918 - Tuesday, 29 April
Hey,
For every pound you gain your baby gets half of that until you deliver.. So we should be gaining 1 pound a week and baby gets half a pound so she will be gaining around another 4 pounds give or take and 8 for us.. I liked the name you picked thats really cute:) good luck

kara8385 - Monday, 28 April
Thanks for the suggestions! I will try the towel in my middle back. I have a shelf underneath my desk, but I never thought of using that as a stool. I will ahve to remember to put my feet up there. Thanks again!!

jamfam - Friday, 25 April

zani0321 - Thursday, 24 April
Hi there sweaty
Im really sorry to hear about you and your bf, but we all are here for you and your babba :) And we be here whenever you just want to talk or a shoulder (screen) to cry on :) LOL Hope you feeling better.

Good luck with the rest of your pregnancy - not long anymore :)

sexymama021 - Thursday, 24 April
Aww... I'm so sorry your bf just wanted to be "friends". That is horrible. Men are just stupid, aren't they? I have quite a few single mom friends and they do just fine, so don't you worry girl, and keep your head up. I'm sure you will be a wonderful mommy.

mayxanh - Wednesday, 23 April

youlook adorable. broke my heart to know that and your bf are not together any more....I know he will come back., and he needs to change. He will be a father soon......I think you guys too young....take your time honey. And the best thing in the World that you have your daughter....congratulations on your house too. ...you're dong a great job.

boomum - Thursday, 17 April
I think the smell is just to do with hormonal changes.I keep baby wipes in the bathroomand have a little clean every time i go to the loo and i also wear scented panty liners....i don't think theres much more we can do!Only 10 more weeks though!

Wigles16 - Thursday, 17 April
I'd call your doctor you might have an infection, I thought I smelled too but I guess my boyfriend says I don't he's pretty honest...maybe we can smell it because we have such a strong nose but I'd have your doctor do a pap smear just to make sure the bacteria down there isnt out of wack

coolwoman206 - Thursday, 17 April
Yes, there is a smell down there because we can't douce while we are pregnant. I have tried every thing ttheir is to make the smell go away, so what I have been doing is taking showers twice a day, bought some femine wash and spray to take the smell away and it seems to be working.

HppyMomToBeRS - Thursday, 17 April
You may just be more sensitive to smell as will. I did ask my doctor about this and he does not notice anything but like you I can smell it as will. I also sweat a lot down there as will so maybe that can be apart of it. I notice if I take my underear off it does not smell as well and I use the feminine wipes to help with that as will. I know it is embarassing to have this to.

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